Cancer & Aquarius?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by notafollower on Wednesday, August 19, 2015 and has 28 replies.
Has anyone been in a relationship with an Aqua male or viceversa? how did it go?.
I'm a cancer with a virgo ascendant to be specific.
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Posted by notafollower
Has anyone been in a relationship with an Aqua male or viceversa? how did it go?.
I'm a cancer with a virgo ascendant to be specific.

dont know any in real life, but there's famous tennis player John McEnroe with singer Patti Symth:

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she's this girl long ago!

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I am Aquarius and "talked" to a Cancer..

Ended bad.
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Posted by AquariusJan25
I am Aquarius and "talked" to a Cancer..

Ended bad.

Same here
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I'm an aquarius that recently went in circles with a cancer. It went nowhere. I'm glad it ended before it even started because I can just imagine the communication and emotional issues if something started. In just our friendship, the guy had some serious issues with communicating clearly, which they say Cancers suffer from. I was straight up to the point where I asked for whatever I wanted verbally while he went in circles to communicate what he wanted. He was a total riddle. Ain't nobody got time to solve it.
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Posted by aquarius09
I'm an aquarius that recently went in circles with a cancer. It went nowhere. I'm glad it ended before it even started because I can just imagine the communication and emotional issues if something started. In just our friendship, the guy had some serious issues with communicating clearly, which they say Cancers suffer from. I was straight up to the point where I asked for whatever I wanted verbally while he went in circles to communicate what he wanted. He was a total riddle. Ain't nobody got time to solve it.

This was my biggest gripe, failing to fucking be straightfoward with me..but nah she wants to send songs and pictures of quotes like I'm suppose to waste time trying to decipher everything.

Like a true crab, moving left and right and never walking a straight path.
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Posted by Koniucha
Also my mom is aqua with libra moon, dad is cancer with aqua moon. They were together 23 years, but are divorced now. Pretty much hate each other now.

Awww. sorry to hear that . I guess thats the outcome of incompatibility , it all explodes at some point or it becomes the most beautiful thing. but it take two very patient human beings to make it work though the differences.
As for your brother and his gf, who made the first approach and how do they get on?
Thanks for the feedback
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thanks everyone for commenting, I'd appreciate more elaborated answers (:
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Posted by AquariusJan25
Posted by aquarius09
I'm an aquarius that recently went in circles with a cancer. It went nowhere. I'm glad it ended before it even started because I can just imagine the communication and emotional issues if something started. In just our friendship, the guy had some serious issues with communicating clearly, which they say Cancers suffer from. I was straight up to the point where I asked for whatever I wanted verbally while he went in circles to communicate what he wanted. He was a total riddle. Ain't nobody got time to solve it.

This was my biggest gripe, failing to fucking be straightfoward with me..but nah she wants to send songs and pictures of quotes like I'm suppose to waste time trying to decipher everything.

Like a true crab, moving left and right and never walking a straight path.
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Actually Im straight forward in almost every situation. If i think the truth wont benefit you then i simply stay quiet or wont talk too much. But im never afraid to speak my mind. Matter of fact, this aqua that i like is my exs bruva, and once i got the courage to message him, i first asked about his brother. but once we were a little into the conversation, i straight up told him i just needed and excuse to talk to him. But he didnt say anything after that. Then again, i didnt expect him too, cause what was he supossed to say? lol
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Posted by AquariusJan25
I am Aquarius and "talked" to a Cancer..

Ended bad.

what happened?
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I dated 3 and I wouldn't date another even if Aqua men were the last men on earth lol.

The first one lied about being divorced but he was still married. He was very selfish and stingy and would get upset if I asked for anything, even to stop and bring me something to eat. When I decided to end things he stalked me and my dad had to tell him to leave me alone. He told all my friends he was in love with me and could they please convince me to come back but I didn't contact him again.

