I'm a cancer female dating a cancer male. were both born in the same year and we're 10 days apart. I've known my cancer guy for years and right away we connected. He moved back to his hometown in europe and we decided to stay in touch. we spent days on end talking about everything, and became a regimen for us to continue to talk day to day like for almost 2 years. at this time, all i could think is how much i wanted to be with him. realistically we were much younger and weren't ready for that commitment considering it was long distance [canada-europe]. We expressed how much we cared about each other and if we were in the same city we would be together, but the distance itself was difficult to manage. so we cooled down with contact and I ended up meeting a great guy that i dated for under two years who reminded me so much of my cancer guy. eventually i fell in love with this other guy (scorpio male, born same year) but days later [after our breakup] my cancer male pops up out of no where and said he was coming back to canada for school. so here i was, excited to see him but heartbroken from break up with the scorpio. moving forward, my cancer guy and I have been in contact since, we've gone out and have expressed how we feel saying how he loves me [which he said first]. what's really been annoying is that he has the tendancy to be evasive. one moment he's there and all for me, then the next moment hes no where to be found. being with my scorpio guy we were always in contact, but with my cancer guy his actions dont seem to match up with what he says. am i expecting too much from him? i really thought we are a great match, but i hate the space apart. it's been a slow progression but there is progress just with random dosages of distance.. so my question is does he love me? or does he not, because im falling for him 😢 ---- right now, i seen him 2 days ago and havent talked to him since! Hes been really glum and misses his family and isn't quite happy living here. He hasn't tried to contact or call me but will answer my calls unless his phone off [btw, what does that mean? it makes me insecure thinking maybe there's another girl?? eeks]:s i respect him and his space so im not trying to be an intruder. CLEARLY, im flushed, im a cancer female and just so sensitive. HELP HELP HELP! thank youuu! cancer males whatsup with that?
