Hello everyone! I'm an Aries women and I've recently started going out with a cancer man.
I've been after him for a long time now; it has taken him FOREVER to open up! (he's horribly shy) I used to bring over cookies, and that made him happy because he adores cookies. I finally decided that he was used to me being around and asked him out.
It's really cute because he has so many cancerian traits! He lives right by the sea, he decorates his house for fun, he's an artist, and has the biggest sweet tooth in the world. He's also cheap with money, and brings a calculator with us whenever we shop for food (I think it's charming 🙂) Sometimes I think I accidently hurt his feelings by making fun of him sometimes, and I make him walk more than he wants to, but other than that we both seem really happy!
Any other caner/aries tips or stories? Crabs are the cutest!
BFU: Well, not traditionally "shy"... more like "I'm acting like a macho guy" shy where he isn't really open about his feelings. *swoon* I've noticed that male cancers are almost never submissive and subdued. They're always on the ball.
CancerGirl: Okay, I'll be sure not to verbally attack him, cancergirl. I don't wanna make him sad! ._. Aww. We can be bigmouths sometimes, hopefully you're not in your shell too often!
Yeah Apps, crabs tend to take too heart when theyre attacked - they can dish it out but they can't hack it 🙂
And oooo we arent cheap! we just wanna secure for our future - you know how expensive it is to run a house, have a wife and kids, then kids tuition, college and oh man, marrige, then the grandkids presents...lol
Well, yeah cancer men are shy about feeling, and prolly take forever to open up - but once they do, they fall pretty deep.
NamelessCancer: Yeah, I've seen cancers that will pay 600 dollars for a jacket because "It's nice and it will last for ten years!" My thing is that I'll go to Starbucks everyday, or go on a shopping spree and buy a bunch of cheap crap. Cancers seem to buy expensive things that you can use for years, but not spend any money on "extras" and clip coupons. My boyfriend bought an ipod for 300 dollars. You want to know what I bought? 300 dollars worth of chai tea daily within the span of six months. Now after six months, he still has an ipod and I have...well...no ipod. 😢 "cheap" definately isn't the word... you guys are great with money, but don't blow it on stupid stuff like I often do.
lol - yeah I did that too - picked up the u2 20gig Ipod last year - cost me $ 450 - but it was worth it cuz it lasts long - ive been using the ipod daily since i bought it 🙂
Yeah we crabs will shell out for what is nice - the stuff i buy is always the best in quality that i deem affordable 🙂
*runs back in his shell* no you aint getting none of me! run lil crabs run!
HAHAHAHA u guys are funny cus its so true - i like to make sure i'm gettin my money's worth - anyway ...lol
so hey APPS, u're aries eh? i seem to be attracted to aries men - so damn masculine and strong - damn!! haha well i'm cancer woman seein aries man - long distance -very fresh only since august - my moon is in leo so maybe that's y i'm not as homey - i'm pretty outgoin - but i heard we cancers n aries rarely work out but i love a challenge so i ain't givin up!!! my best wishes for u cancerman and u
i know we cancers like to get our point across and we can get pretty naggy when we feel taht u're not really listenin- jus make sure u listen to him - try to be honest with him (very very important that u don't lie to us!), and try to criticise contructively not destructively! hope dis helps
please dish out some advice how how to deal wit u aries ppl! oh and wut is ur moon sign?
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I've been after him for a long time now; it has taken him FOREVER to open up! (he's horribly shy) I used to bring over cookies, and that made him happy because he adores cookies. I finally decided that he was used to me being around and asked him out.
It's really cute because he has so many cancerian traits! He lives right by the sea, he decorates his house for fun, he's an artist, and has the biggest sweet tooth in the world. He's also cheap with money, and brings a calculator with us whenever we shop for food (I think it's charming 🙂) Sometimes I think I accidently hurt his feelings by making fun of him sometimes, and I make him walk more than he wants to, but other than that we both seem really happy!
Any other caner/aries tips or stories? Crabs are the cutest!