Can therapist ( who happen to be cancer man ) fall in love with his client?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Rania_1498 on Wednesday, November 1, 2023 and has 129 replies.
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I started therapy 2 months ago
With this therapist first session was very neutral
And we spoke about my childhood trauma
I reached out for help to heal from my ex partner.
He was very helpful and validate everything I said
In the second therapy we did hypnotherapy
I can’t share all details but something happened
Something really intense . Like a shift in energies
I was feeling so safe and good after we finished , he said wooow what an energy and looked me in the eyes and told me there’s something fluid about you.
After that it became like a game for both of us
We laugh we talk we speak a lot sometimes we stay 3 hours just speaking and he sometimes compliments me saying ( I don’t want to say this but there’s something very honest and innocent about you, you are a brave soul ) any way after the last session we also did hypnosis and during that hypnosis more intense and reaction from my side happened he put his both hands on my head to calm me down.
He started sweating after we finished ..
He told how the energy was intense and he asked me to stop because it was intense & powerful ..
I told him that my soul knows his soul.
He said the same , that he knew my soul from the first minut I entred his space .
I went home and he texted me ( how I feel ? )
We talked in brief ..
Then he sent me videos about realities and realizing who we really are !
We talked the whole day and he then asked me if he can call me
We talked a lot via texts and voices ..
He started sharing his experiences with me
And his private life
What he did when he was younger ( musique ect..)
And the path he took
He talked about his fears ..
He shared a lot of things ..
He again called me for 40 min to explain the intense experience he had during meditation and how he want me to feel it .
Then he asked me if am sure to continue the sessions with him ( asked me 3 times )
I told him do you want me to stop ?!
He said that Its seems that am in a good place and therapies are only there to solve problems ! Isn’t ?that , he doesn’t want to take money from me while am ok ???
I was divistated , felt down .
I told him am always excited for our sessions
And still need them . So his response was
I’m always here for you even as friend you can talk to me and we can be friends without the sessions.
I felt that he started having feelings for me .
Someone here tells me if am not delusional !!!
I can write our birth dates
His birth date 3rd of July 1975
Mine is 14 January 1986
I started having attachments towards him.
Not sure if it’s love
But I never felt peace and safe with someone like I felt with him.
He told me the same things that he never felt peace
Or safe during therapies with a client .
He said that he could feel when his character felt contractions or uncomfortable , but that never happened when he is with me , he said that he’s so grateful for manifesting our meeting.
Community here I need ur really help
Translate what happening ?
Thank you 🙏
With this therapist first session was very neutral
And we spoke about my childhood trauma
I reached out for help to heal from my ex partner.
He was very helpful and validate everything I said
In the second therapy we did hypnotherapy
I can’t share all details but something happened
Something really intense . Like a shift in energies
I was feeling so safe and good after we finished , he said wooow what an energy and looked me in the eyes and told me there’s something fluid about you.
After that it became like a game for both of us
We laugh we talk we speak a lot sometimes we stay 3 hours just speaking and he sometimes compliments me saying ( I don’t want to say this but there’s something very honest and innocent about you, you are a brave soul ) any way after the last session we also did hypnosis and during that hypnosis more intense and reaction from my side happened he put his both hands on my head to calm me down.
He started sweating after we finished ..
He told how the energy was intense and he asked me to stop because it was intense & powerful ..
I told him that my soul knows his soul.
He said the same , that he knew my soul from the first minut I entred his space .
I went home and he texted me ( how I feel ? )
We talked in brief ..
Then he sent me videos about realities and realizing who we really are !
We talked the whole day and he then asked me if he can call me
We talked a lot via texts and voices ..
He started sharing his experiences with me
And his private life
What he did when he was younger ( musique ect..)
And the path he took
He talked about his fears ..
He shared a lot of things ..
He again called me for 40 min to explain the intense experience he had during meditation and how he want me to feel it .
Then he asked me if am sure to continue the sessions with him ( asked me 3 times )
I told him do you want me to stop ?!
He said that Its seems that am in a good place and therapies are only there to solve problems ! Isn’t ?that , he doesn’t want to take money from me while am ok ???
