Can Cancer and Aqua give me their thoughts?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Onimusha01 on Thursday, October 29, 2020 and has 18 replies.
Me Aqua sun, Cancer moon

Him Cancer sun, Aries Moon

My Cancer seem to be going through an emotional turmoil, and he politely told me he was to stressed bc of his previous exes and his current health issue and he did not wanted to talk or deal with anyone.

After that, I haven sent him couple of short msgs here and there, to let him know I hope he feeling better etc. etc. he has read my msgs but he don't answer.. the first msg I sent him like 2 days after that, he read it , no answer... the other msg like 3 days after , been like 4 days and it shows delivered, not read, so maybe he read it from his notifications.

I did not caused him any hurt, so I don't think he'll have anything against me. So, I understand he is probably just taking his time.

I don't have plans to keep texting him, I will give him time to see if he talks to me again. (if he does ) nobody knows when of if that will happen.

As Aqua sun Im a little bit detach of my friends, but I go behind their asses from time to time so they dont forget I'm here and I do not want to lose their friendship bc they are valuable to me. like if you made it to a point where I care about you... I will always. And Im awlays looking for ways to help my friends if I feel they are in need including emotional support.

I have Cancer moon... And if I were to ask someone to give me Space and that person text me from time to time or send me a get well present even if I don't answer... I will feel very appreciated and it will probably attract me more the fact that they are kinda showing me they are trying to deal with my crazy mood swings and caring about my well being.



Now my question is:

would you cancer man take it the same way... or you would feel annoyed?




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Posted by Arinoaqua

“My Cancer”

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Sharing him with all of his exes. Can't compute.... Sigh.
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He is divorce , baby momma is in another marriage, both he left them in bad terms. He had told me he still feels hurt every time he remembers. He was very opened up w me. So we didn’t have any issues.we used to communicate extremely well. But you’re right I got to let him be and move on. If he wanted me there , he would of put me there.
Posted by aquarius_man_

i only sleep with cancer girls and leave the very moment i came, swearing never to return
Yeah, I’m starting to feel crabs are like kryptonite for Aquas. Lol
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Posted by Arinoaqua

“My Cancer”

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Sharing him with all of his exes. Can't compute.... Sigh.


He is divorce , baby momma is in another marriage, both he left them in bad terms. He had told me he still feels hurt every time he remembers. He was very opened up w me. So we didn’t have any issues.we used to communicate extremely well. But you’re right I got to let him be and move on. If he wanted me there , he would of put me there.


I wouldn't understand why you would want him to bring all the hurt/drama into your new relationship if this was the case. He should solve that first before even thinking to let someone in like that.

Cancers usually take a lot of time, and this was all in a span of a month? Yeah no way.
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I understood Bc I was also in a very bad relationship a couple of years ago took me a while to regain my confidence before I start dating again , Im also still friend with that ex (gemini) and there are times that when we talk about our past relationship. I still argue w him. Even tho Im not interested in going back with him at all.

Like If I think about what my ex did to me from time to time, I will still feel hurt. so I knew exactly what his situation was. And we both wanted the same things in the future.


He was supposedly moved on and that's the first thing we spoke about. Me and him was a Month.

Here;s what I think personally, he is a very cool loving dude, and he is all about making his woman happy. so his exes are having regrets (based on thing he told me bout them) and he is struggling cuz he knows he wont take them back.

His exes saw the grass isnt that greener on the other side. so he has like a love hate feeling. ( for ex.me personally, I would of go back to my ex gemini if he hasn't hurt me the way he did, remember we dont walk away cuz we stop loving someone , we walk away cuz we got hurt) so I think they are playing w his emotions and he is taking it all in.

However if you saw his text on my other threat he states he is afraid to start something and end up in the same situation again. So I think bc the situation w his exes. and me and him getting deeper ... he just got more scared and decided to call it quit.
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Posted by aquarius_man_

i only sleep with cancer girls and leave the very moment i came, swearing never to return


Yeah, I’m starting to feel crabs are like kryptonite for Aquas. Lol
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It’s your fixed nature, you can’t help it.

