Cancer guys, do you find a gemini girl attractive?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by xxixxi on Sunday, April 28, 2013 and has 11 replies.
If you do, for what reasons?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
True eheheh
No....way too flaky
Posted by incandescentcancer
No....way too flaky
I find them attractive until I learn they're Gemini.
Hehehehe I think the cancer guy I am interested in has done and is doing good stuff but I am just unsure lol cause, well, we didn't start off great lol
There was only a physical attraction between us (we both knew that very well and after talking to him for the first time I considered it a one time thing) and I have told him everything, literally everything - about my exs, all those crazy stuff happened to me in the past and I slept with another guy while the cancer guy was gone... but then he disappeared on me out of blue and I thought we were done for good! when I was single I asked him if that bothered him and his answer was 'well, you're single so just try to enjoy it' then later when I told that I was seeing someone he showed jealousy and I was like 'wtf?' He said it was my choice to date/see other guys and I took that as he did not want to develop whatever things were there between us back then, so I moved on...
Then he poppped up from nowhere and I told him I was dating a few guys, just to see if we were compatible or what, then he said he was jealous but it was said in a light, playful tone so I did not mind much... we had some sort of argument then he went off again, this time I thought it was really over, then some really shitty, horrible thing happened to me and I slept with the guy I was seeing out of anger or whatever intense feelings and stresses I was going through... it wasn't about love or even attraction, I just needed some distractions... then a week later this cancer guy and I started talking again, I told him what happened while he was gone. He said he was shocked and did not want to hear it because hearing me sleeping with the other guy hurt him so much... and here again I was like 'what? you disappeared on me without a single word and it wasn't even the first time you have done so, and should I just sit around and wait for you every time you go poof?'
Since then we have been speaking daily... I turned down two guys since then, too, told him about that and he said 'ok.' The last time the same thing happened (other men asked me out and I turned them down), his reaction was 'why turn them down? you should go on a date and have fun.' Now he does not say to me to go out and have fun. There were some guys I was talking to since he came back for the second and third time, but I'm not much interested in pursuing things further with them there as none of the guys clicked me well.
There was only a physical attraction between us (we both knew that very well and after talking to him for the first time I considered it a one time thing) and I have told him everything, literally everything - about my exs, all those crazy stuff happened to me in the past and I slept with another guy while the cancer guy was gone... but then he disappeared on me out of blue and I thought we were done for good! when I was single I asked him if that bothered him and his answer was 'well, you're single so just try to enjoy it' then later when I told that I was seeing someone he showed jealousy and I was like 'wtf?' He said it was my choice to date/see other guys and I took that as he did not want to develop whatever things were there between us back then, so I moved on...
Then he poppped up from nowhere and I told him I was dating a few guys, just to see if we were compatible or what, then he said he was jealous but it was said in a light, playful tone so I did not mind much... we had some sort of argument then he went off again, this time I thought it was really over, then some really shitty, horrible thing happened to me and I slept with the guy I was seeing out of anger or whatever intense feelings and stresses I was going through... it wasn't about love or even attraction, I just needed some distractions... then a week later this cancer guy and I started talking again, I told him what happened while he was gone. He said he was shocked and did not want to hear it because hearing me sleeping with the other guy hurt him so much... and here again I was like 'what? you disappeared on me without a single word and it wasn't even the first time you have done so, and should I just sit around and wait for you every time you go poof?'
Since then we have been speaking daily... I turned down two guys since then, too, told him about that and he said 'ok.' The last time the same thing happened (other men asked me out and I turned them down), his reaction was 'why turn them down? you should go on a date and have fun.' Now he does not say to me to go out and have fun. There were some guys I was talking to since he came back for the second and third time, but I'm not much interested in pursuing things further with them there as none of the guys clicked me well.
From what I have read about cancer men on this forum so far, I don't really think I am the kind typical cancer men would look for... lol
Well, I cannot undo what I have already jacked up and now I want him in some serious sense but I don't think I have a chance here
Even though the guy has told me he likes me and has feelings for me, I cannot see he likes me because well, I am not really a nice, stable girl...? lol
Well, I cannot undo what I have already jacked up and now I want him in some serious sense but I don't think I have a chance here
Even though the guy has told me he likes me and has feelings for me, I cannot see he likes me because well, I am not really a nice, stable girl...? lolAnyways, thank you all for your replies
Astrology might be one factor and like many of you pointed out, it really should be about 'does this guy find me (me being you) attractive?'
And I have a doubt if he finds me attractive lol well, maybe physically but beyond that I am not so positive
Thank you again though!
Astrology might be one factor and like many of you pointed out, it really should be about 'does this guy find me (me being you) attractive?'
And I have a doubt if he finds me attractive lol well, maybe physically but beyond that I am not so positive
Thank you again though!
Posted by xxixxi
From what I have read about cancer men on this forum so far, I don't really think I am the kind typical cancer men would look for... lol
Well, I cannot undo what I have already jacked up and now I want him in some serious sense but I don't think I have a chance here
Sex him exactly two times, not once or thrice exactly twice....then run along and never look back. All this love will be out of your system.
Hmmmmm why twice? :O
We can't have sex cause we are thousands miles away!
Still, thank you for your reply!
We can't have sex cause we are thousands miles away!
Still, thank you for your reply!
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