These days it's better to be single than deal with bulllshit. I'm a cancer woman and these men I've dated in the past are stupid. They should have been grateful to have a woman like me, because us cancer when we love we love hard. through the hard times and the good times we always stick by our man. Tired of these men saying they want a real woman and when they get the real thing they fuckk up! Can you tell I just got burnt.. Lol damn taurus man wasted my damn time. Sorry just venting. So who else is tired of all the bullshit??
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Jan 13, 2013Comments: 18 · Posts: 266 · Topics: 2
amen to single life, I have disrespected to many times, I rather stay single
@ beggarsblanket don't get me started on social media.. It's one of the reasons why I delete FB and my Instagram. It's like a soft porn website. Seriously. My previous man had quite a few ladies thirsty for him and they didn't give a shit that he was seeing me. Sending him private messages, pics etc.. Just dirty.
@generalizod you can still agree to this thread. I'll let you slide _??
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Oct 15, 2013Comments: 243 · Posts: 2393 · Topics: 16
You should have known better... I am sure there was signs... there where many astro signs... as well. There are good men out there... just woman look in the wrong places. I can agree alot of girls want the sex and the city thing... Life is just not like that. I will also say that women are finding out that maybe they need to treat there man over all better... maybe you will not quite on them but the emotional up's and downs of a cancer can be hard if a person does not really understand how to deal with it. I can see how a Cancer will like how a Taurus is but normally I would not see how a Taurus would put up with nor know how to handle the emotions of a cancer. You need more a fire water... or fire air mix... Can be some earth but Taurus are really like is she detracting me from my over all life and goals or is she supporting me to reach them...
With Mercury retro... and alot of action in Pisces with Mars conj. just Neptune... There was more then likely a bit of emotion.
I would say don't just point the finger... I know it is easy to say it is all the other person... but in reality we can't learn if we think it is all them and not us at all...
I am not trying to be mean but stay objective... I am not emotionally attached to your situation.
Best of luck
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Oct 19, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 392 · Topics: 37
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They don't know anything about the Cancer fem-Taurus male connection. Ignore that.
I can burp and these men want to marry me we aren't something "they put up with" at all we're worth more than to them.
Back on topic, yes we do but you can't give your all to men up front like that and "hold them down". What men say and what they actually want are two different things. The way you love hard is the same way the next girl can love hard that's not what they need. Being spoiled is nothing new to men. They need excitement and someone that inspires them and offers something different into their life not catered to. Being always there for them is something men have come to expect but not respect & appreciate.
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Mar 30, 2012Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
I think if being single had a less negative connotation, people would be more willing and accepting of it.
Why? Examples above.
I'm already fine with single status, but after dealing with some bs within dating, it makes me embrace it even more. Life is already too difficult to bring in some asshat who can't make up his mind or doesn't even know how to behave like a decent human being.
I'm sure guys have issues with some of the silly bitches out there raring to pair up because they think that's life's goal.
Overall, dating has tooooo many people out there that have no business dating. I think if more people were okay with singledom, then they wouldn't be out dating when they should be taking some down time to work on themselves.
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Oct 19, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 392 · Topics: 37
It's good to hear you're not going to make the same mistakes over and over again.
I'm already ok with moving on. For a cancer I get over things pretty quickly. Once I'm done with somebody I usually don't look back. They always try to come back ALWAYS. I know what I bring to the table, they just can't handle it. That's fine and all but I don't like dealing with BS. Very low tolerance fir that. I don't mind being single. Just saying..
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Jan 23, 2015Comments: 306 · Posts: 1335 · Topics: 77
^*Stands up and claps*
Cheers! for CluelessCancer's wise words.
"WHIch is utter BS. If a man want's excitement and inspiration he can get that out of the home. Why is it the responsibility of the woman to make a man have an exciting inspired life. I mean damn another list item to add to the many responsibilities.
this is just way too much new age crap. " -Cluelesscancer
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Sep 07, 2011Comments: 298 · Posts: 5049 · Topics: 48
Since I decided to not date anymore I notice I'm more happy.
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Jul 14, 2014Comments: 14 · Posts: 1116 · Topics: 47
Any men wanting to throw their two cents in? Better to me a single male?
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Aug 02, 2014Comments: 177 · Posts: 2392 · Topics: 92
i can relate to that, but when i finally find the right person, he doesnt fit in my life..
:/ why life's so hard!