Cancer Male going back to an X

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cheeky14u on Thursday, September 16, 2010 and has 18 replies.
Question for all you cancer boys......if you moved quickly got involved.....moved in together and then broke apart in less than 2 years....(he moved her out at the end of april....she had only moved in september)
Would you try to get back with your ex.....
Especially if you were constantly fighting and you thought she had a princess syndrom.....
Just wondering.....some threads say they won't ever go back and other that for sure they will revisit a ex....
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Hi, you may not know me, but i am a cancer that wont sugar coat shiiiiit! Look, I am gonna keep it real with you. We are BAD about it. We have problems with our current love than start thinking about some ex we had major feelings for. When we love someone they can be a total azz, we still forgive them and try to fix crap. We may even go back for a booty call,and never tell a freakin soul. And nobody would believe it anyways because we are so soft and innocent looking. We make the mistake sometimes to call that certain ex just to say "Hi" and see how they are. Secretly, we hope they are doing really shitty like we are,.. and want to meet up for a drink and talk about old times, we say to ourself we hope it dont end up in a hotel, but in reality, who are we kidding we called them right!?!? Yup! IT HAPPENS. Sometimes we even go back.
Any cancer that denies this, is probably denying it in fear that they are with someone and that person is going through their shiiit online! Not wanting to dissapoint the lover that may be spying on them! (And even though they think they are being spyed on they stay!) Hell they are probably reading this and secretly laughing in agreement!
BWAHA HA HA HA Soooooooooo true!
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No.....no kids involved....
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Posted by CancerianGoddess
Hi, you may not know me, but i am a cancer that wont sugar coat shiiiiit! Look, I am gonna keep it real with you. We are BAD about it. We have problems with our current love than start thinking about some ex we had major feelings for. When we love someone they can be a total azz, we still forgive them and try to fix crap. We may even go back for a booty call,and never tell a freakin soul. And nobody would believe it anyways because we are so soft and innocent looking. We make the mistake sometimes to call that certain ex just to say "Hi" and see how they are. Secretly, we hope they are doing really shitty like we are,.. and want to meet up for a drink and talk about old times, we say to ourself we hope it dont end up in a hotel, but in reality, who are we kidding we called them right!?!? Yup! IT HAPPENS. Sometimes we even go back.
Any cancer that denies this, is probably denying it in fear that they are with someone and that person is going through their shiiit online! Not wanting to dissapoint the lover that may be spying on them! (And even though they think they are being spyed on they stay!) Hell they are probably reading this and secretly laughing in agreement!
BWAHA HA HA HA Soooooooooo true!


HAAHAHAH.. YOU made me LAUGH cancereangoddess. I am not a cancer but I experience it with a cancer. the answer is YES. CANCERS GO BACK TO THEIR EX'S. if they love them enough.. and if they realize that the "rebound" is nothing in comparison to the ex. My cancer told me this recently. he said the "rebound" is nothing compared to me. I am the best and the most intense experience ever (he actually used the word "intense"). it made me laugh. I told him "I'm a Scorpio after all, let me top that in 5 minutes" *seductive stare*
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Cancer men go back when they haven't moved on. Sometimes they're really in love other times they just didn't like the initial outcome. Sometimes they only wanna go back just to end things on their terms but once again it could be love.
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Posted by Aphrodite Bull
Posted by CancerianGoddess
Hi, you may not know me, but i am a cancer that wont sugar coat shiiiiit! Look, I am gonna keep it real with you. We are BAD about it. We have problems with our current love than start thinking about some ex we had major feelings for. When we love someone they can be a total azz, we still forgive them and try to fix crap. We may even go back for a booty call,and never tell a freakin soul. And nobody would believe it anyways because we are so soft and innocent looking. We make the mistake sometimes to call that certain ex just to say "Hi" and see how they are. Secretly, we hope they are doing really shitty like we are,.. and want to meet up for a drink and talk about old times, we say to ourself we hope it dont end up in a hotel, but in reality, who are we kidding we called them right!?!? Yup! IT HAPPENS. Sometimes we even go back.
Any cancer that denies this, is probably denying it in fear that they are with someone and that person is going through their shiiit online! Not wanting to dissapoint the lover that may be spying on them! (And even though they think they are being spyed on they stay!) Hell they are probably reading this and secretly laughing in agreement!
BWAHA HA HA HA Soooooooooo true!