I was divistated , felt down .
I told him am always excited for our sessions
And still need them . So his response was
I’m always here for you even as friend you can talk to me and we can be friends without the sessions.
I felt that he started having feelings for me .
Someone here tells me if am not delusional !!!
I can write our birth dates
His birth date 3rd of July 1975
Mine is 14 January 1986
I started having attachments towards him.
Not sure if it’s love
But I never felt peace and safe with someone like I felt with him.
He told me the same things that he never felt peace
Or safe during therapies with a client .
He said that he could feel when his character felt contractions or uncomfortable , but that never happened when he is with me , he said that he’s so grateful for manifesting our meeting.
Community here I need ur really help
Translate what happening ?
Thank you 🙏
How did you ascertain his birthdate? Are you sure you didn’t cook up this interaction in your head?
I done gave therapy to therapists before. They ain't never helped me. They're humans just like anybody. They just know how people are.. So yea they can fall in love with people or they clients. I was about to fuck my therapist in prison but I got shipped to another one before the next session happened smh
Get a female therapist
Posted by IceStormDamn that's exactly what mine told me. Said I ain't need no therapy she was right but.. I was tellin shorty you got the most beautiful blue eyes I ever seen in aa girl and she said is that it and then looks at her body.. I said next session I got you miss.. so females be on it too. It ain't just dudes
He wants to fuck you but ethically, as your therapist that is some twisted shit. Which is why he’s trying to tell you that you don’t need therapy. So that it becomes a personal relationship rather than a professional one.
You probably do still need therapy (no offense) but it sounds like he’s more interested in getting his dick wet than he is interested in actually helping, but doesn’t want to risk getting in trouble for sleeping with one of his patients.
My advice would be to find a new therapist. Preferably a female that isn’t going to seduce or delude you, or prey on your vulnerabilities.
And NO.
It is not love.
Omg shut up about love and have a bunch of sex, you're not teenagers.
Posted by IceStormYeah that is true. If someone actually wants to get better I'll say it's kinda weird and predatory. At the same time, most therapists really look good so.. lolPosted by route666aybbPosted by IceStorm
He wants to fuck you but ethically, as your therapist that is some twisted shit. Which is why he’s trying to tell you that you don’t need therapy. So that it becomes a personal relationship rather than a professional one.
You probably do still need therapy (no offense) but it sounds like he’s more interested in getting his dick wet than he is interested in actually helping, but doesn’t want to risk getting in trouble for sleeping with one of his patients.
My advice would be to find a new therapist. Preferably a female that isn’t going to seduce or delude you, or prey on your vulnerabilities.
And NO.
It is not love.
Damn that's exactly what mine told me. Said I ain't need no therapy she was right but.. I was tellin shorty you got the most beautiful blue eyes I ever seen in aa girl and she said is that it and then looks at her body.. I said next session I got you miss.. so females be on it too. It ain't just dudes
I know there are some sick, deranged people who should never be in positions of power it’s deeply disturbing.
There’s a “YouTube mom” that was deluded or seduced by her sick ass therapist, the two of them abused/neglected her kids and now she’s in prison. Her name is Ruby Franke if you want to look her up.. her ex husband said it all started with their “therapist”. I’m not knocking therapists at all… I went to therapy for a couple years and it helped me tremendously. But when the person has a personal agenda (to fuck you) instead of to HELP you, that’s fucking SICK.click to expand
@IceStorm just looked up Ruby Franke. That whole case is sad. She messed up lowkey. The therapist lady I saw looked better than her though but she still pretty in a way.. reminds me of the teachers and school who used to fuck they students
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckThat last sentence is really real. Shit more common than people think
He sounds like a whole lawsuit
1. I don't think hypnotherapy is common nor a respected professional practice at all.. was he trying to break you of an addiction?
2. after 2 months with this man he deemed you at too decent of a point to benefit from therapy?! poor practice
3. cancer/capricorn fatal attraction. makes sense. only problem is i bet he will and has pulled these moves before/again
Posted by Walk_on_byLol
Omg shut up about love and have a bunch of sex, you're not teenagers.
