can a cancer woman ever be satisfied in love?

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cooperative_cancer
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17 Years

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Ok, so I'm on date 3 with a guy and I've fallen for him massively. He seems like everything I need, he's a very attentive and expressive Capricorn (basically all the qualities of a cap but some extra ones thrown in) I have already started to worry that these wonderful feelings I have for him right now wont last and this has NOTHING to do with the Guy. I think the problem is with ME, they don't seem to change but i do. With the exception of my first love this is what seems to happen. I fall deeply in love after about 8 weeks, within 6 months I couldn't be without him, within a year those magical feelings start to drift away......

I never cheat and I always try and hang on to the relationship, that cancer tenacity.But I'm not the best at hiding my emotions and somehow I think the guy I'm with knows deep down, that they are not who I want to be with, that I'm not satisfied.

I just wanna know if any other cancers have experienced this— The reason I ask is because although its very early days with this Capricorn, I'm very hopeful about what could come of it. I'm ready to settle down now but I fear what's happened with my two previous long term relationships, will happen again.

Any advice or comments would be appreciated, C_C xx
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AnnoyedCancer
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I feel you, the magical feelings that drift away...
And I think the reason you feel that you can never be satisfied is because the guy isn't EVERYTHING you want him to be. And most people will never live up to your desires or what you truly want in a person.
If I'm right, then I think maybe you should just try and focus on the good things, unless the guy is a major dick.
I'm going through this, and at times I dont want to keep going, and sometimes I'm not happy because the guy I'm with seems to be clueless with me. But, I truly like him and I find that he is a good guy.
I think maybe you should just focus on what YOU want, and if the guy isnt entirely perfect, than you should just either take it the way it is, or leave it.
You shouldn't let previous relationships hurt this one, not everyone is the same and nothing lasts forever, by this I mean, that there is always something new.