You really should move on from him.
Lol I got ghosted by a cancer man like this. Ugh and when are cancer man NOT going through something 😂🤦‍♀️ Mine was going through family and work stuff. Anyway, I think you should date a more fun sign like an Aries. They will appreciate your warm gestures but also make you laugh. Unlike cancer men who drag their emotional baggage everywhere. 🙊 But that's just my opinion. ✨
Posted by applecherrypie

Lol I got ghosted by a cancer man like this. Ugh and when are cancer man NOT going through something 😂🤦‍♀️ Mine was going through family and work stuff. Anyway, I think you should date a more fun sign like an Aries. They will appreciate your warm gestures but also make you laugh. Unlike cancer men who drag their emotional baggage everywhere. 🙊 But that's just my opinion. ✨
Nah, if this cancer wouldn’t have any Ex’s drama, he would of been my soulmate. He has everything I wanted. Funny, crazy, cool, loving, understanding, he was my perfect man.
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Lol I got ghosted by a cancer man like this. Ugh and when are cancer man NOT going through something 😂🤦‍♀️ Mine was going through family and work stuff. Anyway, I think you should date a more fun sign like an Aries. They will appreciate your warm gestures but also make you laugh. Unlike cancer men who drag their emotional baggage everywhere. 🙊 But that's just my opinion. ✨


Nah, if this cancer wouldn’t have any Ex’s drama, he would of been my soulmate. He has everything I wanted. Funny, crazy, cool, loving, understanding, he was my perfect man.
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Yeah Cancers are good at being the perfect man until they go emo on you. I find cancer women actually the funniest in the Zodiac but men aren't as funny. Anyway I don't want to rain on your parade or project my bad experiences on you. But in my experience, this crab is getting nervous that he started something that he does not have the emotional capacity for. The harder you try, the more he will retreat as he sees it as you pressuring him into a relationship. Give him space. Maybe he will apologize and come back. If not, good riddance for dodging all the future silence treatments and whining. Lol Clearly, I am biased though. 😁
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Lol I got ghosted by a cancer man like this. Ugh and when are cancer man NOT going through something 😂🤦‍♀️ Mine was going through family and work stuff. Anyway, I think you should date a more fun sign like an Aries. They will appreciate your warm gestures but also make you laugh. Unlike cancer men who drag their emotional baggage everywhere. 🙊 But that's just my opinion. ✨


Nah, if this cancer wouldn’t have any Ex’s drama, he would of been my soulmate. He has everything I wanted. Funny, crazy, cool, loving, understanding, he was my perfect man.


Yeah Cancers are good at being the perfect man until they go emo on you. I find cancer women actually the funniest in the Zodiac but men aren't as funny. Anyway I don't want to rain on your parade or project my bad experiences on you. But in my experience, this crab is getting nervous that he started something that he does not have the emotional capacity for. The harder you try, the more he will retreat as he sees it as you pressuring him into a relationship. Give him space. Maybe he will apologize and come back. If not, good riddance for dodging all the future silence treatments and whining. Lol Clearly, I am biased though. 😁
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No, I actually like your comment, this is the 2nd time I’m w a cancer, 1 st one was really a narcissist. Very different to this one.

I wasn’t really the one pressuring him, I’m Aquarius , I just tagged alone with whatever he wanted to do. Lol. He was extremely funny, ofc For my dark sarcastic humor. He matched it perfectly which is weird for me to meet someone who don’t get offended with my honesty. He could disappear for the entires day. And his first text msg was a whole explanation of what he did. Without me even asking. So, yeah! I’m going to leave him alone. Maybe one day I get a text with an explanation. Lol. As he took the time to explain to me me what was going on instead of ghosting me.

Don't sound like he's that into you, lady..

When I love a woman, I knock her door down and take her back to my lair where she will live for all eternity. Or until we break up.
Posted by Emhendo

Don't sound like he's that into you, lady..

When I love a woman, I knock her door down and take her back to my lair where she will live for all eternity. Or until we break up.
I got that! but you sound very young, we both been through bad relationships and heartbreaks. So the situation is different once you been fk up previously.
Posted by Onimusha01

Me Aqua sun, Cancer moon

Him Cancer sun, Aries Moon

My Cancer seem to be going through an emotional turmoil, and he politely told me he was to stressed bc of his previous exes and his current health issue and he did not wanted to talk or deal with anyone.

After that, I haven sent him couple of short msgs here and there, to let him know I hope he feeling better etc. etc. he has read my msgs but he don't answer.. the first msg I sent him like 2 days after that, he read it , no answer... the other msg like 3 days after , been like 4 days and it shows delivered, not read, so maybe he read it from his notifications.

I did not caused him any hurt, so I don't think he'll have anything against me. So, I understand he is probably just taking his time.

I don't have plans to keep texting him, I will give him time to see if he talks to me again. (if he does ) nobody knows when of if that will happen.

As Aqua sun Im a little bit detach of my friends, but I go behind their asses from time to time so they dont forget I'm here and I do not want to lose their friendship bc they are valuable to me. like if you made it to a point where I care about you... I will always. And Im awlays looking for ways to help my friends if I feel they are in need including emotional support.

I have Cancer moon... And if I were to ask someone to give me Space and that person text me from time to time or send me a get well present even if I don't answer... I will feel very appreciated and it will probably attract me more the fact that they are kinda showing me they are trying to deal with my crazy mood swings and caring about my well being.



