bad timing?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by flrttilithurt247 on Wednesday, December 26, 2007 and has 8 replies.
seems like i always want him when he doesn't want me...he wants me when i don't want him. only difference is when i want him it's known...and i feel like an idiot. so, i'm beginning to think we might just be playing mind games and i'm ready to give in, but he isn't? man...this cancer boy, seriously!
People's emotions come and go. One day you'll feel real happy. Then the next day you're really sad. So maybe try to spark something in him at the time when you want him and he doesn't want you.
yeah, actually. after he said that i sent him a text saying thanks...f u. the next couple days he was like my best friend at work. asking me if i needed anything. talking to me all day long. after i had thought about it i figured that he said that because there were people around-he wanted to sound cool and look like he was better than me-which isn't cool and that's why i said something. i haven't given in to him since that. i just can't figure out why he acts this way towards me.
to continue on about what he said...i think we all say things to make it look like we have the upper had. i remember when i said the same thing about him. i said i was over it and he's dumb...blah blah blah. i guess i never really thought about it because it wasn't something that someone had told him...and i guess in a sense that's why it was worse. i hadn't known the way he felt about anything because he had never told me. i had to find out by a girl we work with...the one he said it to.
im not making it ok that he said that i just don't understand...one minute he's my best friend the other he says things like that. to me sounds like he's just as frustrated.
but then again what do i know.
to continue on about what he said...i think we all say things to make it look like we have the upper had. i remember when i said the same thing about him. i said i was over it and he's dumb...blah blah blah. i guess i never really thought about it because it wasn't something that someone had told him...and i guess in a sense that's why it was worse. i hadn't known the way he felt about anything because he had never told me. i had to find out by a girl we work with...the one he said it to.
im not making it ok that he said that i just don't understand...one minute he's my best friend the other he says things like that. to me sounds like he's just as frustrated.
but then again what do i know.
last time we got drunk together was when he was asking me all the questions...and i left because i was upset. dumb really but we were messing around and i said i wanted to have sex with him, although i didn't really i just wanted to get him turned on. he said it would be a bad idea we probably shouldn't because we work together. i told him i should go...because i was thinking he thought us hanging out wasnt going to go anywhere because we work together. then we were walking downstairs and he asked me why i was leaving and i said i didn't think i should be here, this isn't good...pretty much i was just hurt and covered it all up by saying i've had my heart broken i dont want anything...and in response he asked if i though he would hurt me...i said no and i asked him what he thought and he told me he didn't know if he could trust me...because when we first started hanging out i had a boyfriend (as of a week probably)that i broke up with that day i believe. anyways i told him im sorry...he made me feel like crap and i said that i liked him a little and that i thought things should be taken slow.
anyways since then he hadn't talked to me for a while and then i got into the cycle of calling or texting him when i was drunk because when i was working with him he always seemed upset with me. it's like trying to get through a brick wall with him...i know he likes me because he wouldn't get bothered or call me names if he wasn't frusterated as well with the situation. i just don't get why we never talked about it. ive definitely wanted to...i don't know...i figured i would tell you this so it makes more sense
anyways since then he hadn't talked to me for a while and then i got into the cycle of calling or texting him when i was drunk because when i was working with him he always seemed upset with me. it's like trying to get through a brick wall with him...i know he likes me because he wouldn't get bothered or call me names if he wasn't frusterated as well with the situation. i just don't get why we never talked about it. ive definitely wanted to...i don't know...i figured i would tell you this so it makes more sense
well he has been more open with me lately. now only problem is that he is talking to a girl that we work with. he even showed up at my christmas party with her. it's irritating because i didn't like this girl from the beginning...she is younger and very immature...and sorta weird, and i'm not the only person who thinks this. it's hard for me because even after my party he started saying things like thanks beautiful...just little comments. he even opened up to me so much he told me about how he tries so hard to be in relationships that they don't work out because he freaks out...gets scared and then realizes what he's doing and completely ends it. i told him many people are like that and that relationships aren't always perfect...which he thinks they should be from the beginning.(ours wasn't) and then i also said that he would never know unless he gave someone a chance. jokingly he said no they are....anyways...i sent him a text saying the night i left his house the reason was because i was just as scared...thinking he would understand. nothing back just him being his sweet self at work. plus still seeing this new girl. i don't know what to think. think i should just let it go or what?
dont sweat him .......lots of fishys in the sea.....
well they aren't together like bf-gf...they have just been hanging out. i will take things one day at a time...thank u tho 
lol
lolit's ok...movin on
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