i never see anyone talk about a cancer man and a capricorn women. what would be some struggles? up's and down's?
Cancer and Capricorn
First-time poster, so bear with me if I breach any protocol here.
A comment on why I think Capricorns may like someone else to be the boss . . . at least sometimes.
First, my experience (my daughter is a Capricorn/Sagittarius cusp Sun, Cancer Rising, Gemini Moon) is that they like someone to take the leadership/boss role from them sometimes because, quite often, it is the Capricorn's experience that the boss/leadership role is left to them simply because no one else will take responsibility for it and the Capricorn seems eminently capable and does not disappoint. And Capricorns feel compelled to take the leadership/boss role because they feel that nothing will move forward or evolve if they don't.
And by nature, they don't like things to be too loosey-goosey because they have various places in which they like to commit their energy responsibly -- relationships, work, interests etc. My Cappie daughter is not a perfectionist, but she does like to give everything in her life her 100% . She realizes that at times she needs to go with the flow and allow for more spontaneity in order to get along with others, but even then, she tries to arrange her life so that other balls are not dropped.
A comment on why I think Capricorns may like someone else to be the boss . . . at least sometimes.
First, my experience (my daughter is a Capricorn/Sagittarius cusp Sun, Cancer Rising, Gemini Moon) is that they like someone to take the leadership/boss role from them sometimes because, quite often, it is the Capricorn's experience that the boss/leadership role is left to them simply because no one else will take responsibility for it and the Capricorn seems eminently capable and does not disappoint. And Capricorns feel compelled to take the leadership/boss role because they feel that nothing will move forward or evolve if they don't.
And by nature, they don't like things to be too loosey-goosey because they have various places in which they like to commit their energy responsibly -- relationships, work, interests etc. My Cappie daughter is not a perfectionist, but she does like to give everything in her life her 100% . She realizes that at times she needs to go with the flow and allow for more spontaneity in order to get along with others, but even then, she tries to arrange her life so that other balls are not dropped.
Hi "M." Thanks for your input. I've seen you on the Capricorn board and really appreciate the male perspective.
It's nice to see what others think of what they experience in their lives. I often share such insights with my daughter. Because she herself keeps her cards pretty close to the chest unless she feels she is in the presence of those who "live and let live," she respects the privacy of others almost to a fault, missing opportunities for connection and at times coming off as a cold fish (no slight intended to any Pisces out there. She's a magnet for them in one regard or another, be it their sun, moon, venus, mars ....).
If you don't mind saying, how do you come by your thoughts on Capricorn/Cancer pairings? Do they apply to female Capricorn/male Cancer?
It's nice to see what others think of what they experience in their lives. I often share such insights with my daughter. Because she herself keeps her cards pretty close to the chest unless she feels she is in the presence of those who "live and let live," she respects the privacy of others almost to a fault, missing opportunities for connection and at times coming off as a cold fish (no slight intended to any Pisces out there. She's a magnet for them in one regard or another, be it their sun, moon, venus, mars ....).
If you don't mind saying, how do you come by your thoughts on Capricorn/Cancer pairings? Do they apply to female Capricorn/male Cancer?
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