Posted by GoodBunnyThe people breaking down the bs though 🤣🤣
This whole thing sounds inappropriate, unprofessional, and unethical. If everything you are saying is accurate, then he is grooming a relationship with someone who is a current client. He is encouraging transference. Just so much wrong with this.
Absolute wack jobs
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
Posted by cerseiThis can happen !!!!???Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
He sounds like a whole lawsuit
1. I don't think hypnotherapy is common nor a respected professional practice at all.. was he trying to break you of an addiction?
2. after 2 months with this man he deemed you at too decent of a point to benefit from therapy?! poor practice
3. cancer/capricorn fatal attraction. makes sense. only problem is i bet he will and has pulled these moves before/again
I also thought the hypnotherapy part was kind of odd 🤔 it almost felt like he was trying to hypnotize her to fall for himclick to expand
Thank you for ur honest advice
Yeah am having images and dreams of him every single day
And I stopped thinking about my ex relationship
And my attentions became towards my therapist
I even had a vivid dreams of us having sex.
Yeah am having images and dreams of him every single day
And I stopped thinking about my ex relationship
And my attentions became towards my therapist
I even had a vivid dreams of us having sex.
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
He sounds like a whole lawsuit
1. I don't think hypnotherapy is common nor a respected professional practice at all.. was he trying to break you of an addiction?
2. after 2 months with this man he deemed you at too decent of a point to benefit from therapy?! poor practice
3. cancer/capricorn fatal attraction. makes sense. only problem is i bet he will and has pulled these moves before/again
The sessions to heal my childhood traumas
I don’t have addiction but I was addicted to my ex kind of not anymore I stopped thinking of him
So therapy helped me .
So many creepers operate in the esoteric space
Posted by Rania_1498Live your best life
Thank you for ur honest advice
Yeah am having images and dreams of him every single day
And I stopped thinking about my ex relationship
And my attentions became towards my therapist
I even had a vivid dreams of us having sex.
Posted by Rania_1498Yes. I do it all the time.Posted by cerseiPosted by dragonh0rsecvck
He sounds like a whole lawsuit
1. I don't think hypnotherapy is common nor a respected professional practice at all.. was he trying to break you of an addiction?
2. after 2 months with this man he deemed you at too decent of a point to benefit from therapy?! poor practice
3. cancer/capricorn fatal attraction. makes sense. only problem is i bet he will and has pulled these moves before/again
I also thought the hypnotherapy part was kind of odd 🤔 it almost felt like he was trying to hypnotize her to fall for him
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This can happen !!!!???click to expand
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Look up transference, an emotional and psychological response to therapy - first chronicled by Freud. You aren’t in a legit romantic situation with this man, and he’s taking advantage of that by entertaining this and that’s fucked up. That’s why he wants you to stop therapy with him - yikes and red flags all over the place
Posted by nanochipand legit romance would be...?
Look up transference, an emotional and psychological response to therapy - first chronicled by Freud. You aren’t in a legit romantic situation with this man, and he’s taking advantage of that by entertaining this and that’s fucked up. That’s why he wants you to stop therapy with him - yikes and red flags all over the place
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsWhat’s wrong with hypnosis ?Posted by Rania_1498
In the second therapy we did hypnotherapy
I can’t share all details but something happened
Something really intense . Like a shift in energies
hypnotherapy = hypnosis
*facepalm*click to expand
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
Posted by MyStarsShineAm a Capricorn sun with pisces moon
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
Posted by MyStarsShineHe seems very nice 😞
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
Posted by Rania_1498So you’re going to carry on with therapy but not get involved in any other way with him?Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..click to expand
I encountered a few male “therapists” who were crossing the line with female clients.
It happened to me twice (one being my boss) but i sussed them out and challenged them on it.
It happened to me twice (one being my boss) but i sussed them out and challenged them on it.