Now my question is:

would you cancer man take it the same way... or you would feel annoyed?
Cancer sun, cap moon here; i think personality wise i can give some good advice; being an aqua/cancer must be very hard; you might not understand this astro-babble simply because you've been one your entire life, and the two extremes in temperament is what you've solely known, but when discussing separate individuals, aquas and cancerians have literally no business together! Different as night and day. But since you were born w/ a cancer moon, his cancer sun makes for one of the strongest soul mate connections. Also, he's in somewhat the same boat, not as bad though; Cancers and aries have little to no business together also; it would be *worse* if he was an Aries sun, cancer moon, it's better as a Cancer sun Aries moon; makes him empathetic and kind, just much, much more tough. Also, his moon is good with your sun.

What're the birth dates? I'll examine the rest of the chart. If this is a really, really good match, I'd probably not let go of it; it's very hard to find someone who'se not only sexually appealing to you, but who understands you as deeply as the sun/moon connection you two have can, if, the rest of the planets in your charts align. If your charts are good, i'd do team building exercises together, even see a counselor for fun (i'd see counseling as eye opening and fun I know i'm weird) just to strengthen the bond, alleviate and misunderstandings between the two egos (your sun sign is your ego; cancer and aquarius are completely aspiring in two separate directions so you have to be aware of his direction and vice versa to avoid head butting and a lack of support and understanding from the other)
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Me Aqua sun, Cancer moon

Him Cancer sun, Aries Moon

My Cancer seem to be going through an emotional turmoil, and he politely told me he was to stressed bc of his previous exes and his current health issue and he did not wanted to talk or deal with anyone.

After that, I haven sent him couple of short msgs here and there, to let him know I hope he feeling better etc. etc. he has read my msgs but he don't answer.. the first msg I sent him like 2 days after that, he read it , no answer... the other msg like 3 days after , been like 4 days and it shows delivered, not read, so maybe he read it from his notifications.

I did not caused him any hurt, so I don't think he'll have anything against me. So, I understand he is probably just taking his time.

I don't have plans to keep texting him, I will give him time to see if he talks to me again. (if he does ) nobody knows when of if that will happen.

As Aqua sun Im a little bit detach of my friends, but I go behind their asses from time to time so they dont forget I'm here and I do not want to lose their friendship bc they are valuable to me. like if you made it to a point where I care about you... I will always. And Im awlays looking for ways to help my friends if I feel they are in need including emotional support.

I have Cancer moon... And if I were to ask someone to give me Space and that person text me from time to time or send me a get well present even if I don't answer... I will feel very appreciated and it will probably attract me more the fact that they are kinda showing me they are trying to deal with my crazy mood swings and caring about my well being.



Now my question is:

would you cancer man take it the same way... or you would feel annoyed?


Cancer sun, cap moon here; i think personality wise i can give some good advice; being an aqua/cancer must be very hard; you might not understand this astro-babble simply because you've been one your entire life, and the two extremes in temperament is what you've solely known, but when discussing separate individuals, aquas and cancerians have literally no business together! Different as night and day. But since you were born w/ a cancer moon, his cancer sun makes for one of the strongest soul mate connections. Also, he's in somewhat the same boat, not as bad though; Cancers and aries have little to no business together also; it would be *worse* if he was an Aries sun, cancer moon, it's better as a Cancer sun Aries moon; makes him empathetic and kind, just much, much more tough. Also, his moon is good with your sun.

What're the birth dates? I'll examine the rest of the chart. If this is a really, really good match, I'd probably not let go of it; it's very hard to find someone who'se not only sexually appealing to you, but who understands you as deeply as the sun/moon connection you two have can, if, the rest of the planets in your charts align. If your charts are good, i'd do team building exercises together, even see a counselor for fun (i'd see counseling as eye opening and fun I know i'm weird) just to strengthen the bond, alleviate and misunderstandings between the two egos (your sun sign is your ego; cancer and aquarius are completely aspiring in two separate directions so you have to be aware of his direction and vice versa to avoid head butting and a lack of support and understanding from the other)
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Its funny you say that and soo true, we did felt like we were soulmates, and that's why i'm feeling so confuse about him, I know bc he told me a couple of times that he has never been so open with nobody else before but that he could do that with me and he had told me things he never talk about his feelings. And we were so similar that we never even had a different opinion than the other.. sometimes I told him things he used to say it felt I took the words of his mouth or if I was reading his mind lol. idk. I want to move on as he is not talking to me now... but it been hard, cuz we were having something really beautiful. scks.!

Also yes, everything I do is to either too much, or nothing at all... I dont have middle terms. !

