Best Advice I ever got on dating a cancer man - DON'T BE AFRAID TO LOSE HIM!! Hope this helps

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by virgo29 on Thursday, March 9, 2017 and has 19 replies.
Best Advice I ever got on dating a cancer man

This how u date a cancer man

All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.

How to act with cancer man:

Once he's won your time, u can really start to shine. When u two are around each other give him the time of his life. Focus on being unforgettable. Make him smile & feel relaxed. Be fun and sweet but not too mushy or emotional (don't turn him into your therapist) Just Be Yourself ! Try to SHOW HIM how u feel about him rather than telling him you cant breathe without him. Show him your feelings with out words. If you & him are just starting out, break the ice by touching him first. While you two are talking, touch his shoulder or knee. Let him know you are interested with your gestures. If you are bold like me, give him a girly kiss on the cheek! Or throw your arms around him. This will help if you're a really gorgeous girl, he won't feel too scared of u. The key is to be friendly with a little innocent flirting. If u are shy, be girly & smile a lot. Always laugh at his jokes & look feminine. Shy girls are very hot too.

How to speak to a cancer man:

Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is!

If cancer man is ignoring:

DO NOT chase him. U disappear too! Turn the tables and make him miss u! Stay busy. Whatever u do, don't get CLINGY. Give him space & time to remember how fun & awesome & loving u are. Snapping or begging or making him jealous does NOT draw him closer to you...Silence is a secret weapon. Lastly, don't be afraid of losing him....Please don't. Don't waste days hoping he calls u. He should be afraid to lose YOU! Get your fire back. If u have done all u can to get him back & nothing has worked, please STOP TRYING! Let him come to u for once. He will return If u meant anything to him
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Posted by virgo29
Best Advice I ever got on dating a cancer man

This how u date a cancer man

All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.

I think this is the same with Cancer women... LIKE ME! Big Grin I get turned off when the guy seems so desperate.. Because I want to be the one chasing.. For some reason... -_-

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Posted by virgo29
Best Advice I ever got on dating a cancer man

This how u date a cancer man

All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.

How to act with cancer man:

Once he's won your time, u can really start to shine. When u two are around each other give him the time of his life. Focus on being unforgettable. Make him smile & feel relaxed. Be fun and sweet but not too mushy or emotional (don't turn him into your therapist) Just Be Yourself ! Try to SHOW HIM how u feel about him rather than telling him you cant breathe without him. Show him your feelings with out words. If you & him are just starting out, break the ice by touching him first. While you two are talking, touch his shoulder or knee. Let him know you are interested with your gestures. If you are bold like me, give him a girly kiss on the cheek! Or throw your arms around him. This will help if you're a really gorgeous girl, he won't feel too scared of u. The key is to be friendly with a little innocent flirting. If u are shy, be girly & smile a lot. Always laugh at his jokes & look feminine. Shy girls are very hot too.

How to speak to a cancer man:

Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is!


HAHA this makes them sound like gigantic babies who can't fucking handle life.

Also I can say with 100% accuracy that some of them like pushing buttons just to make you mad. they like you when you're mad. they like the fire.

the bottom line is that cancer boys are the reason the term "have your cake, and eat it too" exists. they aren't fare, they want everything exactly the way they want it, and only when they want it, and your feelings and opinions do. not. matter. at. all.

Sure, go head and kowtow to them if you can stomach it, hopefully you'll find one that wont cheat or lie to you.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
ROLLS EYES

"How to speak to a cancer man:

Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is! "
Why does he sound like a baby. That's an immature cancer.. I used to be like this. But I've matured into a less sensitive cancer.
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Same goes for cancer women, dont be afraid to loose them.
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Your advice probably solved all the stories in this form. One of them is mine of course. Thank you!
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This is exactly what I'm doing, turned into an option to the Cancer female I was talking to. Few days ago she hit me with a "I love you" text in which I responded with "I love you more" since then nothing. I'm out living my life while she's out talking/dating whoever she's talking to now..I can't be bothered.
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Posted by ChrisIsKodak
Posted by Shellyd238
Posted by virgo29
Best Advice I ever got on dating a cancer man

This how u date a cancer man

All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.

