Cancer dudes, come please :D or Geminis girls.

Any Cancer guys here have been in relationship with Geminis girls? How was that?

Fucking catastrophe from A to Z. No fun, 'hun.

Posted by geminicandle
Lol, I bet there are no successful stories in this pairing.

Tom and Nikky worked out for a while. Couldn't have been all that bad all the time.

I have only loved a gem woman .... With all my heart and soul. It's a pity i couldn't work it out. That kinda love if I m blessed with again even once more in my life ahead....I will be damned!

Why couldn't you make it work jenngem—?

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Posted by krebbsmann
I have only loved a gem woman .... With all my heart and soul. It's a pity i couldn't work it out. That kinda love if I m blessed with again even once more in my life ahead....I will be damned!

Why couldn't you make it work jenngem—?

Well we couldn't b/c while we took a break he ended up sleeping with a girl and she got pregnant. We worked together and were in management at the time so we had to cool it for a bit b/c of drama with other people. So when that passed and we were getting back together this girl let him know she was pregnant, he is married to her still today. He has two wonderful kids! I am friends with his wife now, I guess she wanted to get to know me or keep an eye on me. LOL She is great, firecracker Aries. So she doesn't get him, and he doesn't get her but they make it work. 🙂

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took a break because of management— that sounds a bit vague... were you both fighting—

I am a Cancer man married to a Gemini woman. I suppose that there are the stereo typical things you could think of with the two of us. Roller coaster is an accurate description. It ebbs and flows, and is lots, and lots of work. I would say that it can work as long as you can align in enough areas, and have common interests. I think that the areas of sex, and emotional fulfillment were the hardest. I never feel that my lady understands me emotionally, or how certain things move me. For we cancerians, that can translate directly to sex. So, I would say you obviously never know until you try, but it is a bit of a mismatch.

I work with a cancer guy, who dated another Gemini coworker.The first month they were lovey dovey showing each other affection even at work.as days went by the love started to fizzle.The Gemini seemed too controlling, while the cancer was so humble and innocent,till some of us were feeling bad for him.The relationship dint even last 5months.But the cancer guy still loves her.The Gemini doesnt care but secrectly she tells me that she misses him coz nobody has ever loved her that way before.

Thank you afor all the replies. I think i didnt make a wrong deceision.

I met this Gemini girl through internet 2 months ago. At the begining i thought she was just a normal girl who wanted to find someone to talk with on internet. So, we had some basic conversation like where we live, whats our job, are we in relationship. Somehow, when our topic hit "relationship", i mentioned about my ex gf, how we broke up. And she told me back how she broke up with her ex bf as well. So everything was very basic talk, nothing in romantic between me and her. We sometimes talks alot, sometimes she disappears and wont text me, and me too.

I live in toronto and she lives quite far away. It probably takes 7-8 hrs to drive. Since i met her on internet, she came to toronot twice. I also mentioned would that be alright to meet up with her in person, as a friend. She kind of rejected me, as she answered me like " i afriad not, i've been busy on something." Couple days ago, she drove to toronto again. I had been thinking should i ask her out again or not. I asked, and she told me she was busy, couldnt make it but she will come to toronto at mid of august again. She told me that might be a chance to meet up. I told her that i am happy if there is a chance to meet up with her. And she answered me yes sure. It sounded like we both were happy to arrange a meet up.

Few hours later, i told her that might not be a good idea to meet up coz i am afriad if i would like her in the future. I told her that becoz i have toooooo many complex thought about her and my ex. I afriad to try, i afriad the result will be just the same as my Ex. Honesty, to like or to love someone else is easy, pretty easy but to forget someone or to move on, its really hard. I guess most of the Cancer men here would argee with this, right?

So she texted me back these " up to you really", "I dont mind", "i totally respect your decision" in a row. I dont know what she was thinking, i guess she actually doesnt care whether to meet a random guy or not.

hm...i actually wanna meet her but hm....really hard to explain my feelings.

Thanks all again, thank you for all the replies.