Me 02/02/1977

Him 07/20/1984
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Me Aqua sun, Cancer moon

Him Cancer sun, Aries Moon

My Cancer seem to be going through an emotional turmoil, and he politely told me he was to stressed bc of his previous exes and his current health issue and he did not wanted to talk or deal with anyone.

After that, I haven sent him couple of short msgs here and there, to let him know I hope he feeling better etc. etc. he has read my msgs but he don't answer.. the first msg I sent him like 2 days after that, he read it , no answer... the other msg like 3 days after , been like 4 days and it shows delivered, not read, so maybe he read it from his notifications.

I did not caused him any hurt, so I don't think he'll have anything against me. So, I understand he is probably just taking his time.

I don't have plans to keep texting him, I will give him time to see if he talks to me again. (if he does ) nobody knows when of if that will happen.

As Aqua sun Im a little bit detach of my friends, but I go behind their asses from time to time so they dont forget I'm here and I do not want to lose their friendship bc they are valuable to me. like if you made it to a point where I care about you... I will always. And Im awlays looking for ways to help my friends if I feel they are in need including emotional support.

I have Cancer moon... And if I were to ask someone to give me Space and that person text me from time to time or send me a get well present even if I don't answer... I will feel very appreciated and it will probably attract me more the fact that they are kinda showing me they are trying to deal with my crazy mood swings and caring about my well being.



Now my question is:

would you cancer man take it the same way... or you would feel annoyed?


Cancer sun, cap moon here; i think personality wise i can give some good advice; being an aqua/cancer must be very hard; you might not understand this astro-babble simply because you've been one your entire life, and the two extremes in temperament is what you've solely known, but when discussing separate individuals, aquas and cancerians have literally no business together! Different as night and day. But since you were born w/ a cancer moon, his cancer sun makes for one of the strongest soul mate connections. Also, he's in somewhat the same boat, not as bad though; Cancers and aries have little to no business together also; it would be *worse* if he was an Aries sun, cancer moon, it's better as a Cancer sun Aries moon; makes him empathetic and kind, just much, much more tough. Also, his moon is good with your sun.

What're the birth dates? I'll examine the rest of the chart. If this is a really, really good match, I'd probably not let go of it; it's very hard to find someone who'se not only sexually appealing to you, but who understands you as deeply as the sun/moon connection you two have can, if, the rest of the planets in your charts align. If your charts are good, i'd do team building exercises together, even see a counselor for fun (i'd see counseling as eye opening and fun I know i'm weird) just to strengthen the bond, alleviate and misunderstandings between the two egos (your sun sign is your ego; cancer and aquarius are completely aspiring in two separate directions so you have to be aware of his direction and vice versa to avoid head butting and a lack of support and understanding from the other)


Its funny you say that and soo true, we did felt like we were soulmates, and that's why i'm feeling so confuse about him, I know bc he told me a couple of times that he has never been so open with nobody else before but that he could do that with me and he had told me things he never talk about his feelings. And we were so similar that we never even had a different opinion than the other.. sometimes I told him things he used to say it felt I took the words of his mouth or if I was reading his mind lol. idk. I want to move on as he is not talking to me now... but it been hard, cuz we were having something really beautiful. scks.!

Also yes, everything I do is to either too much, or nothing at all... I dont have middle terms. !

Me 02/02/1977

Him 07/20/1984
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Ok, i read your charts. For the record, you don't have a cancer on your hands. He's a "cancer-leo," like me. One of thee best matches for an aquarius. Cancer-leo is a cusp born (I'm a cancer leo; july 19) Cancer leo's are thee hardest cusp to understand of all those cusp-born. We're incredibly emotionally blocked. you have someone who steals the spotlight just by walking into the room, although he can privately get uncomfortable and not know what to do with the situation even though he may play it off.

Cancer leo's are incredibly smart and psychologically inclined. They do, however,benefit from speaking to a counselor because they have so much going on inside. (Many cancer leo's in hollywood actually were involved in possible suicides; Natalie Wood, Robin Williams, Earnest Hemingway) or have mild breakdowns (Selena Gomez); inside we can feel terribly misunderstood. Bad social skills because we can our honesty can come off as condescending. In the past, i've hurt people, and cancer nature felt horrible about it. We're resistant to emotional manipulation and see right through it. i can talk forever about this but longstory short, he's very very exciting, courageous, but privately suffers from depression because he feels misunderstood. His mars is in scorpio; the most powerful placement for someone to have scorpio. so his sun sign sees through everyone's bullshit, and, his mars makes him psychic. He sees right through everything to the core. Mars is our aggression and when in scorpio, revenge is considerable to him being a warmed up butter knife left to lean against a stick of butter. His revenge will be subtle and severe when he feels crossed. (Your mars, however, is exhalted in Capricorn, thee best Mars sign to have; you know how to time and strike in your defense, and you of all people, can put him in his place) Your venus is aries, his moon again, is aries (major soulmate connection) Your south node is aries, again, his moon is aries (major soulmate connection) his venus is leo, opposite your sign creates a nice element of sexual tension. Venus in aries and venus in leo are compatible sex partners. There's a bunch of other minor aspects in place too. You two are very, very compatible.

