Cancer female frustration

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Violetmoonbleedingblack on Tuesday, December 26, 2017 and has 5 replies.

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Cancer female scorpio ascendant here.

How do you all deal with the emotions and passion that comes with our sign?. Sometimes I feel so unfulfilled in the shallow relationships around me. I want someone who is able to understand me at a deeper level. And how do you ladies deal with obsessive men?. I don’t know what I do to make men become so attached to me (they are stressing me out). Cancer ladies how do you also deal with jealous friends, toxic family member and loneliness?. I am so frustrated all I want is love but all I ever attract is obsessed men, toxic and envious friends and more headaches...

What am I doing wrong?. Is it the cancer/ Scorpio combo am I just way too polarizing, emotional and crazy?. Btw I’m like the sweetest person ever why is life so difficult?... ( * starts crying while typing this* )

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awww

I'm sorry your having a hard time ...I have this combo too plus a scorpio moon to boot ...

I know this is gonna say self love

I say support yourself if you can't get support from other people

you can't change your family members but you can try and talk it out or maybe limit contact with them

find new friends I know that is easier said than done ..I know there is a lot of complaints of crabs ghosting but once we love even on a platonic level we love hard I say try and replace them ...

there are people out there that simply want the best for you, that will look out for you, that will tell you when your fucking up without crushing your spirit

and far as love people are flawed so there will always be exceptions but I say cut people off earlier if you notice things aren't right try not to do the typical crab things and just hope things get better before you have a mess on your hands

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My best friend has this combo. She's pretty much always down but she smiles when she in somebody company.. A lot of bad things I can't tell you has happened to her. She's gemini moon like me and taught me a lot of shit. I just wish she had that fire like me, to hold her head up higher. Been knowing her since I was 16.. We met in the neighborhood, on the bus. She's a the only friend I really count but she pushes everyone away.

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Cancan said it well, couldn't agree with her more.

As for the dealing with the emotions and passion that comes with our sign, it's a lifetime work imho. Our ups and downs are constant thru our whole life (moon ruled). It does get more manageable with maturing, exploring yourself, learning from experiences, knowing your needs and how to take care of them in a healthy way. But it never ends. Actually, I believe our falls are a good thing. Thru them we transform, grow and create.

I always remember myself when I'm in a bad place, that all I'm experiencing are just emotions. They will pass, dissolve, a flow will wash them away and it will be all good again. And that's how it always is. Also, I know, that the cycle will repeat itself and I learned to accept that.

You are doing well, you are crying. That's a good thing, it cleans pain out of your gut and opens a path to a feeling of deeper sadness, underneath which lies.....relief and love.

Cause its like two days since you wrote this, i bet you are already feeling better by now