Cancer girls... Help me on this please
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Cappy243 on Saturday, September 7, 2013 and has 7 replies.
Okay here is my short story with this Cancer girl.. more than a year ago we met at a club, she is 22 and I'm 28.. cute young girl but had high standards and goals in life. we talked and I liked literally everything about her. She was super motivated and into her future, she has an interesting personality. We talked for an hour or so without stopping. And oh man she can talk and keep the whole talk as interesting as it started.
We started texting for few days and it was going good. Until I found out that she was living in another town.. I stopped texting her and she didnt text me at all. I wasn't into long distance dating.. Days after that I met an Aries girl and was with her for 10 months and only god knows how bad I'm regretting that right now..
Here's the fun part.. I had to move to the same town few months ago, and I ran into her twice but we totally ignored each other lol. I really wanted to stop her and say hi, but it didnt happen.
Would she be friendly and nice if I hit her up? Or if I stop her and say hi?
And how do cancer girls act when they like someone? Do I have a chance with her? Even if she knows that I started dating another girl right after we stopped talking? "thanks to FB"
Help me out please
We started texting for few days and it was going good. Until I found out that she was living in another town.. I stopped texting her and she didnt text me at all. I wasn't into long distance dating.. Days after that I met an Aries girl and was with her for 10 months and only god knows how bad I'm regretting that right now..
Here's the fun part.. I had to move to the same town few months ago, and I ran into her twice but we totally ignored each other lol. I really wanted to stop her and say hi, but it didnt happen.
Would she be friendly and nice if I hit her up? Or if I stop her and say hi?
And how do cancer girls act when they like someone? Do I have a chance with her? Even if she knows that I started dating another girl right after we stopped talking? "thanks to FB"
Help me out please
Well it's been a year since you haven't spoken to her.. How do you know if the cancer girl isn't with someone else by now?
I know she's not dating anybody thro fb
Posted by LovesickCancer
You should be willing to go anywhere in the world for your cancer, otherwise you may as well not be on the same planet.
At that time it was just impossible.. But do you think I should try talking to her again?
I would approach her slowly. We cancer women have trust issues and we can forgive but never forget. So if you were talking to her about a year ago and then you all of a sudden stopped talking to her, and she saw that you started to date someone else don't think she forgot about that. So approach her slowly get her to trust you again and then maybe you have a chance.
Now this might not be what she would appreciate, but me personally, I would most likely text you back if you told me exactly what you felt in your heart.
Tell her you feel vulnerable to admit this truth to her, but you feel you owe it to her to be honest.
(She will like that you are open,honest and not afraid to put yourself in a vulnerable position just to explain to her you care about her, she will feel taken aback and appreciative of your direct approach)
Tell her how you feel, this will appeal to a cancer girl who feels almost everything!!!
Tell her your sensitive to the fact she might feel hurt by your past actions (you ignoring her)
Tell her your sorry and you wish that you didn't ignore her, but its just back then you had trouble being upfront with your feelings but now your making an effort to be real to her because she is worth the chance, say sorry for being disrespectful before and ask if you can make it up to her by taking her out to dinner (or a coffee to be more casual, don't say drink unless she likes her booze because it might seem sleazy)
Try to keep your words direct and to the point though, you don't want to look like a stalker hehe
But that raw vulnerable honesty would appeal to me in a sexy way.. Where I would think wow what a man to just say how he feels, be himself and not care how it might sound.
Don't do this though unless your sure... Not ever cancer is like me!! I wouldn't want to ruin your chances....
Tell her you feel vulnerable to admit this truth to her, but you feel you owe it to her to be honest.
(She will like that you are open,honest and not afraid to put yourself in a vulnerable position just to explain to her you care about her, she will feel taken aback and appreciative of your direct approach)
Tell her how you feel, this will appeal to a cancer girl who feels almost everything!!!
Tell her your sensitive to the fact she might feel hurt by your past actions (you ignoring her)
Tell her your sorry and you wish that you didn't ignore her, but its just back then you had trouble being upfront with your feelings but now your making an effort to be real to her because she is worth the chance, say sorry for being disrespectful before and ask if you can make it up to her by taking her out to dinner (or a coffee to be more casual, don't say drink unless she likes her booze because it might seem sleazy)
Try to keep your words direct and to the point though, you don't want to look like a stalker hehe
But that raw vulnerable honesty would appeal to me in a sexy way.. Where I would think wow what a man to just say how he feels, be himself and not care how it might sound.
Don't do this though unless your sure... Not ever cancer is like me!! I wouldn't want to ruin your chances....
But if you never try then your have already failed anyway.... So I personally would give it a go :
If she doesn't message you back then who cares... She not meant for you then.. But at least you have peace if mind you gave it a shot.. Which is better then never having a go
You don't win lotto if you don't buy a ticket... Might not be this ticket but you gotta be in it to win it
Aha there goes my motivating skills used for the day.... Good luck
what ever you do just do what ever you feel is best..
If she doesn't message you back then who cares... She not meant for you then.. But at least you have peace if mind you gave it a shot.. Which is better then never having a go
You don't win lotto if you don't buy a ticket... Might not be this ticket but you gotta be in it to win it
Aha there goes my motivating skills used for the day.... Good luck
what ever you do just do what ever you feel is best..Leave Your Feedback
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