Cancer dilemma!
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Missferret on Wednesday, May 6, 2015 and has 4 replies.
Okay guys,
I got it. I got it bad for a cancer.
We were talking last night, and I had asked him why it is that he doesn't consider me date worthy. (In regards to an earlier conversation he and I had)
He said several things.
One, that I'm not experienced enough in the world.
He's travelled, and he loves travelling.
He says it creates a great character for a person, the learning experiences etc.
I mentioned the fact that I had lived and travelled all over our home country. (Australia)
Still wasn't enough somehow.
I went onto say that Id love to travel, and if I has the finances. It would be the first thing I'd do.
Still not good enough.
He was telling me about how he had just enough money to buy a plane ticket, and how he took a chance.
Now that's all wonderful and everything, but I'm an aquarius.
We're planners. We don't take risks like that.
Two,
because Im apparently not a strong women.
AQUARIUS!
if yall know anything about aquarius', you know how strong we can be. we're not emotional. We hold our ground.
And also mentioned that I give away too much, there's no mystery to me.
He then proceeded to tell me to tell him something.
Something's that's going to make him laugh, and cry and want to hold me.
And I'm just like, bruh.. That would be giving away my whole life story.
So there definitely wouldnt be any mystery to me.
Ugh.
Long story short.
The way he sees it, is that I'm not experienced enough in life. I'm not a strong women. I'm not mysterious. And somehow the 2 year age gap between us makes him lifetimes more experienced than me.
Any of this sound familiar for a cancer?
Any idea how to go about this?
I'm sorry if it's all over the place, that's kinda where my head is at.
I got it. I got it bad for a cancer.
We were talking last night, and I had asked him why it is that he doesn't consider me date worthy. (In regards to an earlier conversation he and I had)
He said several things.
One, that I'm not experienced enough in the world.
He's travelled, and he loves travelling.
He says it creates a great character for a person, the learning experiences etc.
I mentioned the fact that I had lived and travelled all over our home country. (Australia)
Still wasn't enough somehow.
I went onto say that Id love to travel, and if I has the finances. It would be the first thing I'd do.
Still not good enough.
He was telling me about how he had just enough money to buy a plane ticket, and how he took a chance.
Now that's all wonderful and everything, but I'm an aquarius.
We're planners. We don't take risks like that.
Two,
because Im apparently not a strong women.
AQUARIUS!
if yall know anything about aquarius', you know how strong we can be. we're not emotional. We hold our ground.
And also mentioned that I give away too much, there's no mystery to me.
He then proceeded to tell me to tell him something.
Something's that's going to make him laugh, and cry and want to hold me.
And I'm just like, bruh.. That would be giving away my whole life story.
So there definitely wouldnt be any mystery to me.
Ugh.
Long story short.
The way he sees it, is that I'm not experienced enough in life. I'm not a strong women. I'm not mysterious. And somehow the 2 year age gap between us makes him lifetimes more experienced than me.
Any of this sound familiar for a cancer?
Any idea how to go about this?
I'm sorry if it's all over the place, that's kinda where my head is at.
When a guy/ girl isn't into you and faced with the question which basically translates to "why won't you love me for who I am", it's pretty awkward for the person who has to answer it. Either you're interested in a person or you're not. Sometimes there is no rhyme or reason for it.
So what happens? The answerer comes up with ridiculous reasons, which really end up sounding like nitpicking. Ask yourself if his reasons are incredibly stupid and if they are, then it's because he doesn't know how to answer that awkward question.
I had a cancer guy get all desperate like that and ask me why I wasn't into him after I had shown him every sign of disinterest. It was really awkward and I gave him dumb reasons like this because apparently saying "I'm not feeling you" wasn't enough. Why do people need a breakdown?
So what happens? The answerer comes up with ridiculous reasons, which really end up sounding like nitpicking. Ask yourself if his reasons are incredibly stupid and if they are, then it's because he doesn't know how to answer that awkward question.
I had a cancer guy get all desperate like that and ask me why I wasn't into him after I had shown him every sign of disinterest. It was really awkward and I gave him dumb reasons like this because apparently saying "I'm not feeling you" wasn't enough. Why do people need a breakdown?
Hi there dunno if there's a chance if u see this guy again but make sure if u do. Keg him (pull his pants down) in public. Give them a good old tug if he has a belt. And say I don't wanna be with u anyway cuz ur trousers are always down. Then just walk of and never speak to him again. He's an arrogant prick and that's coming from a cancer. As someone else here said take someone else travelling either a friend or even a male friend who u get on with. Whatever u do he's not worth it and it's probably his loss.
I wouldn't give him the time of day!! Sounds very arrogant and even if you did start dating him he would probably criticize everything about you! I have recently become friends with a Cancer guy.. he is very forward and also seems full of himself but I think its a lot of front and he see's me the opposite way that your Cancer guy see's you.. I think your guy is defo overcompensating but think its clear he isn't interested in you in that way.. sorry 
He sounds like he would be a nightmare if you did date him though! Its his loss and he does sound very young and foolish!
He sounds like he would be a nightmare if you did date him though! Its his loss and he does sound very young and foolish!Leave Your Feedback
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