Hey! I'm new. Dropped in to gain some knowledge. I just recently started working for a new restaurant (3wks). One of the guys I work with immediately took an interest in me. He's a Cancer. Was flirtatious right away. I reciprocated and one night after closing we went to get breakfast. The entire time at Breakfast he was really flirtatious, staring at me through most of it, talkative and genuinely excited to be near me. I reciprocated during breakfast as well. I dropped him off at his place and as I did he asked me to come in. I knew the game and wanted to but it was 5 am and I needed to get home. I declined he was disappointed but it didn't stop him from continuing to peruse me the next day. I was coming in for my shift and he was leaving. We said our hello' s and were cute about it and he left. I didn't work with him again until our paths crossed again today. When he came in I said Hi in my usual girly flirtatious way and he had a pretty cheeky smile. I kept walking to the computer. I'm a pisces so I too pick up on energy and I'm really sensitive to body language and facial cues. I felt like something was off immediately. He went on working. I finished what I was doing and asked if I could help him get set up for tonight. "Sure" and I proceeded to help out. Figuring I could just be around him and gauge him like that.. that didn't play out. It was shift change so everyone came up to us. He was distracted right away. After we set up I stood where I normally stand next to the bar typically he'll wander over and start talking to me. Today he decided I wasn't all that interesting. I left it alone and as I was clocking out his bar mate came up and said Hello. Asked how my shift was and that he hears I went out with another waitress that we work with after work last night. This brought my Cancer guy into the convo. He asked about what we did and if we had fun. Drink tickets popped up and he went on about his business. I lingered a little longer and after the drinks were made he went on to something else. I'm trying to figure out why I'm being iced right now. We havent seen eachother in almost a week and normally hes just as excited as I am. He was playful with everyone and cordial with me. He asked if I w as working tonight and made small talk but it wasn't fluid like normal. Like I said.. I'm a pisces so I understand water signs are moody for no reason all the time but just need another opinion. Is this part of the game or is he over the chase? (This will probably not go further than a FWB thing so I'm not looking for relationship and do this to fall in love type of advice.)