The second one selfish, abusive, serial cheater, women were calling my phone harassing me. He too was stingy and wouldn't even put gas in my car knowing he lived quite a distance from me. The first time we broke up he tried to get me back and I told him why I was leaving him and he promised to change, so I gave him another chance. He improved a little but then asked me if I got pregnant would I get an abortion and I told him no and to not get me pregnant unless he wanted a kid with me. After that I knew I needed to end things with him once and for all so I stopped taking his calls but then he asked to meet me and I felt like I needed to end things with him in person. So I met up with him and he cried and shoved my head when I told him it was over. I got out his car, changed my number, and that was that.

The third one basically just wanted to sleep with me and was upset that his lame game didn't work. He only wanted to take me out to bars trying to get me drunk thinking I would sleep with him. He never wanted to do a sit down one on one at a restaurant it was always sitting at the bar so that led me to believe he must have been involved with someone. He brought me to his house to "show me around" but I wasn't interested in staying and he had a problem with that asking why I didn't want to be in his house and I told him because I have no interest in sleeping with you. We stopped talking but ran into each other a few weeks later and he was saying we should try again. I agreed but I still wasn't going to sleep with him and when Valentines Day came and he didn't get me a gift I was done.
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Common match.

My Aqua cousin's daughter's mom is a Crab. And he is now married to a Crab.
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Not a good match the Aquarius girl I was friends with are not really friends anymore she's way to un-predictable its hard to explain all I can say she is a typical air sign. Would I ever try have a relationship with an Aqua woman? Nope its not worth the stress.
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Posted by AquariusJan25
I am Aquarius and "talked" to a Cancer..

Ended bad.

what happened?
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- Her flirty ways were a turn off.

- Her always playing the victim

- The Constant dodging of situations, or if she was out her shell and she did choose to talk something out it would end quick because she'd get out what she wanted to say and downplay anything I said

- I guess this goes with that ^ That crabby movement..never straightforward, always doing a juke move and finding the easy way out of talking about certain things, major subliminalness.

- Did I mention never being straighforward...

Now she's someone elses problem, I'm not with the stress.
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Posted by notafollower
Posted by AquariusJan25
I am Aquarius and "talked" to a Cancer..

Ended bad.

what happened?

- Her flirty ways were a turn off.

- Her always playing the victim

- The Constant dodging of situations, or if she was out her shell and she did choose to talk something out it would end quick because she'd get out what she wanted to say and downplay anything I said

- I guess this goes with that ^ That crabby movement..never straightforward, always doing a juke move and finding the easy way out of talking about certain things, major subliminalness.

- Did I mention never being straighforward...

Now she's someone elses problem, I'm not with the stress.
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What drew you to her in the first place?. And im not the typical clingy cancer , also im straight forward af . Im seriously attracted to aquas cause i find them to be peaceful , chilling , intelligent and independent . However id like to know if im idolising you them cause when they say theyre emotionally unattached , i want to know how unattached they are. For example, you can be out all day working , whatever but when you come home at night i expect us to spend time together , even if its just a couple of hours. Do you lot like to cuddle , recieve and give massages and all that?
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Posted by Cancer Lady
I dated 3 and I wouldn't date another even if Aqua men were the last men on earth lol.

The first one lied about being divorced but he was still married. He was very selfish and stingy and would get upset if I asked for anything, even to stop and bring me something to eat. When I decided to end things he stalked me and my dad had to tell him to leave me alone. He told all my friends he was in love with me and could they please convince me to come back but I didn't contact him again.

The second one selfish, abusive, serial cheater, women were calling my phone harassing me. He too was stingy and wouldn't even put gas in my car knowing he lived quite a distance from me. The first time we broke up he tried to get me back and I told him why I was leaving him and he promised to change, so I gave him another chance. He improved a little but then asked me if I got pregnant would I get an abortion and I told him no and to not get me pregnant unless he wanted a kid with me. After that I knew I needed to end things with him once and for all so I stopped taking his calls but then he asked to meet me and I felt like I needed to end things with him in person. So I met up with him and he cried and shoved my head when I told him it was over. I got out his car, changed my number, and that was that.

