Cancer Flirts

Hello me again!

I keep running into these crabs! just my luck.

Long story short. After months of just eye flirting.
She asks for my number and then proceeds to offer her number for my phone. Great! But at the time she was in a relationship. She puts on the flirt even more, ie. vertical scanning, deep eye contact, touching me.. She's single now, I call her up and she picks up.. why would she pick up the phone if not interested?

How do I know for sure what this cancer is doing? Taking it slow or what? Am I on the right track?

Yea I agree with Greatbull did she say she wasn't interested or you just got a vibe.

Maybe she is just scared like what Stah said. She doesn't have anyone to fall back onto and that could feel terrible for her if she were to be rejected. It may sound kind of shady but all the girls I happen to run to always had a fallback guy and I was always out of the Loop!

Well GreatBull and co. That was my way of asking, she picked up the phone, hence she's interested? I'm not really sure, since she does play hot and cold.

Thank you Stah, I know she recently broke up with her long term girlfriend, she said she was 95% sure she was gay, and is only dating guys because of her parents, who are obviously against her dating girls.

Well more information about this thing going on. Weeks before she had even shown interest when she had asked me if I had a current boyfriend, as I told her I was gay, I watched her face for a reaction and noticed her eyebrow twitched. Shortly after, she asked for my number and then offered her number to me as I took my phone out. That very same night she even took interest in my past time activities. "what kind of music do you like?"

About a week after we were at a friends house that night I witnessed the whole break up that went down between her and her girlfriend(they have been going out for 17 months). It was pretty loud and messy. At one point, while her girlfriend was gone, she had made a pass at me... stroking my arm and on a separate occasion asking me "What do you want?" after I had asked her what I was getting in return for helping her study. Preceding this, she had given me the vertical scan check out twice that very same day, thinking I wasn't looking.

And THEN this phone call I made.. it was short , she said she'd call back and I forced her to promise to call back. "I Promise" she said. The next day in class, she approaches me, for the first time ever might I add, greets me and tells me she fell asleep that night. I play it cool, pretending she didn't exist that whole day.

Things only recently started to get juicy, after months of just making eye contact with each other. Even to this day, we are still looking in each others directions catching eyes, but that's when she's hot and not acting so cold.

Thats the full story, just in case anyone was curious. I'm sure her sexual orientation confusion plays a big part in this.