Here’s where it gets more interesting. Your Chinese zodiac is the dragon; the best sign; you’re intense and make an immediate impression on everyone; subtly. Your spirit is indomitable. He’s a rat; quit, shrewd, always thinking about making money. Keeps a small circle of friends and family. Both animals are very compatible. **Do not let him go!

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Me Aqua sun, Cancer moon

Him Cancer sun, Aries Moon

My Cancer seem to be going through an emotional turmoil, and he politely told me he was to stressed bc of his previous exes and his current health issue and he did not wanted to talk or deal with anyone.

After that, I haven sent him couple of short msgs here and there, to let him know I hope he feeling better etc. etc. he has read my msgs but he don't answer.. the first msg I sent him like 2 days after that, he read it , no answer... the other msg like 3 days after , been like 4 days and it shows delivered, not read, so maybe he read it from his notifications.

I did not caused him any hurt, so I don't think he'll have anything against me. So, I understand he is probably just taking his time.

I don't have plans to keep texting him, I will give him time to see if he talks to me again. (if he does ) nobody knows when of if that will happen.

As Aqua sun Im a little bit detach of my friends, but I go behind their asses from time to time so they dont forget I'm here and I do not want to lose their friendship bc they are valuable to me. like if you made it to a point where I care about you... I will always. And Im awlays looking for ways to help my friends if I feel they are in need including emotional support.

I have Cancer moon... And if I were to ask someone to give me Space and that person text me from time to time or send me a get well present even if I don't answer... I will feel very appreciated and it will probably attract me more the fact that they are kinda showing me they are trying to deal with my crazy mood swings and caring about my well being.



Now my question is:

would you cancer man take it the same way... or you would feel annoyed?


Cancer sun, cap moon here; i think personality wise i can give some good advice; being an aqua/cancer must be very hard; you might not understand this astro-babble simply because you've been one your entire life, and the two extremes in temperament is what you've solely known, but when discussing separate individuals, aquas and cancerians have literally no business together! Different as night and day. But since you were born w/ a cancer moon, his cancer sun makes for one of the strongest soul mate connections. Also, he's in somewhat the same boat, not as bad though; Cancers and aries have little to no business together also; it would be *worse* if he was an Aries sun, cancer moon, it's better as a Cancer sun Aries moon; makes him empathetic and kind, just much, much more tough. Also, his moon is good with your sun.

What're the birth dates? I'll examine the rest of the chart. If this is a really, really good match, I'd probably not let go of it; it's very hard to find someone who'se not only sexually appealing to you, but who understands you as deeply as the sun/moon connection you two have can, if, the rest of the planets in your charts align. If your charts are good, i'd do team building exercises together, even see a counselor for fun (i'd see counseling as eye opening and fun I know i'm weird) just to strengthen the bond, alleviate and misunderstandings between the two egos (your sun sign is your ego; cancer and aquarius are completely aspiring in two separate directions so you have to be aware of his direction and vice versa to avoid head butting and a lack of support and understanding from the other)


Its funny you say that and soo true, we did felt like we were soulmates, and that's why i'm feeling so confuse about him, I know bc he told me a couple of times that he has never been so open with nobody else before but that he could do that with me and he had told me things he never talk about his feelings. And we were so similar that we never even had a different opinion than the other.. sometimes I told him things he used to say it felt I took the words of his mouth or if I was reading his mind lol. idk. I want to move on as he is not talking to me now... but it been hard, cuz we were having something really beautiful. scks.!

Also yes, everything I do is to either too much, or nothing at all... I dont have middle terms. !

Me 02/02/1977

Him 07/20/1984


Ok, i read your charts. For the record, you don't have a cancer on your hands. He's a "cancer-leo," like me. One of thee best matches for an aquarius. Cancer-leo is a cusp born (I'm a cancer leo; july 19) Cancer leo's are thee hardest cusp to understand of all those cusp-born. We're incredibly emotionally blocked. you have someone who steals the spotlight just by walking into the room, although he can privately get uncomfortable and not know what to do with the situation even though he may play it off.

