Aries Girlfriend
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by DieselCancer on Monday, March 31, 2008 and has 10 replies.
It seems that she is able to let go of anything and not let the past affect her. For example: We argued the other day and two minutes after the argument was over, it was like nothing happened. Me being true to my Cancer self, I hold onto it four a couple of hours. How does she just let things go? She always says that she doesn't hold grudges. I think its natural for Arians to do this. I think its pretty cool.
Yeah, Aries have a "live-and-let-live" attitude, this can drive a cancer crazy because they care about all that's said and done.
so cappysweetie, if "this can drive a cancer crazy because they care about all that's said and done" then why do they behave as if the facts/conversation never happened???
"then why do they behave as if the facts/conversation never happened???"
Its the cancer's outer shell protecting their sensitive feelings. While cancers gets hurt easily, the last thing they want the world to know is that they are hurt. They don't want to be seen as vulnerable, hence, the nonchalant demeanour, or 'occasional/intentional alzheimer'. But, whatever that was said & done, it will forever be remembered & seldom expressed.
Its the cancer's outer shell protecting their sensitive feelings. While cancers gets hurt easily, the last thing they want the world to know is that they are hurt. They don't want to be seen as vulnerable, hence, the nonchalant demeanour, or 'occasional/intentional alzheimer'. But, whatever that was said & done, it will forever be remembered & seldom expressed.
So how do you move past a slight on their part? Especially if you stuck up for yourself!
"For example: We argued the other day and two minutes after the argument was over, it was like nothing happened."
LOL, My Best Female Friend since we were toddlers is a Aries and she'll call me and sometimes we end up Arguing about anything, we'll hang up and stop talking for like a minute or two then, we'll call each other back the same day as if nothing ever happen, I have a Aries Moon, I never stay mad long or hold grudges either & neither does my Aries Friend.
LOL, My Best Female Friend since we were toddlers is a Aries and she'll call me and sometimes we end up Arguing about anything, we'll hang up and stop talking for like a minute or two then, we'll call each other back the same day as if nothing ever happen, I have a Aries Moon, I never stay mad long or hold grudges either & neither does my Aries Friend.
Aries are passionate but not in an emotional way. We experience anger easily and intensely, air it out and then it is gone. It takes a LOT for me to hold a grudge.
I am an Aries girl and I usually don't hold grudges either unless something really hurts me. I had a guy lie to me about something and it took 8 months to speak to him again, mind the fact that we were always around each other.
I am somewhat going through the same situation again with a Cancer guy. He hurt me about 7 months ago and I still have a grudge. I don't want to but whenever I think about him, the pain comes back.
So, yes, I guess we get over things quickly but if we are hurt, it can take a long time. Be thankful that you have that Aries girl because we are usually not emotional people and it's hard for us to deal with someone like that...
Hope it all works out!!!
I am somewhat going through the same situation again with a Cancer guy. He hurt me about 7 months ago and I still have a grudge. I don't want to but whenever I think about him, the pain comes back.
So, yes, I guess we get over things quickly but if we are hurt, it can take a long time. Be thankful that you have that Aries girl because we are usually not emotional people and it's hard for us to deal with someone like that...
Hope it all works out!!!
It's been pretty tough as of late. She's been pretty angry lately and says what she feels without any regard to other peoples' feelings. It's almost like she's emotionless and it's been bothering me. She knows that I can get pretty emotional, but it seems like she just doesn't acknowledge hers. We had a big blowout the other night and she left the house for a few hours. She came back and acted like nothing happened. We really laced into each other. In any relationship it take a lot of hard work. With Aries and Cancer, I can see why it just doesn't work. This is my second relationship with an Aries. They are amazing in the beginning. I love the loyalty, passion, charm, spontaneity and the sex is amazing. However, emotionally, we aren't on the same wave length. It seems like we are now following two different paths.
I have to agree that Aries women do bring a man's confidence level to a higher plane. However, her bluntness and her confidence sometimes makes me feel that she's hiding many insecurities. Are Aries really that confident? She always tries to make me communicate and I've been better at that. When I ask her questions, it seems that she's the one who hides in her shell. My feelings and intuitions are usually dead on and I think that really scares her. I can sense things before they happen. I can sense things as soon as I walk in the door after work. I can sense her energy.
She's been going through some hard times for a couple of months. I've been sticking with her and trying to help, but she rejects it and figures she can work it out all by herself. She's so stubborn and won't ask for help. Emotionally, I'm growing tired. Her anger and impatience are so quick and harsh. My friends see it and others see it. I'm not walking on egg shells for anybody anymore. She has so much damned potential in life. She has all the characteristics of being a leader and achieving great things.
I see the opportunity for growth and I try to see the positives. She's not seeing it right now and I'm not willing to suffer because she won't do a thing to change or help herself right now.
She's been going through some hard times for a couple of months. I've been sticking with her and trying to help, but she rejects it and figures she can work it out all by herself. She's so stubborn and won't ask for help. Emotionally, I'm growing tired. Her anger and impatience are so quick and harsh. My friends see it and others see it. I'm not walking on egg shells for anybody anymore. She has so much damned potential in life. She has all the characteristics of being a leader and achieving great things.
I see the opportunity for growth and I try to see the positives. She's not seeing it right now and I'm not willing to suffer because she won't do a thing to change or help herself right now.
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