Am I being to crabby

So i have met a female and do like her. when i asked her out she said yes, on the day we were supposed to go out she was else where and when she came back to the city we live in she was not feeling well so she said she couldn't make it, i wasnt to pleased but i said some other day and we agreed to that. then about a week later i asked if she wanted to be my gf because i heard from someone she was confused as to what we were so i wanted her to know that i am interested in something more serious then a simple fling or just use being friends. she said that it was to soon to, but yes and said i was cute... so there have been times btw then and now where ive asked if she wanted to hang out and she said she wasnt feeling good, however i did end up meeting her parents which was a decent drive away, about 2 hours. today she had some place she had to go to and another long drive to make however when she left she didnt say goodbye or anything just took off so i texted her to let her know i wasnt to happy about it. she appologised explained why which i understood but even a simple bye would have been nice.

I feel she does like me, she does get blushy, says im cute, and other things but mainly through texts :s. but ido wish that she would give me a little more time to actually hangout with each other rather then texting back and forth because i feel that when shes not feeling good she pushes me away a bit which i dont really like. we are in school in the same class and have communicated with each other what we have about things between us. we also have kissed making out but havent gone any farther on her part which i don't really mind. I dont want to spend every waking hour with her and do need my own time as she does.

What are your opinions on this? Am i being to crabby, should i wait. she does show interest and seems to have opened up. just a little ticked about today but ive gotten over it. thanks

Also we're not in high school, in post secondary and she did say she does tend to be busy and works during school. this i understand but this only texting thing is something i am slowly lossing interest in and at some point i will ask again but this time i will move on because i don't really want to be strung along. it feels like i am

No time for yo shiznit there CC. and no not a virgo

Sounds like she is being distant for one reason or another.

Give it time, dude, and let her come to you.

Don't text her for a while, and see if she texts you first.

I'm not a big fan of that approach scorpfish but when things do go quiet she does text me and sometimes i do.

Posted by whatdoesthecrabsay
I'm not a big fan of that approach scorpfish but when things do go quiet she does text me and sometimes i do.

Alright, well, just pace yourself then.

If you move too much and too fast, it might make her less interested in you.

Let her do most of the contacting for a while and see what she says, since you have done almost too much yourself at this point.

well done inspector gadget

Aqua + Cancer = Pure Hell

I'm quoting this from another thread in this forum.

Man judging by what i read, it seems like she's making to many excuses not to hang out with you. If she is feeling as bad as she claims she is, she wouldn't be out driving no where if she had to. Her azz would be at home talking to you until she feels better. Plus i wouldn't recommend the texting either. Try talking on the phone more. If she can't hang out by this weekend, even a small lunch date, then i wouldn't worry about her man. She could at least re schedule. Her actions show she don't care

So like ScorpioFish say, stop working, & let her do some of the work. Remember, if she cares, her actions will reflect that. I know you feel bad, & believe me, i been in this kinda situation many times. If she won't put the work in for this partnership, let her go before you end up too stressed. You done a lot, so see if does the same for you. Don't blame yourself for her lack of effort. Give it a couple of days & try calls only for now on. This should help 🙂. Try praying as well

Well CC, i think it depends on the individuals themselves. Both people have to want the same kind of love or at least try working towards it.

Posted by VirgoDragirl
Aqua + Cancer = Pure Hell

I'm quoting this from another thread in this forum.

I'ma hafta second that, unfortunately. All the Aquarians I know are very standoffish and 'head-y' (i.e., not very emotional) -- they like having sort of loosey-goosey type relationships, not very committed or romantic at all. Which is fine for air signs, but would be hell for me and probably the other water signs as well (except you whoredog pisceans 😛)...

If she's an Aquarius you gotta find peace and love oh, and understanding, witihin yourself. For yourself. We are all kinds of nuts!!

if you can be patient with her and willing to have a slooooooooooowwwwwwwww moving thing in the beginning till she trusts you much enough...it works. just do your man job in a very self confident way.

and don't get caught in that stupid excuse "aquas lack emotions"...it is very wrong...we don't know how to handle them, this is true...and here is where the other has to be strong and smart to help/teach us face and assume feelings. i don't know if you are patent enough for this.

on the other hand, it is true i am speaking as an earthy aqua involved with an airy cancer. this combos might count very much.

good luck

oh...and yes, at the beginning of a relationship i feel more comfortable texting because it gives me time to process my feelings and emotions...phone calls only after i have declared my feelings and have become comfortable enough with you...

My first guess was Aqua xD damn it Aquas! can't get their sh!t straight *facepalm*

update: still felt like I was being strung along, told her I like her in person and she just mumbled it back. @mz I think that the aquas lack emotion is an excuse to be honest. I realize people need time to trust each other, but I wasn't seeing a lot of effort on her part.
Last night there was a party and I didn't say Hi or talk to her. I wanted to see if she would approach me. she didnt really do anything, at one point she came into the same room I was in but left soon after. I left the party and get texts after I leave that I didnt stay long and I could have said hi.

I know it was a dick move but i wanted to see her actions, everyone else said hi to me at the party though

Posted by whatdoesthecrabsay
update: still felt like I was being strung along, told her I like her in person and she just mumbled it back. @mz I think that the aquas lack emotion is an excuse to be honest. I realize people need time to trust each other, but I wasn't seeing a lot of effort on her part.
Last night there was a party and I didn't say Hi or talk to her. I wanted to see if she would approach me. she didnt really do anything, at one point she came into the same room I was in but left soon after. I left the party and get texts after I leave that I didnt stay long and I could have said hi.

I know it was a dick move but i wanted to see her actions, everyone else said hi to me at the party though

sorry...very aqua approach[if you can call it "approach"]...yeah, you'll have to pursue her for a while if you really want sth to happen. and challenge her. for a while she won't put any effort in it.

if you were an "anybody", she wouldn't have noticed you didn't say hi...

i apologise for my aqua fellows...but as my cancer said once "i feel like playing the lottery with you...i put my "money" there without knowing if i lose or win"...and he is pretty much right...this is how the beginning with an aqua is...a lottery...

anyway, if you withdraw a little and she comes after you, it means she is at least interested.

Posted by mz

Posted by whatdoesthecrabsay
update: still felt like I was being strung along, told her I like her in person and she just mumbled it back. @mz I think that the aquas lack emotion is an excuse to be honest. I realize people need time to trust each other, but I wasn't seeing a lot of effort on her part.
Last night there was a party and I didn't say Hi or talk to her. I wanted to see if she would approach me. she didnt really do anything, at one point she came into the same room I was in but left soon after. I left the party and get texts after I leave that I didnt stay long and I could have said hi.

I know it was a dick move but i wanted to see her actions, everyone else said hi to me at the party though

sorry...very aqua approach[if you can call it "approach"]...yeah, you'll have to pursue her for a while if you really want sth to happen. and challenge her. for a while she won't put any effort in it.

if you were an "anybody", she wouldn't have noticed you didn't say hi...

i apologise for my aqua fellows...but as my cancer said once "i feel like playing the lottery with you...i put my "money" there without knowing if i lose or win"...and he is pretty much right...this is how the beginning with an aqua is...a lottery...

anyway, if you withdraw a little and she comes after you, it means she is at least interested.

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been two months.