
woodenmeow
@woodenmeow
12 Years
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Posted by geminibunny
I'm on day 12 of being ignored by my Cancer guy. Whether you contact him first or wait for him, it doesn't matter. They work on their own schedule. If you contact him and are still ignored, be prepared for that. Don't let it get to you or have an effect on your self esteem. Keep your confidence intact. Stay busy and don't obsess over it.
I had to go back and re-read my own posts for advice on this. Nearly lost it last night after my 4th try to reach out and got nothing back in the last week. I'm blaming it on my Venus in Taurus for this. I'm not letting go. It's just really really hard when you're told that you are liked and that they are there for you but when they ignore you, all the love that they claim they have for you might as well go out the window. I'm holding on because I believe him. I trust that he has deep feelings for me and I trust that he doesn't want to talk about it and I trust that he will come back to me when he is ready. Not gonna lie and say I haven't thought about just completely letting this go and just disappear on my own.


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When I left his apt he asked me to text him when I got off work. Everything was fine between us. He kissed me and I was on my way. I did and no response.
So now it's 3 days later. I know we both mutally like each other.
Not sure what to do?
Contact him or wait for him to contact me?