Cancer leo's are incredibly smart and psychologically inclined. They do, however,benefit from speaking to a counselor because they have so much going on inside. (Many cancer leo's in hollywood actually were involved in possible suicides; Natalie Wood, Robin Williams, Earnest Hemingway) or have mild breakdowns (Selena Gomez); inside we can feel terribly misunderstood. Bad social skills because we can our honesty can come off as condescending. In the past, i've hurt people, and cancer nature felt horrible about it. We're resistant to emotional manipulation and see right through it. i can talk forever about this but longstory short, he's very very exciting, courageous, but privately suffers from depression because he feels misunderstood. His mars is in scorpio; the most powerful placement for someone to have scorpio. so his sun sign sees through everyone's bullshit, and, his mars makes him psychic. He sees right through everything to the core. Mars is our aggression and when in scorpio, revenge is considerable to him being a warmed up butter knife left to lean against a stick of butter. His revenge will be subtle and severe when he feels crossed. (Your mars, however, is exhalted in Capricorn, thee best Mars sign to have; you know how to time and strike in your defense, and you of all people, can put him in his place) Your venus is aries, his moon again, is aries (major soulmate connection) Your south node is aries, again, his moon is aries (major soulmate connection) his venus is leo, opposite your sign creates a nice element of sexual tension. Venus in aries and venus in leo are compatible sex partners. There's a bunch of other minor aspects in place too. You two are very, very compatible.

Here’s where it gets more interesting. Your Chinese zodiac is the dragon; the best sign; you’re intense and make an immediate impression on everyone; subtly. Your spirit is indomitable. He’s a rat; quit, shrewd, always thinking about making money. Keeps a small circle of friends and family. Both animals are very compatible. **Do not let him go!
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puff// no wonder I felt he was "the one" when I met him. lol ..
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Me Aqua sun, Cancer moon

Him Cancer sun, Aries Moon

My Cancer seem to be going through an emotional turmoil, and he politely told me he was to stressed bc of his previous exes and his current health issue and he did not wanted to talk or deal with anyone.

After that, I haven sent him couple of short msgs here and there, to let him know I hope he feeling better etc. etc. he has read my msgs but he don't answer.. the first msg I sent him like 2 days after that, he read it , no answer... the other msg like 3 days after , been like 4 days and it shows delivered, not read, so maybe he read it from his notifications.

I did not caused him any hurt, so I don't think he'll have anything against me. So, I understand he is probably just taking his time.

I don't have plans to keep texting him, I will give him time to see if he talks to me again. (if he does ) nobody knows when of if that will happen.

As Aqua sun Im a little bit detach of my friends, but I go behind their asses from time to time so they dont forget I'm here and I do not want to lose their friendship bc they are valuable to me. like if you made it to a point where I care about you... I will always. And Im awlays looking for ways to help my friends if I feel they are in need including emotional support.

I have Cancer moon... And if I were to ask someone to give me Space and that person text me from time to time or send me a get well present even if I don't answer... I will feel very appreciated and it will probably attract me more the fact that they are kinda showing me they are trying to deal with my crazy mood swings and caring about my well being.



Now my question is:

would you cancer man take it the same way... or you would feel annoyed?


Cancer sun, cap moon here; i think personality wise i can give some good advice; being an aqua/cancer must be very hard; you might not understand this astro-babble simply because you've been one your entire life, and the two extremes in temperament is what you've solely known, but when discussing separate individuals, aquas and cancerians have literally no business together! Different as night and day. But since you were born w/ a cancer moon, his cancer sun makes for one of the strongest soul mate connections. Also, he's in somewhat the same boat, not as bad though; Cancers and aries have little to no business together also; it would be *worse* if he was an Aries sun, cancer moon, it's better as a Cancer sun Aries moon; makes him empathetic and kind, just much, much more tough. Also, his moon is good with your sun.

What're the birth dates? I'll examine the rest of the chart. If this is a really, really good match, I'd probably not let go of it; it's very hard to find someone who'se not only sexually appealing to you, but who understands you as deeply as the sun/moon connection you two have can, if, the rest of the planets in your charts align. If your charts are good, i'd do team building exercises together, even see a counselor for fun (i'd see counseling as eye opening and fun I know i'm weird) just to strengthen the bond, alleviate and misunderstandings between the two egos (your sun sign is your ego; cancer and aquarius are completely aspiring in two separate directions so you have to be aware of his direction and vice versa to avoid head butting and a lack of support and understanding from the other)


Its funny you say that and soo true, we did felt like we were soulmates, and that's why i'm feeling so confuse about him, I know bc he told me a couple of times that he has never been so open with nobody else before but that he could do that with me and he had told me things he never talk about his feelings. And we were so similar that we never even had a different opinion than the other.. sometimes I told him things he used to say it felt I took the words of his mouth or if I was reading his mind lol. idk. I want to move on as he is not talking to me now... but it been hard, cuz we were having something really beautiful. scks.!

