My friend introduced me to this guy who's a Cancer/Libra (July 22). We talked twice on Facebook and now he ignores me whenever I say hi. He left the last time in the middle of the conversation. I seem him online almost every day. I am aware he's very busy at times, but I thought he maybe could say this at least (Or that I annoyed him).
After reading here for a bit this seems to be common, him ignoring the other person. I don't know what to think anymore, I just want to be friends with him. I guess I have to be patient, right? I stopped saying anything. Would he delete me otherwise if he was not even interested in being friends with me?
A while ago I saw really shitty Cancer behavior. The guy suddenly ignored me and deleted my replies to his Facebook wall posts. At least then I figured it was time to leave.
Now I sit here, wondering whose idea it was to throw this guy into my life to test my patience (Moon in Aries, everything needs to happen already yesterday). Maybe I just should throw him back into the sea where his crabby ass belongs 😉
Besides ignoring me: What are the chances he's doing this to his friends as well?
I'm on my second cancer guy and i've never experienced this non-stop communicating with me phenomenon.
The one i'm with now wanted me, and fell in love with me, WAY before I even realized anything and he pretty much never initiated contact until i showed more interest. He waited for me because 1.) he feared my rejecting him, and 2.) he moved slow though he felt everything fast (which is why he moved slow to begin with). He began to contact me first, but even then, there would be days without contact unless i initiated. I could tell he was into me though because he would always respond in a timely manner. He never left me hanging or wondering about anything. He was consistent. I also wasn't waiting by the phone for him either. I had a life and he knew it.
The only time I've seen a cancer ignore his friends is if he's feeling really shitty or if the situation has been complicated and he's stalling.
Regardless of his sign, he's clearly being a douche so who cares?
@piranhaparadise You are probably right. I guess I give this still some time and then I remove him. I have no idea why he keeps me around. If I annoyed him, he could delete me. Maybe he thinks, I will do this soon but I am too stubborn to do this 😉
The last Cancer I met was just the way you described them. He was quickly clingy and told me he loves me and wants to get married to me which freaked me out. The whole thing didn't last for too long.
The middle of the road would be nice. Neither ignoring me, nor being too clingy.
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We talked twice on Facebook and now he ignores me whenever I say hi. He left the last time in the middle of the conversation. I seem him online almost every day.
I am aware he's very busy at times, but I thought he maybe could say this at least (Or that I annoyed him).
After reading here for a bit this seems to be common, him ignoring the other person.
I don't know what to think anymore, I just want to be friends with him. I guess I have to be patient, right? I stopped saying anything.
Would he delete me otherwise if he was not even interested in being friends with me?
A while ago I saw really shitty Cancer behavior. The guy suddenly ignored me and deleted my replies to his Facebook wall posts. At least then I figured it was time to leave.
Now I sit here, wondering whose idea it was to throw this guy into my life to test my patience (Moon in Aries, everything needs to happen already yesterday). Maybe I just should throw him back into the sea where his crabby ass belongs 😉
Besides ignoring me: What are the chances he's doing this to his friends as well?