The third one basically just wanted to sleep with me and was upset that his lame game didn't work. He only wanted to take me out to bars trying to get me drunk thinking I would sleep with him. He never wanted to do a sit down one on one at a restaurant it was always sitting at the bar so that led me to believe he must have been involved with someone. He brought me to his house to "show me around" but I wasn't interested in staying and he had a problem with that asking why I didn't want to be in his house and I told him because I have no interest in sleeping with you. We stopped talking but ran into each other a few weeks later and he was saying we should try again. I agreed but I still wasn't going to sleep with him and when Valentines Day came and he didn't get me a gift I was done.

Whats your/their bday? If you dont mind me asking
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Posted by Stihl46
Not a good match the Aquarius girl I was friends with are not really friends anymore she's way to un-predictable its hard to explain all I can say she is a typical air sign. Would I ever try have a relationship with an Aqua woman? Nope its not worth the stress.

I get you, but then again, i feel like im too unpredictable myself. Lol
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What drew you to her in the first place?. And im not the typical clingy cancer , also im straight forward af . Im seriously attracted to aquas cause i find them to be peaceful , chilling , intelligent and independent . However id like to know if im idolising you them cause when they say theyre emotionally unattached , i want to know how unattached they are. For example, you can be out all day working , whatever but when you come home at night i expect us to spend time together , even if its just a couple of hours. Do you lot like to cuddle , recieve and give massages and all that?

Funny thing about the "What drew you" part. The first time I saw her without knowing her sign or anything I already doubted myself and told myself "Ahh she's gorgeous, I got no chance." Low and behold the starts conversations with me, small convos...then I guess feelings started stirring up in her for me. She always told me my personality is what drew her in, we had a vibe and just clicked. Our convos would be so fluid..it's like we wouldn't run out of things to say to each other. She was always the one pushing the "love" word out there and always telling me she missed me and stuff. After 2 months I finally fell under that spell and then I started opening up to her and throwing the love word out. What drew me into her was her personality, her warm heartedness, and just us clicking on any topic in a conversation.

Me I like to cuddle and all that and would love to receive and give a massage to my girlfriend/wife. I'm just a mushy Aquarius I'm into all that soft stuff.
My father is an unattached Aquarius, he's not peaceful..(cause he's getting old lol) his way of showing love is buying things for my mom. I'm wired differently. Hope this somehow helps.
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Posted by AquariusJan25
I am Aquarius and "talked" to a Cancer..

Ended bad.

It can't but end bad.
Aqua's are not stable enough for Crabs unless he has worked on being a stable partner or has the placements to make her feel secure in the relationship.
And Crabs will always be upset because you are not providing them with the security they seek in a partner.
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. What drew me into her was her personality, her warm heartedness, and just us clicking on any topic in a conversation.

Me I like to cuddle and all that and would love to receive and give a massage to my girlfriend/wife. I'm just a mushy Aquarius I'm into all that soft stuff.
My father is an unattached Aquarius, he's not peaceful..(cause he's getting old lol) his way of showing love is buying things for my mom. I'm wired differently. Hope this somehow helps.

hahahaha. I think thats with every sign. Weve just got to be patient with our parents in general innit. (: & they were useful thank you. I dont seem to find alot of aqua men in these type of sites that are willing to reply and expose their weaknesses/ habits and all that , so i appreciate it. 2 more things. 1 - from what im reading, you sound like you still have feelings for her and you guys were good together (idk if when you said her flirtatious ways , you meant flirtatious with other people and that sort of ticked you off) 2- idk whyyyyyyy, every libra / aqua that has been attracted to me, has said the same thing once we became friends . "always liked you , just thought you were out of my league/ didnt think you wouldve like me like that" , idk why this still attracts me even more. i guess its cause it involves taking things slowly and taking only firm steps while im used to dealing w people who see me and wanna wife me straight away (literally), but ughhh. you lot drive me crazy (in a good way) lol
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Posted by AquariusJan25
I am Aquarius and "talked" to a Cancer..

Ended bad.