Cancers got that psychological rizz
Rizzverse psychology
You don’t need no therapy baby
Rizzverse psychology
You don’t need no therapy baby
Posted by GoodBunnyHe’s crossed a big boundary linePosted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.click to expand
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Posted by Rania_1498No, he didn't help you, he only made you want to jump from the frying pan into the fire...Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
He sounds like a whole lawsuit
1. I don't think hypnotherapy is common nor a respected professional practice at all.. was he trying to break you of an addiction?
2. after 2 months with this man he deemed you at too decent of a point to benefit from therapy?! poor practice
3. cancer/capricorn fatal attraction. makes sense. only problem is i bet he will and has pulled these moves before/again
The sessions to heal my childhood traumas
I don’t have addiction but I was addicted to my ex kind of not anymore I stopped thinking of him
So therapy helped me .click to expand
You've got a budding addiction that it's even more fucked up than that to your ex!
Posted by MyStarsShineVibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..Posted by GoodBunnyPosted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
click to expand
He’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻click to expand
Posted by route666aybbShe is looking for answers/guidancePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GoodBunnyPosted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
click to expand
He’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Vibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineLet her indulge in the dude. Probably better a catch than all these dudes you see on FB and pof anyway. Let her live.Posted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GoodBunnyPosted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
click to expand
He’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Vibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..
She is looking for answers/guidanceclick to expand
Posted by route666aybbNobody is controlling her, just making suggestions ….Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GoodBunnyPosted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
click to expand
He’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Vibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..
She is looking for answers/guidance
Let her indulge in the dude. Probably better a catch than all these dudes you see on FB and pof anyway. Let her live.click to expand
Posted by IceStormSo all of this just to sleep with me ????Posted by Rania_1498Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expand
You felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.click to expand
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me ???
Posted by IceStormWhether someone's actions are driven by care or exploitation depends on their intentions, and love can take different forms, not just the traditional romantic kind.Posted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GoodBunnyPosted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
click to expand
He’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Vibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..
She is looking for answers/guidance
click to expand
Let her indulge in the dude. Probably better a catch than all these dudes you see on FB and pof anyway. Let her live.
You’re missing the point.
She would be digging a deeper emotional and psychological hole for herself if she goes through with this. You encouraging her to fuck him is like encouraging a crack addict to take another hit. 😒click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineLol u got a way with words you know that?Posted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GoodBunnyPosted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
click to expand
He’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Vibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..
She is looking for answers/guidance
Let her indulge in the dude. Probably better a catch than all these dudes you see on FB and pof anyway. Let her live.
Nobody is controlling her, just making suggestions ….click to expand
Posted by IceStormEven that dependency can still be love though.. just sayingPosted by Rania_1498Posted by IceStormPosted by Rania_1498Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expand
You felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
So all of this just to sleep with me ????
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me ???
click to expand
It’s definitely not love… It’s possible that as a cancer man, the sense of power that it gives him to feel like you could be emotionally dependent on him probably makes him feel good and powerful as a man, which is likely just as addicting for him as it is for you. The problem is, it is unethical.
No one can tell you what to do, sometimes we have to learn our own way. I don’t think anyone here is going to agree that it’s a healthy foundation for a budding relationship. But it might be yet another lesson for you to learn on your own.click to expand
Posted by IceStormAn opportunity has arisen for him to show his lust and love to her. I'm sure if she was just alright looking he would never risk it. For men, looks come with love. Ain't no way around it. We can play the high road but 9 times out of 10 if she's gorgeous then he's in love, the manipulation to me is just like a path for him to do his thing.. a blessing. I could be wrong tho like I saidPosted by route666aybbPosted by IceStormPosted by Rania_1498Posted by IceStormPosted by Rania_1498Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expand
You felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
So all of this just to sleep with me ????
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me ???
click to expand
It’s definitely not love… It’s possible that as a cancer man, the sense of power that it gives him to feel like you could be emotionally dependent on him probably makes him feel good and powerful as a man, which is likely just as addicting for him as it is for you. The problem is, it is unethical.
No one can tell you what to do, sometimes we have to learn our own way. I don’t think anyone here is going to agree that it’s a healthy foundation for a budding relationship. But it might be yet another lesson for you to learn on your own.
