Posted by NorthWest
how did you win him back so many times?
Maybe he doesn't want to put a title on it so that he can date other people?
Posted by YellowSubmarinePosted by ariesheart
I tell him I want to go back being bf and gf, but he says I'm not ready
Because you're inconsistent - on again, off again.
Until you prove your staying power, he won't believe you're ready. They need consistency and security.click to expand
Posted by fullwaterpisces
So inconsistent?? Hmmmm i been reading that word a lot around here lately.... So if im consistently telling a cancer how much i care and love them... Even if they dont react??? It means is not annoying? Or dont get that pretty well
Posted by fullwaterpisces
So inconsistent?? Hmmmm i been reading that word a lot around here lately.... So if im consistently telling a cancer how much i care and love them... Even if they dont react??? It means is not annoying? Or dont get that pretty well
Posted by Pearls
You seem shallow but you could just be very young.
& It sounds like you've taken him for granted.
If he grew up too he wouldn't go back to you.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by fullwaterpisces
So inconsistent?? Hmmmm i been reading that word a lot around here lately.... So if im consistently telling a cancer how much i care and love them... Even if they dont react??? It means is not annoying? Or dont get that pretty well
Depends if someone believes you or not. I have 2 people that are no longer in my life, and their lying was so bad that no amount of claiming to love and care for me would be believed by me. Ever. They can't fix it if they wanted to, and I won't even give them the chance, at this point.click to expand
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by ariesheartPosted by YellowSubmarinePosted by ariesheart
I tell him I want to go back being bf and gf, but he says I'm not ready
Because you're inconsistent - on again, off again.
Until you prove your staying power, he won't believe you're ready. They need consistency and security.
Wow, he has said I was inconsistent a lot!
Ahh really Sherlock. You sound like you're dumb as bricks.click to expand
Posted by aquavita8Posted by ariesheartPosted by Pearls
You seem shallow but you could just be very young.
& It sounds like you've taken him for granted.
If he grew up too he wouldn't go back to you.
I'm actually 33. d I know. I just easily run away an..........y time we have bad arguments
.... you mixing up a simple quarrel with a breakupclick to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchPosted by ariesheartPosted by aquavita8Posted by ariesheartPosted by Pearls
You seem shallow but you could just be very young.
& It sounds like you've taken him for granted.
If he grew up too he wouldn't go back to you.
I'm actually 33. d I know. I just easily run away an..........y time we have bad arguments
.... you mixing up a simple quarrel with a breakup
Nah, I actually break up with him. For weeks. Disappear
... I was watching a tv show with young women being moms. It featured a clip with a young guy, 22-23, who was the father of one of these children. He and the mother had just broken up, due to her finally telling him, she had cheated on him. He said, that he knew, they were in a rough patch, but that to him, they could "easily" be not-friends for a while, but that didn??t mean, that they had broken up. He said, that he thought their commitment was bigger. This involved a kid mind you, but I was still surprised, because I was rash like you, when I dated a cancer (I??m a scorpio but aries mooon). Constantly telling the other person, that maybe you should break up or in fact break up does not make you stronger all together. It just brings drama and like they all tell you - inconsistency.click to expand