But honestly

This is not me saying anything negative at all.

But I guess I'm totally

over the moon(pun intended) about

the ideation that Cancerians are sensitive/emotional and they're supposedly the kindest of the zodiac.

However, I'm not totally convinced that this may be true. I mean I sincerely hope that most of this is true about them,because if so...I'm totally swooning over their depth. I love it.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that they come off a little passive, a little douche-esque, a little stuck up. Maybe cocky, idk?

Again, not saying anything negative.

And maybe I just don't understand them?

I'm all for it if someone would like to enlighten me.

Idk, they're generally nice and they seem to be the cool person in the hallway or at the workplace. And it's like if you want to get involved with them or get close to them at all, it changes. It gets more complex.

Is this that moodiness? Or that withdraw?

Also, the crabs that I've known hardly even mess with social media. You won't really know much about their life unless they tell you in person.

Also another question,

What would be considered them "opening up"?

Is it when they talk about family, memories, childhood etc?

Anyways, any or all questions answers is appreciated.

I just really want to understand ya 🙂

These guys are mysterious and I dig it so much!

I meant *cocky not **chickeny?? lol wth

Posted by alynland
This is not me saying anything negative at all.

But I guess I'm totally

over the moon(pun intended) about

the ideation that Cancerians are sensitive/emotional and they're supposedly the kindest of the zodiac.

However, I'm not totally convinced that this may be true. I mean I sincerely hope that most of this is true about them,because if so...I'm totally swooning over their depth. I love it.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that they come off a little passive, a little douche-esque, a little stuck up. Maybe cocky, idk?

Again, not saying anything negative.

And maybe I just don't understand them?

I'm all for it if someone would like to enlighten me.

Idk, they're generally nice and they seem to be the cool person in the hallway or at the workplace. And it's like if you want to get involved with them or get close to them at all, it changes. It gets more complex.

Is this that moodiness? Or that withdraw?

Also, the crabs that I've known hardly even mess with social media. You won't really know much about their life unless they tell you in person.

Also another question,

What would be considered them "opening up"?

Is it when they talk about family, memories, childhood etc?

Anyways, any or all questions answers is appreciated.

I just really want to understand ya 🙂

These guys are mysterious and I dig it so much!

We totally are worth being 'over the moon' for!

So starting from the bottom we open up when we tell you about our childhood most definitely. Any cancer would be willing to enlighten you on their teen years. But it's when we tell you why we act a certain way or why we don't like crying in front of people and why we dislike certain attributes that remind us of our satanic exes!

I as a cancer I don't really deal much with social media because although I am quite good at masking my insecurities, there is a part of me that can't be pulled out of the dumps whenever I get on it and have to deal with people. I'm a great listener and all of that but sometimes I would like a break from hearing about people's lives and problems or seeing instagram 'baddies' and flat Tummy girls and body goals and all that typical 'you must be this ideal to get...' and we aren't really big about expressing our problems to anyone on or off the internet. It always feels I've ammunition to use against me at some point so I try to be very discreet. You can't even get a cancer drunk to tell you their problems we have self control that like shuts off our brain when we can't fully comprehend what is going on lol.

As for getting close it's like hey we can be acquaintances but if you want to be friends that's a whole other story. Because friends require trust and emotional attachment and it's very rare you find a cancer that has not been used at some point that makes them recede into their shell. I close up because I tend to get easily attached way faster than I would fucking like! It's like a coping mechanism of sorts. If we like you back it might come off as withdrawal and sometimes if we like you and you aren't doing what we want it can become mood swings. I have this problem that if I don't see my crush at least once a day all hell will break loose. I could literally freeze hell over with a glance everyone and thing annoys me I feel like my whole world iS crumbling and nothing ever goes right. So I basically throw a temper tantrum! This is why I hate getting attached to people, they can either make or break my mood and it's too over powering!

Now I am passive because I feel like it gets me what I want and it usually does because it makes people try to make up for something they don't even know what it is! And totally stuck up, I only want the best and i will find a way to get it and in order not to crush anyone's feelings I act stuck up and passive. Unless you catch me on a bad day! Now if we do come off as cocky we are just trying to mask our true insecurities that we are not good enough! It's always an internal battle over whether I will meet the one for me and whether i acted the right way and whether I made a good impression or if I over reacted and things went worse than I thought they did. I'm for sure I have a personality disorder by now lol!! But I am pretty sure once you get to know us all is well, we love showering people in gifts, we love spending time with people and problem solving for them, always available for cuddling, sex, cooking/eating, bj's/hj's, strolls on the beach traveling you name it and we are down for it but only for friends and family!! And if we where a quote it'd be 'end world hunger today' or 'make love not wars' . So yea we are pretty awesome I suppose but you said it NOT me

Have you ever seen a dog barking at the full Moon reflected in a body of water? Or the iconic image of a wolf that runs up a cliff and howls at the Moon longingly... I mean the Moon looks so close, but they never reach it...Look at the interpretation of The Moon tarot card and I think you'll have your answer.