Also yes, everything I do is to either too much, or nothing at all... I dont have middle terms. !

Me 02/02/1977

Him 07/20/1984


Ok, i read your charts. For the record, you don't have a cancer on your hands. He's a "cancer-leo," like me. One of thee best matches for an aquarius. Cancer-leo is a cusp born (I'm a cancer leo; july 19) Cancer leo's are thee hardest cusp to understand of all those cusp-born. We're incredibly emotionally blocked. you have someone who steals the spotlight just by walking into the room, although he can privately get uncomfortable and not know what to do with the situation even though he may play it off.

Cancer leo's are incredibly smart and psychologically inclined. They do, however,benefit from speaking to a counselor because they have so much going on inside. (Many cancer leo's in hollywood actually were involved in possible suicides; Natalie Wood, Robin Williams, Earnest Hemingway) or have mild breakdowns (Selena Gomez); inside we can feel terribly misunderstood. Bad social skills because we can our honesty can come off as condescending. In the past, i've hurt people, and cancer nature felt horrible about it. We're resistant to emotional manipulation and see right through it. i can talk forever about this but longstory short, he's very very exciting, courageous, but privately suffers from depression because he feels misunderstood. His mars is in scorpio; the most powerful placement for someone to have scorpio. so his sun sign sees through everyone's bullshit, and, his mars makes him psychic. He sees right through everything to the core. Mars is our aggression and when in scorpio, revenge is considerable to him being a warmed up butter knife left to lean against a stick of butter. His revenge will be subtle and severe when he feels crossed. (Your mars, however, is exhalted in Capricorn, thee best Mars sign to have; you know how to time and strike in your defense, and you of all people, can put him in his place) Your venus is aries, his moon again, is aries (major soulmate connection) Your south node is aries, again, his moon is aries (major soulmate connection) his venus is leo, opposite your sign creates a nice element of sexual tension. Venus in aries and venus in leo are compatible sex partners. There's a bunch of other minor aspects in place too. You two are very, very compatible.

Here’s where it gets more interesting. Your Chinese zodiac is the dragon; the best sign; you’re intense and make an immediate impression on everyone; subtly. Your spirit is indomitable. He’s a rat; quit, shrewd, always thinking about making money. Keeps a small circle of friends and family. Both animals are very compatible. **Do not let him go!


puff// no wonder I felt he was "the one" when I met him. lol ..
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Work it out with him. he needs youmore than he's letting on. he might have a bit of an ego. But he'll be worth your effort in youears to come; as a support stone privately as well as a force to be reckoned with helping you with career. You two are on the same page personally, and professionally, and you'll never get bored with him. Take him to a lot of hobby clubs; both of you have incredible minds that need to be kept active; science fairs, science clubs, debate clubs, camping trips to nat'l parks, etc.
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0

Sun Aquarius 13°43' I ASC Taurus 10°21'

Moon Cancer 25°33' II Gemini 9°38'

Mercury Capricorn 19°13' III Cancer 5°08'

Venus Aries 0°24' IV Leo 0°37'

Mars Capricorn 24°45' V Leo 29°23'

Jupiter Taurus 21°44' VI Libra 3°24'

Saturn Leo 13°25' R VII Scorpio 10°21'

Uranus Scorpio 11°43' VIII Sagittarius 9°38'

Neptune Sagittarius 15°38' IX Capricorn 5°08'

Pluto Libra 14°07' R X MC Aquarius 0°37'

Lilith Taurus 21°09' XI Aquarius 29°23'

N Node Libra 27°25' XII Aries 3°24'
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Me Aqua sun, Cancer moon

Him Cancer sun, Aries Moon

My Cancer seem to be going through an emotional turmoil, and he politely told me he was to stressed bc of his previous exes and his current health issue and he did not wanted to talk or deal with anyone.

After that, I haven sent him couple of short msgs here and there, to let him know I hope he feeling better etc. etc. he has read my msgs but he don't answer.. the first msg I sent him like 2 days after that, he read it , no answer... the other msg like 3 days after , been like 4 days and it shows delivered, not read, so maybe he read it from his notifications.

I did not caused him any hurt, so I don't think he'll have anything against me. So, I understand he is probably just taking his time.

I don't have plans to keep texting him, I will give him time to see if he talks to me again. (if he does ) nobody knows when of if that will happen.

As Aqua sun Im a little bit detach of my friends, but I go behind their asses from time to time so they dont forget I'm here and I do not want to lose their friendship bc they are valuable to me. like if you made it to a point where I care about you... I will always. And Im awlays looking for ways to help my friends if I feel they are in need including emotional support.

