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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 3881 · Topics: 128
I have a question 4 ya. In the last 3 weeks I've been attempting to follow through on a possible connection I made with a 3rd Decan Cancer man nearly 2 years ago (if I can remember he's a 20/21 July and he's in his mid 30's) He's a cousin of my friend and we only met once, back when I was still with my boyfriend. Anyway I felt as if I could feel a physcial pull from him to me anyway. It could all have been in my imagination I hafta say but physically I was aware of his bodily presence whenever he was nearby and he stood closer to me than say my friend who's a guy also. He was pretty soft spoken and didn't say a huge amount (as opposed to people who say things just for the sake of talking) but I felt comfortable in his company as I feel uneasy when I am in an evironment where it is the norm of have a constant flow of verbal dialogue going on.
Anyway.....Suffice it to say I felt a connection with him and for some reason I have been thinking about him quite a lot. I asked my friend for his mobile number which he gave me. So within say just under 2 weeks I've sent him 3 text messages with no response. They were very general messages too, just saying hi and remember me and how are you etc etc. My friend told me he's quite eccentric and hardly ever turns his mobile phone on due to fear of harmful radiation from it.
Calling someone you don't know from a number you got from the yello pages is a lil' scary to say the least. Sorry to be direct but i think that he's either dating somebody, could be married or just not interested. The fact that so much time has passed
since you last saw each other could've eroded his interest in you if at all there was any. What are the chances that y'all could ever meet, outside of u trying to reach him?
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 3881 · Topics: 128
Not much I guess. But I'm kinda intending to do it now! I might have a glass of wine just before I key in his number! Yes you're right: he very possibly had and has no interest in me and I imagined the whole thing. But d'you know this man is the only man that present any attraction for me. All other men that I have been imgling with romantically have been pretty crap. And even if a figment of my over active imagination is all he is, well at least he's keeping the flag flying for men for me! The result is either 1) he'll be slightly scared and tell me not to ever call him again or he'll get the police (worst case scenario) or 2) he'll chat to me for a bit and then say that he's not really interested in a long distance relationship or 3) he'll be in good form and be glad I called him as he was feeling a bit shy and awkward about replying to me.