Can a Cancer be in love with more than one person?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Cancerianbby69 on Wednesday, October 19, 2011 and has 10 replies.
Im a cancer and my friends think im an idiot to still have feelings for my past bfs, and that its weird/stupid to be in love with more than one person.
Ive been in love with a scorpio at first (he was my first everything and we would always be haveing the best time and would never shup up lol)
I broke it off because he was too perfect and I didnt want to keep breaking his heart.
Ive been with a cancer god he's the most sweetest bf ever, probably not the smartest but hes just awesome. They say cancers can open ppl up and we've both opened eachother up to that sweet side that nobody nas ever seen.
Ps: when we're alone at home, for dinner he likes to skip to the kitchen in joy while holding my hand lol talk abt corny ^__^
But once I left him (it was less than a month)for a libra that cought my eye in class. He was too quiet but the biggest smart ass in class to the point where nobody liked him and well long story short I opened him up and made him into that guy in class that ppl get surprised to see actually smile...and well yea I was with him for a couple of weeks. Left him for that cancer..cuz he was always depressed, failed all his classes etc. plus I missed him.
Over all im back with my cancer and picked him back on his feet.ps: we want to get married one day.
Anywho im still inlove with scorpio and libra and my friends think its weird to be inlove with more than one person.. Really?
Posted by iwin32
It happened to me once in high school. It was very weird because both girls were best friend; inseparable. I never asked any of the two out, but it would've been quite a trip if both of them decided to go at it at the same time. I knew I was into one, but I wasn't sure about the other one, maybe because one was a friend. That's how a met the other one Hahaha
I'm laughing right now, my high school years were the best.



High school years man. I always get stuck in the past. XP
Posted by thomas1214
so you broke up with three people for pretty much nothing?? and then your leading on the guy your with and going to get married AND THEN YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR THE OTHER TWO GUYS!? are you serious?


Lol single ?
Posted by Cancerianbby69

Anywho im still inlove with scorpio and libra and my friends think its weird to be inlove with more than one person.. Really?


You're just young, foolish and playing... wait until your heart gets broken, when you're not being the heartbreaker and then i bet you'll feel differently. Or... maybe not.
you're a playa crab... you should keep you're relationships light. Do your bf a favor and don't marry him
Nothing here sounds anything remotely of love...
you'll know what real love is...but it isn't with any of these three guys...at all...

I??ve been given this argument before in the past, once by a Cancer, and once by a Scorpio and the simple answer is that it??s just not love... perhaps a degree of affection or care, but certainly not love. When you are truly in love you can??t think about anyone else other than that person. That whole "I left him because someone else caught my eye" just doesn??t fly. haha
"Playa Crab pinches Fish on his nose."
Posted by piranhaparadiise
Nothing here sounds anything remotely of love...
you'll know what real love is...but it isn't with any of these three guys...at all...



maybe you are right because i care abou these guys...
i'm scared to get to knw someone new thou. i want
my cancer forever.
and shellshocker
geeshhh for the person that said to make my bf a
favor and no marry him..I TRIED LEAVING HIM REMEMBER
BUT HE WOULDN'T LEAVE ME ALONE AND
would literally stock me at work to get my attention.
i care abt this guy more than anyone. i've seen other couples
and the way they act, my relationships are different.
Posted by Cancerianbby69
Posted by piranhaparadiise
Nothing here sounds anything remotely of love...
you'll know what real love is...but it isn't with any of these three guys...at all...




and shellshocker
I TRIED LEAVING HIM REMEMBER
BUT HE WOULDN'T LEAVE ME ALONE AND
would literally stock me at work to get my attention.
i care abt this guy more than anyone.

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awww... so you're going to stay with him because he stalked you? that's not love... and he's safe and gives you security because you're scared to take the chance and wait for the person that makes you feel complete? that's not love...
doesn't matter if your relationship looks great... you're convincing yourself it's more than it may really be...
"don't be afraid to give up something good for something great" - John Rockerfeller (he's a Free Mason / Illuminati founder but still... smile
@shellshocker: that quote rings so true....

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