Cancer female/Capricorn male

Any cancer females in a relationship with a Capricorn male? Any advice on this pairing.

I'm with a cap guy. It's only been just over 6 weeks but it has been a great pairing so far (i'm touching wood right now!) I did post on here in the very early stages with my concerns but looking back, i think that was about my own insecurities rather than him. From my short experience caps aren't the type to rush anything. He's not a big talker about his feelings for me either and sometime i just need that confirmed in words. On the other hand he does makes me feel very secure by his actions. He shows he cares by being there, giving his time, being reliable and very loving and tactile when we're together. He's always talking about us and future plans like what we'll do this summer and when i meet his family, which is nice. There was even a hint of romance on valentines day... flowers, a card and a lovely meal at my My favorite restaurant that he'd remembered me mentioning on our first date. I say go for it if you've got your eye on a cap, but as I say it's early days for me so i'm a little loved up and bias.

A Cancer girlfriend of mine is married to a Capman .. they've been together both dating and married for several years. And I've seen both positive and negative situations happen within this pairing.

She needs verbal sentiments .. he gives phyiscal ones .. this has caused some disturbances. If prompted by her, he will be forthcoming with them, but, from her perspective, she feels that he should want to be verbally sensitive to her emotions without having to prod him.

On the other hand .. he doesn't ever forget anything that is sentimentally important to her .. like events, places they've visited, deep conversations shared, special occasions.

She is very subserviant to him, and will attempt to put all focus on his desires, while neglecting her own sense of individuality .. such as, she'll listen to his music and say she loves it, eat foods he likes and pretend it to be her favorites .. and though, on one hand he enjoys being the master of the domain, on the other he isn't happy that she isn't the strong independent free spirit that she falsely projected as her image during courtship ... her attachment on him, and his desires exclusively .. leaves him feeling like he's being smothered.

On the other hand .. he is pretty emotionally insecure, in his own way, in which he really needs to be treated like her baby, though, this is absent from his awareness. By this I mean, he can't handle the emotional turmoil that presents itself from time to time in a persons life, and so rely's on her to sort out feelings for him, to which he can't discern the level of which he should feel because being earth, he's too emotionally grounded in many ways.

It appears to be a pretty even blend of ups and downs .. enough friction to cause personal and marital growth, and enough harmony to create a fluid union. The real potential problem that rears it's ugly head more often than not, is that they both are pretty greedy and money hungry .. which influences them to be stingy, while accepting monetary and material gestures from others without giving back. Though, the problem doesn't present itself for their personal relationship, it does in the aspect that it's caused a tremendous amount of tension with the extended family members because it comes off looking completely incompassiontate to family, while taking them for granted.