LMAO, this was an interesting read.
"Secretly, we hope they are doing really shitty like we are,.. and want to meet up for a drink and talk about old times, we say to ourself we hope it dont end up in a hotel."
Question? Why do Cancers hope that their ex is doing as shitty as they are? Is it denial, or do Cancers need closure?
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Because secretly we have to be the best they ever had. Its that whole having to be reassured all the time Bullshiiit. Yea, we love attention. In regaurds to why do we hope our ex is shiiity? It makes us feel good inside knowing we were better than the one they have now. Inside we laugh a little thinking "HAHA I Knew it! he/she aint never gonna find anyone better than me! But if they are better, we resort to food or even a roll in the hay with someone better looking than them to prove to ourself we are damn good! We may even string them in just long enough for a good time to prove to ourself we still have it, and may even completely ignore their texts and calls afterwards. Maybe we need closure,or maybe we ar
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Or maybe we are just proving to ourself we still got it!
TIP: Want us to stop being clingy?? Do things to make us feel appreciated. Remembering cards,birthdays, or "Just because gifts" We will loosen the leash, but if you break our trust or our hearts, just remember i warned you! We are masters of manipulation! IE: Making YOU feel like complete Shiiiit!
EXSAMPLE:
VICTIM: Honey i am home! I think we should talk, OMG honey! your bleeding,and my favorite coffee mug is broke! Its my lucky mug!
CANCER: OMG Babe i know! I been so hurt about our argument i wanted to bake you your favorite meal,and light candles because i think i may have over reacted
VICTIM: Really? You did?
CANCER: YES! So i wanted the kitchen perfect for you, I been cleaning like crazy,making your perfect meal. I was out all day and went to 3 differant stores to get my secret ingriedient,and i almost got in a car accident because some guy ran a red light and than when i hit the last store some weird guy was trying to get my phone number and made me feel so dirty. So i got home as soon as i can, and all i could think about was you and having a romantic night because i think we needed it. And when i was cleaning i was crying and your mug slipped and fell and broke and i tried picking it up and i cut myself and you walked in, i just feel so miserable i love you so much babe!!! [All this time sniffles are abroad and at the end Cancer cries loudly]
VICTIM: Feels like shit and damn near wants to slit his wrists.
BWAHAHAHA Sorry, but its truth!!!!!!
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Oh yeah, and in reality, CANCER just barely loaded the dishwasher,and started dinner, but probably purposely slammed the mug into the ground and felt good about it, like a watrm feeling, and after the VICTIM crumbled CANCER probably hugged the VICTIM and said "Its okay sweety" as CANCER got up looking like a champ and finished what was started!
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hahahaah... funny scenario...
yes.. CANCERS ARE THE MASTERS OF MANIPULATION. ZOMG..
I don't know what to say.. Like seriously. you know you're being manipulated by them yet you "fool" yourself that you'll get even one day so you succumb to their manipulation. Yet when the pay back day comes along. You can't do it. cos you feel sad for them.. you care for them.. you love them.. you say to yourself..they didn't mean what they did.. they're too weak that you're scared you'll destroy them permanently if you get revenge... so you let all the Fukced up stuff they did go. and the cycle goes on..
if you decide to get even, expect the worst guilt trip ever. wow. you'll actually feel it's all your fault when in fact, it's theirs! and you end up doing favors for them so they could "forgive you" and give you "another chance".
best bet is to let them go.. but if u do that, they'll come back..after disappearing for awhile..they'll win you back.(using their powerful intuition..they know your weakness) once you're won over, they'll bring back the abandonment they felt during stupid arguments that they themselves created just for the hell of it.. they'll whine about how you have hurt them.. how evil you were.. how you betrayed them...and so on and so forth.. so now, you'll feel guilty again.
I say this: TOO TIRING!!!!!!!!! it's game over! truly GAME OVER!! ice them out.. that's the only way to stop the cling..freeze the hell out of them, too cold they need to go to north pole just to defrost..

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Not in that scenario EmotionalMoon!
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Posted by scorpio740
ice them out.. that's the only way to stop the cling..freeze the hell out of them, too cold they need to go to north pole just to defrost..






Try icing us out. You cant, many have tried and failed. Were too cute,fun,funny and good in bed to do that. In the end we papmer you and do your laundry. You are suckers to our claws! bwaha ha ha ha ha!!!!!!!!
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ma??nip??u??la??tion (m??-n?_p??y??-l????sh??n)
noun
1smile a. The act or practice of manipulating.
b. The state of being manipulated.
2smileShrewd or devious management, especially for one's own advantage.

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Manipulation is using lies,and facts to get what you want out of someone. Being sometimes decietful.
It has NOTHING to do WITH pouting OR temper tantrums!
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Dont tell me that i dont know what manipulation. I Am not an idiot. I Proved my point, you kinda proved yours. DONE!!
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Posted by EmotionalMoon
Posted by CancerianGoddess
Dont tell me that i dont know what manipulation. I Am not an idiot. I Proved my point, you kinda proved yours. DONE!!


Don't put words in mouth I never said you were an idiot or didnt know what manipulation is I thinking you probably have it done to a fine art. Im just pointing out there is difference in manipulation. I never thought lieing or deciet was you showed me that it is! No offence intended..
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Actually you said it wasnt manipulation, you said it was lieing... So i posted how its not lieing, its a form of manipulation. Carry on,,....
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LOL It was an exsample, as i stated. Hey lets just drop this and hug already okay?? lol...
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Wait, what was the topic again? I Got sidetracked! lol
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My Cancer X went back to me twice, so in answer your question, the only Cancer Ive ever been with, yes, this one went back to an X.
Sometimes it can take a separation and time on your own to process and sort through stuff. These times apart can either renew a relationship, or cement the fact that it should never have been...
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"Sometimes it can take a separation and time on your own to process and sort through stuff. These times apart can either renew a relationship, or cement the fact that it should never have been..."
I Agree with Morriseey
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