cancer/leo cusp.

I met a cancer/leo cusp over a year ago, we had an instant connection it's definitely a spiritual connection and he has mentioned it breifly too so i know im not alone in thinking that, dated a few times got on really well he withdrew a bit and i pushed him too hard, it took 8 months to see him again, as i missed him worse after a lot of no contact and messaged him, but he opened up told me a lot of things, i know he has been hurt badly in the past and gone through some really bad family/work stuff,
we saw each other over the summer he got really close to me then suddenly pulled back again,
he never ignores me as such, we both have pride i guess he has never ignored a message from me, but i know when he pulls back and i never pushed the issue so it just went into periods of quiet and silence. he always has interest in what i say, if i give some suggestion he goes out of his way to try it and let me know, always follows what im doing i know if i ever needed him to help or talk to i could speak to him and hed be ok with it

i guess we have no basis of friendship due to the way we met and no mutual friends,

i know most people would say move on for the past year it has been impossible i have been crazy in love with this guy and we have a telepathic relationship too, my intuition tells me not to give up on this guy strongly i get a lot of signs, even my friends are no longer against him.
It's not that he is using me either, because we have only slept with each other once so it's definitely not a booty call but its like he gets really close then tries to push me away and run out of fear.

I do realise now half of it has been my fault as we both closed off and confused the otgher in different ways,
he would come to me and be open and forward btu after he went awol the first time my guard was so high i really just didnt give anything away, and was very closed thinking it was helping the situation to be 'cool' and not show any vulnerability but i think i was just confusing him as he was confusing me so to speak

i recently opened up to him a bit more which im not used to at all and he has reacently messaged about being worried about me and was checking i was ok.

I just wondered if anyone dealt with this.
i do know it's a balance as pushing too hard, but being cold neither works! Lol
i feel ill get another chance very soon and i know that i need to go about it the right way cause it can't go on like this for either of our healths!

my main thoughts are to wait for him to come forward i do feel it coming and to tell him how much its hurt me what he's been doing as he may not even realise, infact im pretty sure he hasn't i really dont think he would hurt me knowlingly as he cares about me a lot i do know this.

i kinda of get this feeling hes really trying to get over the hurt and scared to get with me until he's ready but i think he needs to know at the same time i wont be around waiting forever but in a nice way as any kind of ultimatum i know instantly wouldn't work with him he's very sensitive, which i didnt get at the beginning

i read a couple. i dont think they are really i know a lot basically say it takes a long time to win the trust, but once you have its all good!

p.s im a pisces

i know it doesnt sound much but i do think the big difference here is i was not actively sleeping with this guy im really strict with my morals so there wasn't really a gain from his perspective, more loss of taking me out!

I also am dealing with a leo/cancer cusp. He like your guy is very hot & cold. I try so hard to get over him & its nearly impossible. My intuition tells me not to let it go. He runs away from me bc I bring out to much vulnerability/emotions in him but he never completely shuts me out. Its confusing but I deal.

My advice to you would be to keep the communication open. Even if its a simple ?? just thinking about you, hope all is well ?? that'll let him know you do care about him. This seems to work with my Leo/Cancer guy Also if you want to deal with a Cancer you have to learn PATIENCE , as they move so slowly.

I'm sure the end result will be much worth the wait. Good luck 🙂

Pisces is a very good match with Cancer but i've read that a cusp Cancer/Leo does not go well with a pure pisces the pisces needs to be a cusp as well because Cancer Leo Is Fire Water.

I'm a Cancer Leo Sign

Posted by missunderstood23

I met a cancer/leo cusp over a year ago, we had an instant connection it's definitely a spiritual connection and he has mentioned it breifly too so i know im not alone in thinking that, dated a few times got on really well he withdrew a bit and i pushed him too hard, it took 8 months to see him again, as i missed him worse after a lot of no contact and messaged him, but he opened up told me a lot of things, i know he has been hurt badly in the past and gone through some really bad family/work stuff,

we saw each other over the summer he got really close to me then suddenly pulled back again,

he never ignores me as such, we both have pride i guess he has never ignored a message from me, but i know when he pulls back and i never pushed the issue so it just went into periods of quiet and silence. he always has interest in what i say, if i give some suggestion he goes out of his way to try it and let me know, always follows what im doing i know if i ever needed him to help or talk to i could speak to him and hed be ok with it



i guess we have no basis of friendship due to the way we met and no mutual friends,



i know most people would say move on for the past year it has been impossible i have been crazy in love with this guy and we have a telepathic relationship too, my intuition tells me not to give up on this guy strongly i get a lot of signs, even my friends are no longer against him.

It's not that he is using me either, because we have only slept with each other once so it's definitely not a booty call but its like he gets really close then tries to push me away and run out of fear.



I do realise now half of it has been my fault as we both closed off and confused the otgher in different ways,

he would come to me and be open and forward btu after he went awol the first time my guard was so high i really just didnt give anything away, and was very closed thinking it was helping the situation to be 'cool' and not show any vulnerability but i think i was just confusing him as he was confusing me so to speak



i recently opened up to him a bit more which im not used to at all and he has reacently messaged about being worried about me and was checking i was ok.



I just wondered if anyone dealt with this.

i do know it's a balance as pushing too hard, but being cold neither works! Lol

i feel ill get another chance very soon and i know that i need to go about it the right way cause it can't go on like this for either of our healths!

I'm a cancer/Leo cusp. What's your birth date?