Calling all CANCER MEN...Come out of your shell an

Been involved with a CANCER man. Myself, a GEMINI. There are a lot of interesting things on that message board about you Cancer men. Tell me, all about a CANCER man, his likes, dislikes, love, how to understand him. That hard shell gets cold at times, hard to read his feelings. But, I know how tender it is under the shell. So, what is it, why do you keep that shell on all the time? Tell me, tell all, I want to know all about CANCER MEN!

Here goes nothing...

Oops, last post got xmitted before I got started...So, as I said, here goes nothing.
Okay, so you want to know about Cancer men. Of course I am only one cancer man, and I'm sure we vary somewhat from man to man...The shell....well of course it's needed protection. We all need to be protected from the harshness of this world from time to time. But there are parts of this world to be enjoyed also, which is when we want to be outside the shell. Like Batman or Superman return to their "Lairs", we cancer men ned to have that "Fortress of Solitude" where we go to rejuvinate ourselves and make ourselves better for the world around us. As for myself and women...Outword beauty is not as important as inward beauty. We are not looking for Cindy Crawford or Pamela Anderson. We want secure love, not simply physical love. Love that runs deep, and deepens each day. We do not want women who just "want a good time", we have no interest in such things. Most of all, we want women who we can invite into our shell with us and share our innermost secrets and not exploit our weaknesses. I think that last sentence sums up the entire Cancer man personality. I think that is what Cancer men look for in all people.....But then again, isn't that what every human being wants. To be able to share themselves without thier weaknesses being looked upon as faults. We al have faults and Cancer men are very sensitive to the ones they have and do not like criticism for faults they know all people have. We simply want to be cared for as much as we care for those around us. that's not too much to ask is it? ....more later

To understand a Cancer man.....show him in as many ways you can that you can be trusted to be welcome into his shell with him.

Rog just seeing your post made me feel so much better, God i'm not crazy! Women want me to trust them as they are pushing me away, They want a good time out in the world but have no idea who they are spending it with, Im typical I like my home but when I'm with the right person I like to go out into the world and play without having to worry about the person I'm with flirting with every guy that gives them a look, security and trust don't get built that way for me. I've never been a jealous person but the person I am doesnt like to feel detached from someone every time we go out, I need that closeness and knowing that I am with that person on an emotional level, Well I dont want this to run long but its nice to know that mabey I just havent found the right person yet Thanks Rog!

Rog just seeing your post made me feel so much better, God i'm not crazy! Women want me to trust them as they are pushing me away, They want a good time out in the world but have no idea who they are spending it with, Im typical I like my home but when I'm with the right person I like to go out into the world and play without having to worry about the person I'm with flirting with every guy that gives them a look, security and trust don't get built that way for me. I've never been a jealous person but the person I am doesnt like to feel detached from someone every time we go out, I need that closeness and knowing that I am with that person on an emotional level, Well I dont want this to run long but its nice to know that mabey I just havent found the right person yet Thanks Rog!

Cancer–a Cancer guy is a sensitive guy–and before he’s in love, his attention remains on his own feelings, but once he’s fallen for you, you become part of that feeling world. He becomes attuned, not to you, but to his own feeling state that has grown to include you, and this means that, though he’s totally close and loving in interation with you, he expects you to share his emotional reactions, perceptions, and conclusions to the letter–and this can be awkward if you’re not into co-dependence. The exceptional gentleness and compassion shown by the Cancer man can be very persuasive–you’ll know you’re loved, but inevitably there’ll come a point when you’ll wonder just how much ‘you’ there really is in your relationship.

How to react–Love with a Cancer man can be a total experience, like you’re enveloped in a perpetual wave of emotion–and if you have a strong streak of independence (unaspected Sun, strong Saturn or Uranus, lots of Aquarius, Capricorn, Aries, Scorpio, or Sagittarius) the constantly enmeshed feeling of the interaction can become overwhelming–where do you end and I begin? you may ask, and a Cancer man doesn’t necessarily want to answer, as part of the illusion of love for him is that there seem to be no boundaries between you. There’s also the possibility that the Cancer man so owns his Moon (as it is ruler of his Sun/ Soul) that there is no room for your Moon, and that means that, in a very real way, your emotional state may be unreal to this man. The best approach to possible confusion and even fusion of energies is to respond with real empathy and compassion to your man’s emotional state, but to make it very clear that there are some things a woman must carry for herself, including her own Moon energies. Gently show him that your emotions differ from his, own the nurturing qualities and functions you’re most aligned with, and keep the woman/Moon part of you prominent in the relationship–any guy as sensitive as the typical Cancer is will recognize that there are Moon energies especially attuned to the female, and will admire you for claiming them as yours.

Posted by TheSagLady_
17 years until someone replies



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HAHAHAHA

To steal Nikki's word.



Goofy ass person, whomever Necro posted this thread.

Why was it on the top of topics?Someone must've refreshed it somehow..

Posted by Piscox
Cancer men have been pulling the infamous disappearing act on DXP for 17 years. LOL.

Oh shit HAHAHHAHAHA

There are some great inputs from Cancer men here ??