I will try to keep this story as short as possible,
Few years ago met this cancer man. We were attracted to each other instantly.
But we both were in on/off relationships. He broke up with her and were back together and it continued for years. She was manipulative, liar and cheater. Once he made a decision to break up with her for good to be with me, but she fighted for him.
We tried to stay friends all this time couse we worked together. He trusted me I guess couse he was never afraid to be emotional in front of me. I was always there for him with my advice. I never fought for him like she did, couse I knew he still loves her. And I just wanted him to be happy even if its means we will never be together. But i never lost my hope that some day he will be out of this toxic relationships and will see clearly how bad she is treating him. But we all know this saying - love is blind.
After few years he moved back home and I moved on, couse he wasn't around me anymore. It became a bit easier for me, but I was never truly happy with my life.
Then one day out of blue he just contacted me. They broke up for good. He said that he was just thinking about his life whole life and he made biggest mistake of his life for not being with me when he had a chance, couse he always loved me. He was blinded by love but now he sees clearly that I am the one who always cared for him and I am the most amazing person on earth. I am sweet and kind and so on.
There happened so much in past few years, but i tried to keep this story very short. I know he was always attracted to me and he never wanted to hurt me on purpose but he did.
I dont know if i can trust him now, couse I dont want to be hurt again by him.
Are cancer man like this? Should I trust him or Am I just a rebound couse he doesnt want to alone and dont want to start all over with new relationships? Am I just something safe and something he knows very well?
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Dec 14, 2016Comments: 7399 · Posts: 18799 · Topics: 84
Ah the infamous crab walk. LOL
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Feb 24, 2015Comments: 1112 · Posts: 2509 · Topics: 34
"can i trust cancer?"
LOL
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Jul 18, 2012Comments: 872 · Posts: 3486 · Topics: 236
The men can be amazing, but they are unreliable and erratic.
If you are asking yourself this question, then don't just move on to someone you feel secure with. Otherwise, you will be asking yourself this question your whole life.
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Jan 27, 2016Comments: 742 · Posts: 1687 · Topics: 59
Nope they don't lie. Never ever. Honest as Jesus.
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Mar 24, 2017Comments: 132 · Posts: 837 · Topics: 85
I have 2 cancer who never lied , almost so honest you can sense the hurt sometimes.
Then I know one who is a cheater and liar . Gets defensive defensive when anyone talk about liars and Cheater as if it was thrown directly at him . Kinda funny , kinda sad that he did that to himself. If he just came forward with the girl he cheated on who already know deep down that he cheated. He would feel better as I don't think they girl would leave
I agree with coldwateryvirgo,
But, I will do anything in my favor in a relationship(even lie). Everything actually not jus relationships!! Even if that means being so honest its hurts.
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Jun 27, 2016Comments: 975 · Posts: 5791 · Topics: 44
If a cancer has had their heart truly broken once before, you can trust them. If not, nope. They do not yet understand the importance of love.