Aqua male/Cancer female

Hitting = no chance.
Cheating = go find someone else.
Verbal/emotional abuse and threats = Leave her alone.
Lying = it depends.

yeah...there's a lot you can do:
1. learn your lesson
2. learn your lesson
3. learn your lesson

next time you find a great woman remember you are not the only man on this planet. you may be important to that woman...but you are not the only one, so treat her accordingly

Damn ya'll don't even know why it got messed up lol!?

Can the man at least explain himself?

Whatever, I don't think I'm helping buddy... I'm Aquarius too and a male sooooo my comments are obviously going to be perceived as biased.

I screwed up one of mine too. Nope had nothing to do with cheating, hitting, or lying really. Just being kinda irresponsible due to the pressure she put me under. I got her back in the end but sadly I was disappointed when I realized she was more interested in the idea of marriage then me really.

My advice man... don't beat yourself up about it. Unless of course you did do what some of these ladies accused you of doing .... but even then you gotta learn to forgive yourself to live again. Not even she can do that for you.

She left you. Never forget... she left you. You didn't leave her. If its meant to be she'll come back. But you need to consider it over or its going to eat you alive on the inside lol.

Posted by Aquaneverletgo
Well thanks man, those are better words, and no I didn't hit her or neither abused of her, but the fact of a supposed cheating is in the mix, nothing really happened and I can assure that with my life, but it was an old email that she found, she didn't believe me and took the easiest way out, didn't care for my explanations or anything I could do or say, but well it is what it is I guess. I'm much better now but I was just wondering how "cancers" think you know

Well that right there alone ought to tell you how you should deal with it. If you never done anything wrong and a women jumps to conclusions about something like that without any signs of it... She is probably just looking for a reason to validate her decision to leave because she's not happy.

Cancer's typically don't mesh that well with Aquas or even Capricorns If I had to guess. Those two signs are all about control of emotions and cancers are all about freely expressing theirs. Both traits are admirable in there own way. A Good mix with moderation of the two would be perfect.

And your wanting to know why cancers think they know... I'd say they are often right a lot more then they are wrong. They're intuition about who you are and how you feel underneath is pretty uncanny... Most water signs have this trait.

I doubt she really thought anything was really happening. She probably was just not getting enough validation of love and passion from you I guess.

Although, couldn't she just read the time stamp on the e-mail and know it was old ^.^?