Cancer guys are so hard to understand!

He's saying he wants nothing to do with me any more (as I upset him) yet he's still texting me over n over being a taurus and being stubborn I've not answered back all the time like I would have, but does this mean he could still be interested or am I just reading to much into it? Texes are more or less how they was before I upset him and just as many to please help any cancer's out there so I can at least try n understand lol 🙂

Posted by sassysaz
He's saying he wants nothing to do with me any more (as I upset him) yet he's still texting me over n over being a taurus and being stubborn I've not answered back all the time like I would have, but does this mean he could still be interested or am I just reading to much into it? Texes are more or less how they was before I upset him and just as many to please help any cancer's out there so I can at least try n understand lol 🙂

As a cancer, I can say if he isn't interested, he wouldn't text. We usually don't go back on our word unless we feel bad about it. If you want to give him a chance, you can text back. Just be careful about what you wrote, don't give him a chance to feel everything is ok.That's the key how you can control his mood or sometimes selfish nature..

Thank you, of course I want to give him a chance I've really fell for him but I did upset him pretty bad, I have said sorry to him though but that's when he said he wants nothing more to do with me, he was a lil quite at first but then he's been texting me first ect having a laugh like normal I just don't understand him one bit lol but thank you I'll take that on board and as a cancer do you mind me asking do you not show your feelings much? He always says sweet things but then changes saying I don't do soppy ect lol x

Cancer are sweet and very emotional but for the men of this sign they don't show it actively until they are ready, you can't coax them into showing that until they are sure about there feelings towards to you and that they won't be rejected.

Thank you, when I'm with him he's amazing all ways touching n so on but then some days over tex or when he rings (we live quite away from each other) he can be soppy n then change it or cold, he usually starts it but always ends it with asking me what I think about him and so on is that normal from the cancer men? My ex was a Sagittarius and was an arse, so met such an amazing man I feel blessed lol, just wish he didn't go hot n cold so much lol 🙂 thank you x

Posted by sassysaz
Thank you, of course I want to give him a chance I've really fell for him but I did upset him pretty bad, I have said sorry to him though but that's when he said he wants nothing more to do with me, he was a lil quite at first but then he's been texting me first ect having a laugh like normal I just don't understand him one bit lol but thank you I'll take that on board and as a cancer do you mind me asking do you not show your feelings much? He always says sweet things but then changes saying I don't do soppy ect lol x

We don't like to show our feelings cause we afraid of being hurt. It's our weak spot that's why wo don't like to show our feelings. We can't control our feelings, our feelings controls us. We also don't like to be rejected, that's why we can be indirect about feelings. You have to push us to say our real feelings but you can't make it by asking us "tell me your true feelings". You should make us feel "if you don't say it now I'll start thinking that I'm just your friend and will look for another chances", it'll be a motivation for us to tell something cause another bad feeling (to loose someone we love) will capture our soul..

Posted by sassysaz
he usually starts it but always ends it with asking me what I think about him and so on is that normal from the cancer men?

Cancer will have to feel/hear that they are loved by someone they love..They ALWAYS need it.
If you don't like this kind of things, make sure he understand you very well. He need to feel safe, everyhting is ok in your relationship otherwise he'll question why it is like that and will be obsessed.
You should draw lines in first place. It's very important cause if you give some privilege to cancer and take back it after a quarrel or something like that, it won't make cancer feel god even if you're together again unless you give that privilege back to him..

I totally understand that, I've been nothing but honest with him told him how I feel, when we r together it's amazing 🙂 but I hurt him pretty bad I asked was he talking to other woman even though he'd been honest from the start and told me he wasn't but I'd been hurt b4 and I explained this to him, I do trust him a 100% and don't even no why I asked him! he said then that was it he wants nothing to do with me yet still texting me I'm just so confused and we got pretty serious fast maybe it was to fast for him but that's the only mistake I've made while being with him, do you think being a cancer yourself if I carry on chatting to him I can get things back to how they was? x

it's obvious that he was overreacted. He also want same thing. You can be sure that you have a chance to get what you want. It's also a chance to push cancer limits. If you have that woman thing (who can make her man do what she want even if he dosen't want to or know how to say no 🙂 ) , you can make him feel guilty as he got overreacted

I really do hope so, I was supposed to be seeing him Friday but he's cancelled but I'd bought him a gift so he's asked me to post it, I just really hope we can get back to how we was usually I can say no but when it comes to him lol but I know I was in the wrong for asking him, so I feel guilty just wish he'd see it like that thank you x

Sassysaz,

He will hold on to his hurt feelings for a very long time, even if he acts like he's over it. Whatever he showed you in the beginning is not his reality now. Focus on what you're receiving from him now....that's your future.

Thank you miss libra not much then he's gone moody again that's within the space of an hour btw, so guessing we won't ever get bk to how we was 😢 my own fault thanks everyone x

And no he keeps bringing up what I did and how we r now mates all I can do is say sorry x

It's not your fault. A grown man without ill intentions would have simply communicated with you and worked it out. Not talking and playing minds just to make you feel like shit is weak and irresponsible of him.

One more thing, as I've learned the hard way, the sweet texts will continue until HE feels like stopping. They really mean nothing more than him trying to prove that you're still available to him.

Thank you miss libra 🙂 you've really helped me out think its time I cut ties isn't it and walk away because he knows I'd do anything for him, as I've been nothing but honest and then I asked him this question and yea 😢 thank you so much x

Don't walk away. He wants a challenge so give him one. Don't let his manipulation turn you into a sniveling submissive girl who apologizes and pleas upon his demands and his indecisiveness. What kind of relationship is this when a woman can't even ask her man if he is seeing another woman? I only get to talk to my cancer once a month so when I do we both ask each other if we've been seeing other people and we think nothing of it and come clean with honesty. Just stop apologizing and act as though you've done nothing wrong and just move on from there. If he's still texting you then enjoy it and be playful but be mindful of the manipulation he's put you through. Don't walk on eggshells. Play his games and don't be afraid to lose. Do it playfully with a smile and enjoy all the attention. That's the only way to win. Don't let his mood swings affect you either and get swept up in his roller coaster.

Sometimes women are hard to understand....my cancer and I were playing today were I placed on his priority list. I told as long as I am on it is all that matters,

He asked what I meant.

I told him if I am not on the list then that show what I mean to you. I don't waste my time on people who don't value me. Even though were playing with each other he knew I got my point to him. I don't waste my time on people find no value in me. Cause guess what....there is someone who will.

Thank you so much both of you 🙂 i don't understand how his feelings can chance just like that yet he told me to just drop it n make do with what he's giving me which I'm happy with I've told him this but he still wants to know if I still feel the same so he wants to know how I feel but I'm not aloud to know how's he feeling? Are they always like this cancer men lol I've been a ill tuff with him this morning coz not having his games he didn't like it but is still texting mixed signals so god knows 😢 thank you for all the advice really has help 🙂 x