Can any cancer guys help—?

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ninjamu
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kitty: ur overanalyzing things and u need to take a step back for a minute. if u indulge ur jealous streak it will only lead to disaster. from what i gather u've only been on a couple of dates and ur acting like u own him. take it easy and breathe. remember that everyone has their own style s of communication. this may be normal for him and he doesn't see anything wrong with it. so, communicate, be forthright, and be confident. you're an aries so that shouldn't be too difficult.

confused: *sigh* oh, u leos... always so melodramatic. i am one myself but i still find this common trait a little bizarre. anyway, your story is a classic case of he's-not-into-you... at least for now. you're still good to go in the sense that he verbalized his liking you but ur gonna have to temper ur demanding, attention seeking leonine side. cancer men are pretty slow to rise and they will take their sweet assed time to feel u out. take this as a learning prospect. it is good for our fiery natures. it teaches us patience. also, it's best if u remain a little aloof or detached which is probably gonna bug the hardcore leo in u. i'm not saying downplay ur passionate, loving, and warm side. no, not at all! definitely show them that cuz it makes them feel loved and secure. however, cancers are moodier than hell so they require plenty of space to go through the motions. they'll appreciate u for it too.

he probably pulled back because he senses how deeply into it u are and now he must mull things over. also, he's keeping his options open. a clear sign of that is when he said that u guys were "going to be in a relationship soon". if he really wanted one with u he would have taken the initiative. it seems like he stepped back because he saw some traits that he may not like and is unsure of what he wants now.