Break up
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Quinnyx1 on Sunday, January 7, 2018 and has 11 replies.
Hello I’m not sure if anyone can help me with this one but here goes nothing. I’m an Aquarius woman who was dating a cancer woman. When we first met everything was perfect but about after a month & a half things went down hill.. she became very distant and blamed it on her personal life which I thought I could understanding of.. well things ended badly between us, I couldn’t seem to let go but she had already moved on & got into a new relationship with a man. That only lasted about 2 months & the she came back to me at the end of November. But on New Year’s Eve she left me again & was very cold & mean to me as if I was the one who hurt, now she doesn’t reply to me at all, even after pouring my heart out several times. The first time she said she couldn’t talk to me after we split ways was because she was ashamed that she hurt me. Is she ashamed now too? Or does she just not care ? I have a feeling she’s talking to someone new already & it’s only been a week
Hmm. Strange. A healthy crab woman rarely behaves like that.
Check out borderline personality disorder, it’s not that rare and based on what you wrote, she could fit in. Relo starts amazing, then push and pull, coming, leaving, coming again and eventually leaving again, indifference, coldness, blaming you, ignorance, jumping from relo to relo just to feed narcissistic needs...
idk, just my thoughts, you know her, you judge.
Check out borderline personality disorder, it’s not that rare and based on what you wrote, she could fit in. Relo starts amazing, then push and pull, coming, leaving, coming again and eventually leaving again, indifference, coldness, blaming you, ignorance, jumping from relo to relo just to feed narcissistic needs...
idk, just my thoughts, you know her, you judge.
trust instinct. Lady Aqua, you have an unstable one on your hands. I think that 'too ashamed' to talk to you guise is just that so she can talk to someone else. she's cowardly and runs instead of dealing with issues head on. she is selfish as hell and only comes to you when it is convenient. Leave Aqua or you will face more pain. Don't pour your heart out. Close it off and leave, for your own happiness.
What is here to talk about if person behave like that? You took her back - she had decided you are a doormat!
Don’t be! Or take her back every time if it makes you happy.
It’s really not complicated!
Don’t be! Or take her back every time if it makes you happy.
It’s really not complicated!
Were you her first female relationship? I think she got cold feet and backed out of the lesbo life. Better luck next time.
You were with her for a month and a half only, before breaking up for 2 months, and then getting back together for a short time again, and then she ghosted you?
How can you love someone that does that?
How can you love someone that does that?
Posted by LadyNeptuneyet she keeps coming back. i think she's playing with Aqua's vulnerability. as long as she keeps taking her back, she will keep coming back once her fun with others is over. it feels like she clings to Aqua shortly when no one else wants her. once she finds another interest she leaves.
Were you her first female relationship? I think she got cold feet and backed out of the lesbo life. Better luck next time.
Posted by Mona_MachiavelliFor sure.Posted by LadyNeptuneyet she keeps coming back. i think she's playing with Aqua's vulnerability. as long as she keeps taking her back, she will keep coming back once her fun with others is over. it feels like she clings to Aqua shortly when no one else wants her. once she finds another interest she leaves.
Were you her first female relationship? I think she got cold feet and backed out of the lesbo life. Better luck next time.click to expand
But my point was more that the ‘others’ are all male.
she blamed me for everything including her leaving her bf for me. Not sure what’s wrong with her but I’m done with her now. She told me we weren’t compatible which is true but she came back for a reason right
I like how all you lovely chicks were chill about that lesbian shit ahaa.. Dem replies was cute.
Personality disorder? Nah.
This just a crab that don't wanna look like a bad woman. Women make excuses up when they ain't feeling you no more and have lost attraction.. And all because they aren't even sure themselves why they don't like you anymore..
She might have just been a lousy bitch anyway, that was never about that life.. She very much may have been, but look within inside yourself and figure out what you did to turn her off.. The only way a bitch stops minding you is when you flipped that switch off.
You mighta been too needy and close.. That's a Cancer woman's job. In other words, you might be a woman but you weren't in your masculine.. Just eh, maybe you was too girly..
Control yaself next time..
And rememba..
Don't trust these hoes.
Just keep it pimpin, Quinny.. Hold ya head high.
Personality disorder? Nah.
This just a crab that don't wanna look like a bad woman. Women make excuses up when they ain't feeling you no more and have lost attraction.. And all because they aren't even sure themselves why they don't like you anymore..
She might have just been a lousy bitch anyway, that was never about that life.. She very much may have been, but look within inside yourself and figure out what you did to turn her off.. The only way a bitch stops minding you is when you flipped that switch off.
You mighta been too needy and close.. That's a Cancer woman's job. In other words, you might be a woman but you weren't in your masculine.. Just eh, maybe you was too girly..
Control yaself next time..
And rememba..
Don't trust these hoes.
Just keep it pimpin, Quinny.. Hold ya head high.
Posted by EmhendoConfused girls do that, a real woman never.
Women make excuses up when they ain't feeling you no more and have lost attraction.. And all because they aren't even sure themselves why they don't like you anymore..
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