I'm going to give the full story, and I apologize this is so long.
I'm a Pisces woman who was in a relationship with a Cancer man, and we recently broke up. When we met I was immediately drawn to him and we had a weird friends with benefits relationship for about a year, occasionally not speaking or seeing one another. It got to a point about 10 months in where we realized how serious we felt about each other and he eventually asked for a committed relationship. This of course took so much time due to trust issues between the two of us. Our relationship wasn't perfect, but we always found a way to mend our problems and genuinely love one another. We got very attached, very connected, shared everything together. I may be young, but I know in my heart he is the one. It's a gut feeling. So our relationship lasted about a year, and then I screwed up royally. As a Pisces I tend to have trouble being honest and upfront with people. I was always very honest with him, but there was one thing I lied about, involving an ex, and my Cancer man caught me. I want to make it very clear, I never cheated or had any romantic interest in my ex. It was just a particular situation where I had to meet up with my ex, and I lied to my Cancer man about it because I knew he would be mad if I had met with my ex. I now realize how foolish it was, because we probably could have talked about it and sorted it out. But I made a huge mistake. When he found out he was furious, I broke his heart. I broke the trust we had built. I let him cool off for a few days before we spoke after the incident and he broke up with me. We took some time to get space, and then about a week later we started hanging out as friends, eventually admitting to each other we were very in love, and maybe we just needed time to try again. But there was a lot of sexual tension, and eventually we became intimate again for about five days. After this I was texting him one night, and he said he had went on a date with a girl and called her my name. I was shocked as I didn't think we were seeing other people, but I didn't freak out I just tried to talk to him. That conversation ended with him saying he couldn't have our weird sexual relationship happen, and he needed space. He also said he still was filled with love for me, but his heart was hurting and he needed time alone.
It's now been almost a week since that conversation. I am losing my mind over this man because I basically destroyed the best relationship I've e
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Jan 10, 2015Comments: 100 · Posts: 2017 · Topics: 43
This what you described here was EXACTLY the situation that happened with me and my Pisces ex.
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Aug 17, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 352 · Topics: 43
I'm so sorry for you...
But I think he needs a lot of time & you have to work on rebuilding his trust in you & you have to really show ur genuinity in this matter.