Aries and Cancers? Any experciences?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by truecap on Thursday, February 28, 2013 and has 11 replies.
My BFF is a Cancer and she has an Aries boyfriend. She asked me to try to find out what this combination is like. So, anyone have any experience here?
Please, be honest - good or bad? PM me if you don't want to post it here.
Thanks in advance.
Please, be honest - good or bad? PM me if you don't want to post it here.
Thanks in advance.
Very, very bad. Honestly, it is just lust. There is just great physical attraction in the beginning and it ends there. We have nothing in common. Aries are brash, blunt, and insensitive. They love attention and have huge egos. They can be very selfish. They say it like they mean it and can hurt cancers feelings quite easily. They are not the attentive, sensitive and stable lovers that cancers crave.
Most of my exes were Aries. I seem to attract them moreso than any other sign. I dunno but it never works.
Most of my exes were Aries. I seem to attract them moreso than any other sign. I dunno but it never works.
Posted by nycancergal
Very, very bad. Honestly, it is just lust. There is just great physical attraction in the beginning and it ends there. We have nothing in common. Aries are brash, blunt, and insensitive. They love attention and have huge egos. They can be very selfish. They say it like they mean it and can hurt cancers feelings quite easily. They are not the attentive, sensitive and stable lovers that cancers crave.
Most of my exes were Aries. I seem to attract them moreso than any other sign. I dunno but it never works.
i do notice the trend of aries men (dominant aries/stellium) to love feminine energy. It makes sense. Moon is feminine and the Mars love feminity. Same with Venus and Mars. Finally happy with dominant Sun energy which i'm not sure is categorized to masculine??
Short lived, but fun while it lasts.
Can't wait for the next one.
Can't wait for the next one.
Aries are great as friends. I think they're cool people. I don't know about lovers or in a relationship.
Thanks everyone for the comments! Please, keep 'em coming.
I can see it going both ways - either a disaster or complementary (as in cancer softens aries hard edges).
I can see it going both ways - either a disaster or complementary (as in cancer softens aries hard edges).
Even better if the Ram is on the cusp of Taurus. 
This guy is the cusp of Pisces - just two days into being an Aries.
Hmmm never met one on the cusp of Pisces.
I don??t want to be a wet blanket, but these were the signs of my parents. And they had the most abusive, toxic, draining relationship I??ve ever personally witnessed. My father (Pisces/Aries cusp) was always too insensitive for my mother, and she kept retreating further and further emotionally because of what he said or did. He became physically abusive after a certain point, tried to control who she had contact with, and even forced her into leaving her job. My mother eventually fell into depression and developed a range of mental conditions including anxiety and mild schizophrenia.
My cousin (Aries) also recently left his Cancer partner. I??m not sure what went on between them, but they seemed to be on the rocks almost immediately after their relationship started.
I??m not saying that all Aries/Cancer relationships are going to end like this- my parents are probably a very extreme example. I know abusive people (sadly) come from all signs, but the influence of their sun signs in the way this particular marriage turned out was undeniable. Even between two more stable people of both signs, I think this relationship would require a lot of work. Favourable aspects in their charts would probably make this much easier.
I wish your friend the best.
My cousin (Aries) also recently left his Cancer partner. I??m not sure what went on between them, but they seemed to be on the rocks almost immediately after their relationship started.
I??m not saying that all Aries/Cancer relationships are going to end like this- my parents are probably a very extreme example. I know abusive people (sadly) come from all signs, but the influence of their sun signs in the way this particular marriage turned out was undeniable. Even between two more stable people of both signs, I think this relationship would require a lot of work. Favourable aspects in their charts would probably make this much easier.
I wish your friend the best.
Posted by idk
TRUECAP you look like a suh-KANKY RuhEADHEAD. I WANNA DO YOU. let's do it. let's make it happen baby, right here, right now. you and me, I SEEE the sparks and I see nothing else right now. it's on my mind. it won't go away until you say yes. I'm just saying, I'm here, right now. no strings attatched baby. I could even compensate you some socially approved amount but we can get into that later after we get into...
Did your mother drop you on your head when you were a baby or something?
smh
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