cancer female& virgo male?!

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Miasma on Friday, May 12, 2006 and has 3 replies.
hi everyone,
I met this virguy at the beginning of march, it took him 2 months to kiss me (_ just want to show how slow he is) and during this period i didn't push him for god's sake i waited bc i didn't want to scare him. we always talk online we text eachother time to time (not on daily basis) we go to clubs, movies or just to grab a cup of coffee..but nothing certain...still continuing with the virguy without knowing what we are; going out? or not?...ok so now i'm sure that this virguy is inexperienced, no other alternative left behind.
he is getting paralyzed before kissing me, i mean really, he wants to kiss but he doesnt know what to do and he is making me panic too, "so this kissing before i'm leaving the car" is becoming a whole ridiculous story. I feel like i'm in high school or something. he can't hold my hand while walking eventhough i feel that he wants to. after reading all those dxp posts on virgo board i'm doing nothing, literally nothing, because i don't want to scare him, i don't want to push him.
but it's like he is taking slow so i'm taking slow, we are stopping ourselves..i'm getting sick and tired. i feel like a passif cancer girl waiting for an inexperienced virguy--> it's like no way out, pathethic
now it's obvious that we have feelings for eachother, you don't kiss ur friend goodbye after drinking a cup of coffee right? this is like the fourth time (yeah i'm counting)
I don't understand this are we going out or not? which stage are we?
we are not going out but kinda going out (not going out officialy)..what is this?
should I tell him??? tell him that i like him and like spending time with him??don't know..how should you treat an inexperienced virguy on his early 20s??? (dy!!!--any help?)...and i think his heart was broken a few times (from my impressions)
i saw him on wednesday, not a word on thursday.. so tommorrow is friday, and i want to see him friday!!!!
i'm pissed off right now..hate this ambiguity
Well Im a cancer in love with a virgo and let me tell u they do move very very slow so what I did was make the first move I actually told my virgo "please kiss me so we can break the ice." Im a very aggressive woman so i say u start makin moves on him. Yes talk to him let him know how u feel and trust me he will come around. I don't think he is inexperience he is just moving slow

thank you misscancer,
actually i waited for the kissing part but yeah i felt the same way "please kiss me" smile
thats funny!!
so if i call him to go out, i wont sound to pushy or forcing right?

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