hey guys,i have quite the predicament...i know this cancer since high school,and back than, he was all over me,but i already had a boyfriend and was with him for 7 years.so he disappeared, and when i broke up with my boyfriend the cancer magically reappeared almost instantly.and tried everything but again i went with another guy(virgo).but this time he didn't disappear,we kept hanging out and i wasn't sure if he is my soul mate or is it that he can read people so well that he's just manipulating his own behavior to seem like the perfect match. in a nutshell-i didn't trust him cause he was very sexual toward me(being a pisces this is a bad thing cause it sounds like he just wants to nail me) trough this period he started dating a cancer girl, and is now still with her. he said that he likes her because she's very similar to me.i broke up with the virgo, and now i realize that the cancer guy was being sincere all along, and now i'm totally obsessed with him (he doesn't know this), and he seems truly happy with his cancer girlfriend. should i hold my breath or is it time to let go completely?
cancer+cancer or cancer+pisces?

i don't think u should do either. u had ur chance so u should let him have his relationship. i don't think u should wait around for him to break up with her either. just continue to live ur life and be his friend. i was in an ill-timed relationship with a man once upon a time. when we met i had a boyfriend and then right before i broke up with mine he got a girlfriend. if it becomes obssessive u may need to take a really long break.
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