How to act with cancer man:

Once he's won your time, u can really start to shine. When u two are around each other give him the time of his life. Focus on being unforgettable. Make him smile & feel relaxed. Be fun and sweet but not too mushy or emotional (don't turn him into your therapist) Just Be Yourself ! Try to SHOW HIM how u feel about him rather than telling him you cant breathe without him. Show him your feelings with out words. If you & him are just starting out, break the ice by touching him first. While you two are talking, touch his shoulder or knee. Let him know you are interested with your gestures. If you are bold like me, give him a girly kiss on the cheek! Or throw your arms around him. This will help if you're a really gorgeous girl, he won't feel too scared of u. The key is to be friendly with a little innocent flirting. If u are shy, be girly & smile a lot. Always laugh at his jokes & look feminine. Shy girls are very hot too.

How to speak to a cancer man:

Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is!


HAHA this makes them sound like gigantic babies who can't fucking handle life.

Also I can say with 100% accuracy that some of them like pushing buttons just to make you mad. they like you when you're mad. they like the fire.

the bottom line is that cancer boys are the reason the term "have your cake, and eat it too" exists. they aren't fare, they want everything exactly the way they want it, and only when they want it, and your feelings and opinions do. not. matter. at. all.

Sure, go head and kowtow to them if you can stomach it, hopefully you'll find one that wont cheat or lie to you.
Not bitter at all I see.

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Actually I have never been the one any cancer boys have cheated on, I've just known several cancer boys who have admitted to me, to cheating and lying to their GF. I just recently had a convo with one who explained to me how, even if he was completely in love with a girl, he was sure he would still cheat, because he wants to, but would be furious if that girl cheated on him.

Does that sound like a great, upstanding guy to you?

It's not being bitter, it being blunt, which I am. most people can't handle it, I'm used to them trying to turn it around to be my problem. nothing new.

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Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by AquariusJan25
This is exactly what I'm doing, turned into an option to the Cancer female I was talking to. Few days ago she hit me with a "I love you" text in which I responded with "I love you more" since then nothing. I'm out living my life while she's out talking/dating whoever she's talking to now..I can't be bothered.


Angry

OMG she should have given you a 'no i love you more' ..
That convo should have gone on for ten more mins. canoodling!
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LMAO I hate you (joking)

No but seriously it's something that always happens. Like I explained we're both going about our lives differently but yet she will send these random "i love you" text, telling me special I am to her only to receive another message from her a week or two down the line..which will be another random "I love you" text LMAO.

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Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by AquariusJan25
This is exactly what I'm doing, turned into an option to the Cancer female I was talking to. Few days ago she hit me with a "I love you" text in which I responded with "I love you more" since then nothing. I'm out living my life while she's out talking/dating whoever she's talking to now..I can't be bothered.


Angry

OMG she should have given you a 'no i love you more' ..
That convo should have gone on for ten more mins. canoodling!
LMAO I hate you (joking)

No but seriously it's something that always happens. Like I explained we're both going about our lives differently but yet she will send these random "i love you" text, telling me special I am to her only to receive another message from her a week or two down the line..which will be another random "I love you" text LMAO.

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Cancers love the attention. If they aren't getting it somewhere else, they seek others. Not very fair.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
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"How to speak to a cancer man:

Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is! "
So, basically kiss his ass. Don't stand up for yourself, and walk on eggshells so he doesn't fall apart? The fuck? Nah.
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This is exaclty the key.

Love everything.

Rings true so deeply.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
"Best Advice I ever got on dating a cancer man"


be yourself, we like authentic motherfukers


Aquarius woman are the most authentic pretty little ladies you will meet. Keep that in mind

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Posted by MissGemmi
Posted by AquariusJan25
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by AquariusJan25
This is exactly what I'm doing, turned into an option to the Cancer female I was talking to. Few days ago she hit me with a "I love you" text in which I responded with "I love you more" since then nothing. I'm out living my life while she's out talking/dating whoever she's talking to now..I can't be bothered.