Even that dependency can still be love though.. just saying
That’s not love.
If you’re dependent on the government does that mean you love the government? Lol or does that mean the government just has the upper hand and you’re at their mercy? 🤔
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He act cold & distant now since yesterday night ..
I’ve sent him a text about the session he didn’t reply
And now I told him is everything ok
He just said yes yes everything is fine
Am confused
I think I will search for another therapist
I’ve sent him a text about the session he didn’t reply
And now I told him is everything ok
He just said yes yes everything is fine
Am confused
I think I will search for another therapist
Posted by route666aybbWell raised by an articulate English/Irish fatherPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GoodBunnyPosted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
click to expand
He’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Vibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..
She is looking for answers/guidance
Let her indulge in the dude. Probably better a catch than all these dudes you see on FB and pof anyway. Let her live.
Nobody is controlling her, just making suggestions ….
Lol u got a way with words you know that?click to expand
Posted by CosmicCuntHow can he be narcissist ??? He’s very nice to mePosted by Rania_1498Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
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You need to find a female to help you.
Are you also interested in him sexually?
Everything he's doing is for 1 unethical and disgusting l, but the conflict he's having with his own behavior leans toward narcissistic tendencies. Are you typically attracted to narcissistic type people? You say your ex was, and also sexually deviant. I'm assuming you told him about your ex and your sexcapades?click to expand
He asks me a lot how I feel
And he validate everything I say..
Now he act cold and distant by the way
Posted by MyStarsShineThe Irish in me sees thatPosted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by route666aybbPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GoodBunnyPosted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
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He’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Vibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..
She is looking for answers/guidance
Let her indulge in the dude. Probably better a catch than all these dudes you see on FB and pof anyway. Let her live.
Nobody is controlling her, just making suggestions ….
Lol u got a way with words you know that?
Well raised by an articulate English/Irish fatherclick to expand
Posted by IceStormWe talked a lot about my fatherPosted by Rania_1498Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expand
You felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.click to expand
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
Posted by Rania_1498If ur confused then he's confused too. That's the emotions he's giving off to you. Do what you think is best if u want to find another therapist but I want you to know that humans aren't separate from each other. Everyone is connected no matter the the gender, age, race. So even when people show the opposite of being good, just know deep down, there's a part of them where they adore you. I want you to remember that. But also don't scare him off. If u come off too strong like.. you're pining for his attention, he might get scared so just be chill and good luck.
He act cold & distant now since yesterday night ..
I’ve sent him a text about the session he didn’t reply
And now I told him is everything ok
He just said yes yes everything is fine
Am confused
I think I will search for another therapist
Posted by Rania_1498You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.Posted by IceStormPosted by Rania_1498Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expand
You felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expand
So all of this just to sleep with me ????
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me ???
click to expand
Posted by UndineWe talked a lot about my fatherPosted by Rania_1498Posted by IceStormPosted by Rania_1498Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expand
You felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expand
So all of this just to sleep with me ????
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me ???
click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.click to expand
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
Posted by Rania_1498This a new copypasta at this pointPosted by UndinePosted by Rania_1498Posted by IceStormPosted by Rania_1498Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expand
You felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expand
So all of this just to sleep with me ????
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me ???
click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expand
We talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37click to expand
Posted by UndineWomen don't just turn heartless past 30. They either hide it or it's still there. All girls feel this way regardless of age. Dudes be wanting girls to be men, let girls be girls. Wanting them to be like a dude type gay but..Posted by Rania_1498Posted by IceStormPosted by Rania_1498Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expand
You felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expand
So all of this just to sleep with me ????
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me ???
click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.click to expand
Posted by Rania_1498You got good geneticsPosted by UndinePosted by Rania_1498Posted by IceStormPosted by Rania_1498Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expand
You felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expand
So all of this just to sleep with me ????
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me ???
click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expand
We talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37click to expand
What I like about girls is how they're soft. Not because they tough like men. That's not what I look for in a female. Gotta let these girls be girls and stop tryna cram them into the masculine box. Let them be in they feelings and be unreasonable and all that good stuff. That's what makes them them
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