I have Cancer moon... And if I were to ask someone to give me Space and that person text me from time to time or send me a get well present even if I don't answer... I will feel very appreciated and it will probably attract me more the fact that they are kinda showing me they are trying to deal with my crazy mood swings and caring about my well being.



Now my question is:

would you cancer man take it the same way... or you would feel annoyed?


Cancer sun, cap moon here; i think personality wise i can give some good advice; being an aqua/cancer must be very hard; you might not understand this astro-babble simply because you've been one your entire life, and the two extremes in temperament is what you've solely known, but when discussing separate individuals, aquas and cancerians have literally no business together! Different as night and day. But since you were born w/ a cancer moon, his cancer sun makes for one of the strongest soul mate connections. Also, he's in somewhat the same boat, not as bad though; Cancers and aries have little to no business together also; it would be *worse* if he was an Aries sun, cancer moon, it's better as a Cancer sun Aries moon; makes him empathetic and kind, just much, much more tough. Also, his moon is good with your sun.

What're the birth dates? I'll examine the rest of the chart. If this is a really, really good match, I'd probably not let go of it; it's very hard to find someone who'se not only sexually appealing to you, but who understands you as deeply as the sun/moon connection you two have can, if, the rest of the planets in your charts align. If your charts are good, i'd do team building exercises together, even see a counselor for fun (i'd see counseling as eye opening and fun I know i'm weird) just to strengthen the bond, alleviate and misunderstandings between the two egos (your sun sign is your ego; cancer and aquarius are completely aspiring in two separate directions so you have to be aware of his direction and vice versa to avoid head butting and a lack of support and understanding from the other)


Its funny you say that and soo true, we did felt like we were soulmates, and that's why i'm feeling so confuse about him, I know bc he told me a couple of times that he has never been so open with nobody else before but that he could do that with me and he had told me things he never talk about his feelings. And we were so similar that we never even had a different opinion than the other.. sometimes I told him things he used to say it felt I took the words of his mouth or if I was reading his mind lol. idk. I want to move on as he is not talking to me now... but it been hard, cuz we were having something really beautiful. scks.!

Also yes, everything I do is to either too much, or nothing at all... I dont have middle terms. !

Me 02/02/1977

Him 07/20/1984


Ok, i read your charts. For the record, you don't have a cancer on your hands. He's a "cancer-leo," like me. One of thee best matches for an aquarius. Cancer-leo is a cusp born (I'm a cancer leo; july 19) Cancer leo's are thee hardest cusp to understand of all those cusp-born. We're incredibly emotionally blocked. you have someone who steals the spotlight just by walking into the room, although he can privately get uncomfortable and not know what to do with the situation even though he may play it off.

Cancer leo's are incredibly smart and psychologically inclined. They do, however,benefit from speaking to a counselor because they have so much going on inside. (Many cancer leo's in hollywood actually were involved in possible suicides; Natalie Wood, Robin Williams, Earnest Hemingway) or have mild breakdowns (Selena Gomez); inside we can feel terribly misunderstood. Bad social skills because we can our honesty can come off as condescending. In the past, i've hurt people, and cancer nature felt horrible about it. We're resistant to emotional manipulation and see right through it. i can talk forever about this but longstory short, he's very very exciting, courageous, but privately suffers from depression because he feels misunderstood. His mars is in scorpio; the most powerful placement for someone to have scorpio. so his sun sign sees through everyone's bullshit, and, his mars makes him psychic. He sees right through everything to the core. Mars is our aggression and when in scorpio, revenge is considerable to him being a warmed up butter knife left to lean against a stick of butter. His revenge will be subtle and severe when he feels crossed. (Your mars, however, is exhalted in Capricorn, thee best Mars sign to have; you know how to time and strike in your defense, and you of all people, can put him in his place) Your venus is aries, his moon again, is aries (major soulmate connection) Your south node is aries, again, his moon is aries (major soulmate connection) his venus is leo, opposite your sign creates a nice element of sexual tension. Venus in aries and venus in leo are compatible sex partners. There's a bunch of other minor aspects in place too. You two are very, very compatible.

Here’s where it gets more interesting. Your Chinese zodiac is the dragon; the best sign; you’re intense and make an immediate impression on everyone; subtly. Your spirit is indomitable. He’s a rat; quit, shrewd, always thinking about making money. Keeps a small circle of friends and family. Both animals are very compatible. **Do not let him go!


puff// no wonder I felt he was "the one" when I met him. lol ..
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His mental health is dependent on having lots of activities. Don't baby him though; at these fairs and seminars, he needs to talk on his own and play nice with people. If you try to help him, he might think you're a pussy.

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