Cancer ex bf crazy behaviour...

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Ltrf87
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11 Years

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My ex is a cancer and I am too. When we were together he was so sweet, put everything into the relationship and we were very close and passionate. I never thought he'd leave and thought he was too sensitive and kind to ever hurt me. It was great for 4 months but then it turned nasty after I said I couldn't see him one weekend. It caused a huge argument and we were both very hurt from it. After that he started being indecisive about being with me and pushed me to end it. But he came back saying he couldn't cope and was foolish for throwing it all away. But when I took him back he seemed to be slighty offish with me and started treating me disrespectfully. We broke up again because he said he wanted to be single and wasn't ready for a relationship. But since then he's been acting weird and turned slighty nasty and passive aggressive. I saw him out and he was nearly crying saying he was sorry for everything he did and still felt he wanted me but then started flirting with other girls in front of me and ignored me and avoided me all night even though he could see I was hurt. After that he ignored all my texts and when I asked what was going on he said he realised he didn't wanna be in a relationship. But then a few days later he went on a date and made sure I found out about it and that he was 'happy'. He then started contacting me as if we hadn't spoken in ages saying I looked well. I didn't say much but then when I asked why he was contacting me again after ignoring me, he got crabby and blocked me on Facebook. I haven't heard anything in 3 weeks. Is he playing games or moving on? I'm so hurt and can't believe he's acting like this!
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TxOgal
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11 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

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Ok my cancer ex bf too would argue and make it a big deal when I refuse to see him, even one time we almost broke up, but he apologized. Anyway I believe this cancerian is selfish like my ex, by ignoring ur emotions and only contacting u when he feels like it. Now my ex texts me again after we broke up asking about me and i replied by "great" and again 2 weeks later of no contact he asks me how is life going, both times were on his day off so I suppose he was just bored I don't know. I don't even feel like responding. I just know me n u r better off without them.