cancer boys oh man

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by flrttilithurt247 on Monday, October 22, 2007 and has 4 replies.
im an aries(cusp/pisces-if it makes a difference) and i've been seeing a cancer guy and from what i've been reading about other people that have been in the same position...im wondering why a cancer would be attracted to me at all lol
First of all, i feel like all he as been doing is pushing my buttons to get me to say how i feel about him...even though he hasn't told me how he feels. One night he said that he didn't know if he could trust me because when we started hanging out together i was dating another guy, although i broke things off a few days later. sucks- i don't usually talk to two people at a time, but i had just moved and got into a relationship way to quick, which i told him. I also told him i wanted to take things slow because i dated a co-worker before(yeah we work together) and i didn't want the same thing to happen...he just kept asking me questions like how long i had dated the guy i worked with and if i feel in love with him...he just kept grillin me(definetely trying to figure me out)awsome for me because i had 3 screwdrivers before all of this lol. Well,pretty much he made me feel like a terrible person and i actually freakin apologized-why i dont know because i didn't do anything wrong, i even broke up with my boyfriend. since then we havn't hung out at all So what i got out of these message boards was to let him be. It's crazy how everone's advice helps. i stopped calling and texting him and being way too nice-he's starting to open up...
I guess i didn't need to tell the whole story, but what i really was looking for was some insight to my situation
I really like this guy and I feel like the only thing i can do right now is just be patient and that's what im doing...so i hope it works out!
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You are going to have to be very patient my dear, very patient. That's really the only good antedote for this man, oh and don't rush anything.
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if you aren't selfish, over-analyzing, and always trying to rush things, a relationship with a cancer should go smoothly.
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ha. or, if you're an aries who is by nature a bit selfish, highly analytical and likes to move shit along, like me, aries, then you will scrap with that hot little cancer. like i do. sigh. but, hey, we're married and we've been fighting and we're still married. and yeah, patience. it took me and my cancer a year and a half to get together for one reason or two. anyway, i love him. no doubt i do. but cancer men are a unique breed. they are possesive, but spend alot of time in sensual pursuits and are very aware of other women, porn, etc. but still don't want you out of their sight. they are loving and sweet, but moody as hell and will pout at the drop of a hat. but still want to spend all their time with you. they are contentious and manipulative and are never wrong, but will go to great lengths to do something to please and serve you. it's amazing. and sometimes, this whole "being all over the darned place" really gets to me. like tonight. and another fight. or rather, the fight i refuse to allow to escalate. they say they don't like drama but are addicted to it. they like us for our spicey nature. our fire. but then they're always trying to bank the flame. it can be challenging. good luck tho.
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