Cancer guys mind game...
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by CapricornGirl24 on Monday, October 6, 2014 and has 4 replies.
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CapricornGirl24
10/5/2014 3:15:10 PM |??More
Hey. I've been on here before about this same guy I work with who happens to be a Cancer. Not to long ago , when we were in the break room w/ a few other coworkers, I noticed he was going out of his way to draw attention to himself/get my attention. B/c I didn't react. he tried to see my phone & couldn't get a good look at it , so he pulled his phone out & told a coworker about a pic he has with some girl & he was going to post if on FB, but it would make them look "official". Immediately after , he was going out of his way to get my attention. Day/weeks go by, same thing. He posts a pic on FB, but her face is cropped out. Still looking for my attention. I've had it. Today we worked together & during my entire shift , he went out of his way to get my attention & I ignored him . But he wouldn't leave me alone. Everywhere I went , he popped up, As if he were following me. Making stupid comments trying to make me laugh , constantly , even though I made it obvious I wanted nothing to do w/ him. He's been entertaining another girl & yet , finds a way to worry about me or pretend to , as far as I'm concerned. It's unattractive & unnecessary. I will never go where another female already is, nor will I want anything to do with someone who does that. I've been through too much & refuse play this game with him. I wanted to tell him to his face, but never got the chance to before leaving work. Simply b/c other people were around & I'm not one to cause a scene. I'm thinking, I'll just send him a msg on FB just to get this off my chest. Possibly delete him right after. What do you guys think ? Is it better to tell him to his face ?
CapricornGirl24
10/5/2014 3:15:10 PM |??More
Hey. I've been on here before about this same guy I work with who happens to be a Cancer. Not to long ago , when we were in the break room w/ a few other coworkers, I noticed he was going out of his way to draw attention to himself/get my attention. B/c I didn't react. he tried to see my phone & couldn't get a good look at it , so he pulled his phone out & told a coworker about a pic he has with some girl & he was going to post if on FB, but it would make them look "official". Immediately after , he was going out of his way to get my attention. Day/weeks go by, same thing. He posts a pic on FB, but her face is cropped out. Still looking for my attention. I've had it. Today we worked together & during my entire shift , he went out of his way to get my attention & I ignored him . But he wouldn't leave me alone. Everywhere I went , he popped up, As if he were following me. Making stupid comments trying to make me laugh , constantly , even though I made it obvious I wanted nothing to do w/ him. He's been entertaining another girl & yet , finds a way to worry about me or pretend to , as far as I'm concerned. It's unattractive & unnecessary. I will never go where another female already is, nor will I want anything to do with someone who does that. I've been through too much & refuse play this game with him. I wanted to tell him to his face, but never got the chance to before leaving work. Simply b/c other people were around & I'm not one to cause a scene. I'm thinking, I'll just send him a msg on FB just to get this off my chest. Possibly delete him right after. What do you guys think ? Is it better to tell him to his face ?
Hey. I've been on here before about this same guy I work with who happens to be a Cancer. Not to long ago , when we were in the break room w/ a few other coworkers, I noticed he was going out of his way to draw attention to himself/get my attention. B/c I didn't react. he tried to see my phone & couldn't get a good look at it , so he pulled his phone out & told a coworker about a pic he has with some girl & he was going to post if on FB, but it would make them look "official". Immediately after , he was going out of his way to get my attention. Day/weeks go by, same thing. He posts a pic on FB, but her face is cropped out. Still looking for my attention. I've had it. Today we worked together & during my entire shift , he went out of his way to get my attention & I ignored him . But he wouldn't leave me alone. Everywhere I went , he popped up, As if he were following me. Making stupid comments trying to make me laugh , constantly , even though I made it obvious I wanted nothing to do w/ him. He's been entertaining another girl & yet , finds a way to worry about me or pretend to , as far as I'm concerned. It's unattractive & unnecessary. I will never go where another female already is, nor will I want anything to do with someone who does that. I've been through too much & refuse play this game with him. I wanted to tell him to his face, but never got the chance to before leaving work. Simply b/c other people were around & I'm not one to cause a scene. I'm thinking, I'll just send him a msg on FB just to get this off my chest. Possibly delete him right after. What do you guys think ? Is it better to tell him to his face ?
Umm... No. I'm not the kind of girl who thinks every guy likes her. He's made flirtations remarks to me more than once. It doesn't take much to know when someone has some interest in you. I can tell he does. I'm just annoyed at the fact that , instead If just talking to me, he chose to be like every other guy & play games for a reaction.
He literally followed me around my ENTIRE shift. Standing closer than usual. When he tried to talk to me, he was pretty much in my face/personal space. Purposely trying to bump into me & walk beside me. If I was in the middle of a convo w/ a coworker, he'd say something to direct their attention from me to him, w/ the most RIDICULOUS statements & questions. Plus starring at me nonstop ... I could keep going but I think you get the idea. He was over the top & our coworkers noticed too.
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