Cancer and positive people...

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Dafna79
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My Cancer is a pessimist and tends to focus a lot on the negative side of everything... I am used to it and I know how to deal with it but I am SUPER POSITIVE I always find the good side of everything, if sonething bad happens I just take it into strode and deal with it. Sometimes I am not sure wether he likes or hates that about me...

Cancers how do you deal/think/relate to VERY POSITIVE people? Do you like/hate/appreciate them— 🙂
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Dafna79
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Posted by Purrrr
How positive? If it's super over-the-top to the point where you seem like you're on E, I would get annoyed. I appreciate positive people within reason.

Are you one of those people who tells other people to smile all the time? Do you try to shove your positivity down people's throats? Do you expect everyone to be in a good mood all the time? If you answered yes to any of those, you'll probably piss off most Cancers.



LOL no to that point, I guess I am positive when confronted with something negative in my life, I don't get stressed out very easily, If I can fix it I do everything to do so if I cannot control it I just relax and see what happens, I don't dwell on it or get depressed or in a bad mood... But no I definitely don't walk around with a stupid grin on my face being sunny and cheerful to everybody....I live in NYC I wouldn't survive lol 😉
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I'm a cancer and have been the positive one in my last 2 major relationships. I do hear what you say about cancers being negative...especially the men. They can be whiny and needs lots of validation. I'm actually more of a loner but I do think cancers are the kind of sign that don't like to suffer in silence. Always needing to be the positive one and lift the spirits of your partner is exhausting. You gotta set your limits and stick to your guns.

Astrologically speaking, I think libra/cancer is a bad combo. We come off as too moody and clingy to you and you come off as too indecisive and detached for us.