Angry

OMG she should have given you a 'no i love you more' ..
That convo should have gone on for ten more mins. canoodling!
LMAO I hate you (joking)

No but seriously it's something that always happens. Like I explained we're both going about our lives differently but yet she will send these random "i love you" text, telling me special I am to her only to receive another message from her a week or two down the line..which will be another random "I love you" text LMAO.

Same here. I get a text every one or two weeks. I miss u, thinking of you, am I going to see you ever again. It sucks. I just get along and respond like automatic piolot, but I'm over it to be honest. At first I thought it was serious and real, now I feel as if she just checks her contactlist and then randomly sends people texts for the attention she might get of people. There's no meaning to the texts she sends, because when I send back, she will respond one or two days later. Whatever...smile

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same experience here , but cancer men

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Can I just tell him 'Not to obligate himself to contact me and just stay gone?'

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Well, i have a situation here. I have cancer bf and he does push-pull things to me. And i don't really like it. So 2 days a go i text him telling abt my day and so on. But he just like, hmmm ooookay. He seems doesn't interested. Like he does the pushing. So i asked him, why are you being like this? I don't like it. It's disrespectful, and he just READ my text not replying till now.

So what do i do? Just let him be? Or should i asked him "hellooo do you feel like apologizing to me now" ?

What should i do? And why does he go silent?
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Posted by ChrisIsKodak
Posted by Shellyd238
Posted by virgo29
Best Advice I ever got on dating a cancer man

This how u date a cancer man

All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.

How to act with cancer man:

Once he's won your time, u can really start to shine. When u two are around each other give him the time of his life. Focus on being unforgettable. Make him smile & feel relaxed. Be fun and sweet but not too mushy or emotional (don't turn him into your therapist) Just Be Yourself ! Try to SHOW HIM how u feel about him rather than telling him you cant breathe without him. Show him your feelings with out words. If you & him are just starting out, break the ice by touching him first. While you two are talking, touch his shoulder or knee. Let him know you are interested with your gestures. If you are bold like me, give him a girly kiss on the cheek! Or throw your arms around him. This will help if you're a really gorgeous girl, he won't feel too scared of u. The key is to be friendly with a little innocent flirting. If u are shy, be girly & smile a lot. Always laugh at his jokes & look feminine. Shy girls are very hot too.

How to speak to a cancer man:

Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is!


HAHA this makes them sound like gigantic babies who can't fucking handle life.

Also I can say with 100% accuracy that some of them like pushing buttons just to make you mad. they like you when you're mad. they like the fire.

the bottom line is that cancer boys are the reason the term "have your cake, and eat it too" exists. they aren't fare, they want everything exactly the way they want it, and only when they want it, and your feelings and opinions do. not. matter. at. all.

Sure, go head and kowtow to them if you can stomach it, hopefully you'll find one that wont cheat or lie to you.
Not bitter at all I see.

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I think all men can cheat and lie, except Taurus men will be honest and keep the relationship open until ready to commit.

I thought the statement your opinions don't matter..interesting...I was talking to a cancer man last night and I told him he just scored a point. He said I don't want to score any points...I laughed and said ok..but I think he is putting his thick shell out there..it's a cover up. He is a shy and sensitive man....

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@MissGemmi @AquariusJan25

One thing you need to understand cancers are sincere when they say they love you or miss you, they mean it. If they love you then you're special if they miss you they also say that in a friendly way to their friends - usually this is a for the cancer ladies.

More often that not cancers need you to stimulate them into talking.. when they send the texts saying they love or miss you they expect you to create a convo (it's already a lot for them to be saying those to you to remind you how much they love / miss you).
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@MissGemmi @AquariusJan25

One thing you need to understand cancers are sincere when they say they love you or miss you, they mean it. If they love you then you're special if they miss you they also say that in a friendly way to their friends - usually this is a for the cancer ladies.

More often that not cancers need you to stimulate them into talking.. when they send the texts saying they love or miss you they expect you to create a convo (it's already a lot for them to be saying those to you to remind you how much they love / miss you).
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