Aquarius Relationship experience?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by gemini1689 on Wednesday, August 31, 2011 and has 4 replies.
k so, Im a gem with my venus in cancer.. im very emotional. ive been with my aqua for 4.5 yrs.. but hes current on his 'disappearing act' its been a week and im going nuts..and i cnt help but cry n be so emotional all the time Sad
have any of u cancers exp this with aquarius??
I'm an aqua with a cancer,we're together since 8 and a half months.And it's a very hard relationship,but it works for us and it's worth it ,we're happy with each othersmile , I accept the fact that he's jelous , and he accepts my personality.I never did a disappearing act on him cause he works all over the country and I see him every second weekend during spring/summer , and after a routine like that going on for 2-3 months he gets to stay home a few weeks,so I get enough of my "alone-time" and when he's home,I never miss the chance to see him smile, during winter he doesn't work that much.
And I as an aqua,learned to show my emotions and give up on my disappearing acts. smile
Hi gemini1689,
I'm a cancer female and I've been with my aqua for 3 months now. For sure, it's not easy sometimes, but so worth it. The only piece of advice I would give someone dating an aqua is to leave them some space. It's ok to have emotions, but with an aqua, you have to be careful. Emotional outbursts are not really their cup of coffee. Learning to leave him space was really hard for me to learn the first month, but now, I actually love it. If you want it to work, don't get clingy or he might run away like hell from you. Plus, it shows emotional maturity and safety to be able to have your own life when the other is not around. You don't want to show the image of a desperate girl who's crying her eyes out when her BF is busy for a few days. I also found out that aquas need to think a lot. He might be thinking things over, and it's not necessarily negative. So, please, relax. Do you while he is in his cave and hopefully, things will get better soon.
Good luck.
S.
Gemini Female and Aquarius Male are a perfect matchup. Aqaurius brings fun spontanous events to the Gemini girl.
as for Cancer and Aquarius, we usually are super good at seeing through their games and they usually laugh at how good
we can see when they are trying to quietly manipulate something because us Cancers are the absolute best at it smile