Are we broken up and can I get him back

I have been with this cancer guy for 4 months now. I love him I really do but he never asked me out just told me he loved me and called himself my boyfriend. I was very very guarded in the beginning because of my past relationship with a Scorpio man. But this cancer guy just made me happy, he made all my worries go away, he made me laugh, I felt free with him, I met his parents and they seemed to really love me. We are young but we talked about being married and having children together and then one day he said "if it's you I have kids with" about a month later he just went cold and we haven't spoken in a week. I have tried to contact him and ask what is going on and I spoke to him in kind of a mean tone. Then before his race a few days later I told him good luck because even though I had been very mad I meant it and wanted him to know I cared. 3 days later he posted a picture asking if anyone wanted to hangout but I wasn't in town and I figured he didn't want to talk to me anyway, I woke up this morning and he unfollowed me on snapchat, and Instagram so I sent him a message apologizing for acting like a bitch and telling him how much I care and would do anything for him but still no response. I heard cancer men usually come back and me and his ex used to be friends and they broke up and got back together multiple times and their relationship was horrible compared to ours. Please tell me what I should do? Is he coming back?

Maybe when he run out of options. But I don't understand, he never ask you out but you've met his parents?

@Vageenka that's how I felt all week but I feel like if he doesn't come right out and say it then maybe that was a way to get my attention or he doesn't really want to break up and he wants me to fight but I feel like he also needs space. I know he cares deeply for everyone he let's in which is why I still think we can work things out if he learns how to communicate but he has been dropping hints about this the whole time

@Pisces1803 I'm not trying to be rude but I really don't think he has other options. Where we live there isn't many of the type of girl he likes. Plus I feel like this is so petty and that we can work things out bc that's just the type of person I am but he has said things like "I hope we never fight" "when I'm mad I'm very heartless" and I've seen his temper when provoked constantly in public so I'm just trying to give him space and hope he realizes what he is missing and I'm not sure if it's the best idea but we have a lot of mutual friends and I know they will tell him how he's messed up and I hope he sees that

Well his Ex is an option...if he keeps running back to her..

How do you have a relationship when he never ask you out? How do you interact? Do you do things together? Or just talk and Skype etc..

@Pieces1803 from what I know they really hate each other and I know they have no contact because she moved many states away and has a new boyfriend. He never actually said "will you be my girlfriend" but he did kiss me the second time we were with each other and I guess that was his way of saying we were official bc we had a conversation through a friend and he said that was the night he decided we were together. And we saw each other at school, and hung out pretty much every weekend. I let him have his space and tried not to smother him because he was so busy but he always made time for me on the weekends and whenever we saw each other.

@Vageenka this has happened in the past but he came out and apologized because the situation was personal on his part and he was feeling less of a man after we hung out one night. I have read giving them space and time to be mad and miss you works 95% of the time but I also know how cruel he can be to save himself from feeling things. We will have to see each other a lot and I hope his close friends tell him what he is missing and he comes back