Cancer Guys?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by woodenmeow on Monday, October 7, 2013 and has 6 replies.
Cancer Men are new to me. I am a water sign myself (Pisces). We have only been dating a short time. He has been very consitant with contacting me.
When I left his apt he asked me to text him when I got off work. Everything was fine between us. He kissed me and I was on my way. I did and no response.
So now it's 3 days later. I know we both mutally like each other.
Not sure what to do?
Contact him or wait for him to contact me?
When I left his apt he asked me to text him when I got off work. Everything was fine between us. He kissed me and I was on my way. I did and no response.
So now it's 3 days later. I know we both mutally like each other.
Not sure what to do?
Contact him or wait for him to contact me?
@MoonMan....
Funny, I have been on the fence on as to contact him or not. I have never dated a Cancer Man.
So I am in unchartered Territory.
Funny, I have been on the fence on as to contact him or not. I have never dated a Cancer Man.
So I am in unchartered Territory.
I'm on day 12 of being ignored by my Cancer guy. Whether you contact him first or wait for him, it doesn't matter. They work on their own schedule. If you contact him and are still ignored, be prepared for that. Don't let it get to you or have an effect on your self esteem. Keep your confidence intact. Stay busy and don't obsess over it.
I had to go back and re-read my own posts for advice on this. Nearly lost it last night after my 4th try to reach out and got nothing back in the last week. I'm blaming it on my Venus in Taurus for this. I'm not letting go. It's just really really hard when you're told that you are liked and that they are there for you but when they ignore you, all the love that they claim they have for you might as well go out the window. I'm holding on because I believe him. I trust that he has deep feelings for me and I trust that he doesn't want to talk about it and I trust that he will come back to me when he is ready. Not gonna lie and say I haven't thought about just completely letting this go and just disappear on my own.
I had to go back and re-read my own posts for advice on this. Nearly lost it last night after my 4th try to reach out and got nothing back in the last week. I'm blaming it on my Venus in Taurus for this. I'm not letting go. It's just really really hard when you're told that you are liked and that they are there for you but when they ignore you, all the love that they claim they have for you might as well go out the window. I'm holding on because I believe him. I trust that he has deep feelings for me and I trust that he doesn't want to talk about it and I trust that he will come back to me when he is ready. Not gonna lie and say I haven't thought about just completely letting this go and just disappear on my own.
Posted by geminibunny
I'm on day 12 of being ignored by my Cancer guy. Whether you contact him first or wait for him, it doesn't matter. They work on their own schedule. If you contact him and are still ignored, be prepared for that. Don't let it get to you or have an effect on your self esteem. Keep your confidence intact. Stay busy and don't obsess over it.
I had to go back and re-read my own posts for advice on this. Nearly lost it last night after my 4th try to reach out and got nothing back in the last week. I'm blaming it on my Venus in Taurus for this. I'm not letting go. It's just really really hard when you're told that you are liked and that they are there for you but when they ignore you, all the love that they claim they have for you might as well go out the window. I'm holding on because I believe him. I trust that he has deep feelings for me and I trust that he doesn't want to talk about it and I trust that he will come back to me when he is ready. Not gonna lie and say I haven't thought about just completely letting this go and just disappear on my own.
When is that Gemini side of you going to come out? Come on your smarter then this i told you wait for no guy ever. Move on when he sees you moved on thats when he will come back running.
@GemniBunny.... I am sorry you are having a hard time. I truley understand where you are coming from.
It has only been three days and I just cant make sense as to why he isn't contacting me.
I don't consider myself to be a stubborn person but this is like the 3rd guy that has gone MIA on me.
Regardless of Astrological sign.. if a Guy likes you he will contact you.
So as hard as it is, stand your ground as best you can.
A pisces guy I was seeing was doing the back and forth with me. I ignored him for 2 weeks straight. He came asking me where I have been. I gave him he the same excuses he gave me. Now he contacts me all the time. Go Figure.
It has only been three days and I just cant make sense as to why he isn't contacting me.
I don't consider myself to be a stubborn person but this is like the 3rd guy that has gone MIA on me.
Regardless of Astrological sign.. if a Guy likes you he will contact you.
So as hard as it is, stand your ground as best you can.
A pisces guy I was seeing was doing the back and forth with me. I ignored him for 2 weeks straight. He came asking me where I have been. I gave him he the same excuses he gave me. Now he contacts me all the time. Go Figure.
Last time he did this I ignored him for half a day and he thought I was over him. This happens too frequently for me. Every few weeks he does this. Back for 1 gone for 3. That's the cycle for this special one.
I think I'm gonna have to take a hiatus from him for a bit. For a few months I need to get my act together so that I could better myself in every way. This is kinda tilting me off a little. Might have to put him on hold until 2014 just to get my head back in check and do what I gotta do for me.
Thanks ladies. I did kinda forget how to be a Gemini for a bit there.
I think I'm gonna have to take a hiatus from him for a bit. For a few months I need to get my act together so that I could better myself in every way. This is kinda tilting me off a little. Might have to put him on hold until 2014 just to get my head back in check and do what I gotta do for me.
Thanks ladies. I did kinda forget how to be a Gemini for a bit there.
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