It can't but end bad.
Aqua's are not stable enough for Crabs unless he has worked on being a stable partner or has the placements to make her feel secure in the relationship.
And Crabs will always be upset because you are not providing them with the security they seek in a partner.
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more than upset to me its like a deal breaker. im not gonna sit and cry for the lad if hes not willing to do certain things for me. but i guess thats what im scared of, cause im deff not interested in just having a relationship, ive only had a serious relationship in my life lol. im super picky cause i dont just look for a partner, i look for a guy with potential to be the father of my children and someone whos worth me investing my time on. lol and i guess that would kind of scare them off if they found out? though i wouldnt let them know, just play my cards the right way and be patient .lol
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hahahaha. I think thats with every sign. Weve just got to be patient with our parents in general innit. (: & they were useful thank you. I dont seem to find alot of aqua men in these type of sites that are willing to reply and expose their weaknesses/ habits and all that , so i appreciate it. 2 more things. 1 - from what im reading, you sound like you still have feelings for her and you guys were good together (idk if when you said her flirtatious ways , you meant flirtatious with other people and that sort of ticked you off) 2- idk whyyyyyyy, every libra / aqua that has been attracted to me, has said the same thing once we became friends . "always liked you , just thought you were out of my league/ didnt think you wouldve like me like that" , idk why this still attracts me even more. i guess its cause it involves taking things slowly and taking only firm steps while im used to dealing w people who see me and wanna wife me straight away (literally), but ughhh. you lot drive me crazy (in a good way) lol

I'm just an open person (sometimes haha) and I don't mind spilling some beans to help other signs come our way.

1. What are these feelings you speak of -___- I'm just jking lol, yes there will always be feelings there, and we were perfect up until there were more negative times that positives. (Me being the peacemaker, I would try and kill the negativity but it would somehow make things worse) and yes she had some flirtatious ways that would tick me off, some people told me to look at it as her just having fun and not being bored, others told me "Hey, you need to talk to her about that..you don't do that to her"

2. I can only speak for Aquarius's when I say this and all the introverts like myself. We're so quiet and mysterious sometimes that when a person does show interest in us it's like "but how and why?" lol. You cancers are very persistent (would always use that word with my ex cancer) and I think that's what then attracted me to her..she just kept showing more and more and more interest in wanting to get to know me which led to me opening up more and more to her.

You guy's drive me crazy too (-___- in a good way 70% of the time) Aquarius and Cancer can really be a heavenly pairing if all the stars are perfectly aligned.
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Posted by AquariusJan25
I am Aquarius and "talked" to a Cancer..

Ended bad.

It can't but end bad.
Aqua's are not stable enough for Crabs unless he has worked on being a stable partner or has the placements to make her feel secure in the relationship.
And Crabs will always be upset because you are not providing them with the security they seek in a partner.
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That hard crab shell should be enough security + what I'm giving..and I give a lot.

My biggest gripe with the cancer I was dealing with is the disappearing act she pulled, a long with the subliminalness. I'm a very straightforward person (92% of the time smile)

I don't do to well playing the guessing game. Both signs have problems.
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Theres hope *sigh* . Lol thats cute and let me tell you a secret,if she was that interested in you , she prob wanted to see how you reacted to her flirting with other people , (im guilty of doing that) it is kinda pathetic i know, but hey no ones perfect . Also the whole disappearing act its not something we do intentionally. But we like to be out there and also once in a while we like to sit alone for a short period of time to reflect and analyse things in peace, cause we like to be objective , so doing that its like making sure were as accurate as possible and there are no factors influencing our decisions besides our common sense and intuition. And when a cancer isnt straight forward its cause our intuition maybe telling us something but we want to make sure the other persons feeling the same way before we expose our feelings etc and get hurt/rejected you get me? She sounds like she was really into you. Idk i wish you guys wouldve worked out but God knows best.

I get you 100% I'm just such a ready person when it comes to someone telling me something if it hurts my feelings or not Sad It'll hurt but I'll sit back think about it, change my ways and turn to the future.

She was really into me but man was the ending nasty...all I got from her was a "whatever man, bye go be happy." Still went out my way to wish her a happy birthday..she checked all messages with no response, a close friend also asked her about me and she responded to the friend "who is that?". She's head over heels for some blue eyed pretty guy out in Holland now not even 3 weeks after talking to him. Wish them nothing but the best.
Karma will makes it's way back around one day,
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I don't do that but I naturally flirt - not for any kind of reaction from the man I'm with, it's just who I am. Cancer signs are just naturally very flirty
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