Any Cancer girls have experience w/Sagittarius men

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by JulyBug on Monday, January 12, 2015 and has 6 replies.
I'm a Cancer woman (40) and have been online chatting on and off with a Sag guy (44) for 3 months.
Met him on a dating site. We have good conversations and have similar interests etc.
This Sag doesn't flirt at all and I'm finding that very confusing. We've both said that we are not looking for any serious dating or relationship at this time. But I'm not sure why he keeps talking with me if he has, what appears to be, no interest in even casual dating.
I definitely find him attractive and enjoy talking with him, but I'd like to take the next step and meet up in person.
I hinted at possibly meeting for a coffee and he responded that he would like to do that too. Unfortunately he ended up being unexpectedly busy over the weekend and the coffee meet up never happened.
Also, he can sort of 'disappear' for a few days at a time. This is no biggie to me as we're not in a relationship or anything, but it's just so random and also confusing. Then he'll pop back up and be all chatty again and asking questions and telling me about his activities etc.
Are Sag guys typically shy? Do they wait for a girl to make the moves?
I'm not sure if I'm going to ask him out properly, don't want to put myself in that position really.
BTW: I should add that he is the one who always initiates conversations.
Posted by Claro

Sagittarians are usually fast paced and full on when dating.
He is probably acting so casual because he doesn't have any interest in a relationship.


I can understand that.
He is involved in a major project that takes up a huge amount of his time and energy. The project is what he always talks to me about. He did mention a while back that the dating scene wasn't working too well for him because of lack of time and that he found it impossible to find a woman who could understand, accept or appreciate what he was doing.
This Sag doesn't flirt at all and I'm finding that very confusing. We've both said that we are not looking for any serious dating or relationship at this time. But I'm not sure why he keeps talking with me if he has, what appears to be, no interest in even casual dating.
It appears as if he is acting like a man who is taking his good ol time dating. He's being friendly and chatting.
Are Sag guys typically shy? Do they wait for a girl to make the moves?
I'm not sure if I'm going to ask him out properly, don't want to put myself in that position really.

No, not shy at all. Were hunters, we hunt for what we want. Just wait. If he wants you, you will know it.
Posted by DMV
This Sag doesn't flirt at all and I'm finding that very confusing. We've both said that we are not looking for any serious dating or relationship at this time. But I'm not sure why he keeps talking with me if he has, what appears to be, no interest in even casual dating.
It appears as if he is acting like a man who is taking his good ol time dating. He's being friendly and chatting.
Are Sag guys typically shy? Do they wait for a girl to make the moves?
I'm not sure if I'm going to ask him out properly, don't want to put myself in that position really.

No, not shy at all. Were hunters, we hunt for what we want. Just wait. If he wants you, you will know it.


He's very friendly and comes across as reserved. He is polite and well mannered. All qualities that I find attractive and alluring.
I'm happy with the way things are going (or not going), I just didn't want to be missing any clues or signals smile
He has dropped a few very subtle hints here and there. I can see him as being a good friend, we share the same passion about a mutual hobby and have good conversations. Thanks for the feedback!!
Yeah I think he may not be so interested. Maybe talking online for 3 months can get boring. Cancer female and Sag seem to make an intense, power couple. My cancer friends ex was crazy (literally) in love with her before and after the breakup. He still loves her and tries to please her. If it wasn't for her pushing him away constantly, they would be together. He is on that woman like white on rice. Go see him in person and things might change.