Aquarius completely heartbroken by a Cancer

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by lillie76 on Monday, December 27, 2010 and has 3 replies.
Hello all!
I've been reading this board for a while and finally decided to sign up. I need some advice, badly! I'm heartbroken because of a Cancer male and he doesn't even care. I finally decided to talk to him after not seeing him for a while and asked him if he remembered my crush on him, I was too chicken to tell him myself so I got a friend to ask for me and before she told him who it was that liked him, he said my name. I've read almost everywhere that Cancers have excellent memories so when he said he couldn't remember me liking him I knew it was a lie.
I remember how he barely spoke to me and just stared afterwards. He said he knew it was me "because of how I acted around him" and that he "would go out with me but he won't." I was so embarassed by the whole thing that I didn't speak to him either. He never initiates conversation with me, and when we do talk, he answers with no more than 5 words. He talks to other people online all the time but ignores me when I say a simple hello.
I realized that he would reply quicker before I told him again that I thought he was attractive and that we should hang out sometime (oh, and he quickly logged off too). So is he just not interested or what? I wish he would just be straightforward. It's been 4 months of this. I don't have to initiate conversation with other people all the time. It's just really annoying that my messages don't go through or he just didn't read them and swears he's not ignoring me (when I called him out on it)but he can play a numbers game and receive people's messages but not mine. I'm hurt and confused, any thoughts?
I've liked Aquarians before, but it just doesn't work at all. You're social, popular, aloof, you have close friends, it doesn't look like there's any room for a needy crab.
Thanks for your comments, time to move on.

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