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Good morning, I couldn't sleep at all last night thinking of the events that transpired this past week and I'd like to share:
From Monday to Friday the guy I have been seeing stayed at my place. During that time we talked alot about what we want out of our relationship. We agreed to be exclusive. He said he had informed all his female friends that he was pursuing this relationship and to back off. We shared our feeling and emotions and our pasts. He said this week he had absolutely no complaints: We shared breakfast, dinners. He said he felt a positive change of energy flowing through him.
Friday came and we both had individual plans. I cooked as usual and we agreed I'd drop some food off at his house. He was not home so I just left it there for him because I talked to him prior and he said he'd be there. Upon leaving I called again this time no answer. Saturday morning I did a flea market in the town he lives in. I passed his house at 7:30am and he was not home. By 11:00am I called no answer. So I texted: staying out all night and not answering the phone huh? no response. At 12pm I called still no answer. He texted: On the phone with(male friend) call you in a minute. By 2pm I didn't receive a call so I just texted: so dissapointing, so disrespectful. After my flea market I went home, tired and sleepy, I rested all day to awake to annoying text messages. The fact that he was texting instead of calling annoyed me. So I didn't respond to give him a taste of his own medicine. I went back to sleep. I awake at 3:30am to see a text: I hope your having fun, I will drop your parking pass in your mailbox Monday morning as if to say its over. Is it me or was that cold or what? Was I wrong in any kind of way? Impatient or controlling? My guess is this man has no boundaries, whats yours?

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Good morning, I couldn't sleep at all last night thinking of the events that transpired this past week and I'd like to share:
From Monday to Friday the guy I have been seeing stayed at my place. During that time we talked alot about what we want out of our relationship. We agreed to be exclusive. He said he had informed all his female friends that he was pursuing this relationship and to back off. We shared our feeling and emotions and our pasts. He said this week he had absolutely no complaints: We shared breakfast, dinners. He said he felt a positive change of energy flowing through him.
Friday came and we both had individual plans. I cooked as usual and we agreed I'd drop some food off at his house. He was not home so I just left it there for him because I talked to him prior and he said he'd be there. Upon leaving I called again this time no answer. Saturday morning I did a flea market in the town he lives in. I passed his house at 7:30am and he was not home. By 11:00am I called no answer. So I texted: staying out all night and not answering the phone huh? no response. At 12pm I called still no answer. He texted: On the phone with(male friend) call you in a minute. By 2pm I didn't receive a call so I just texted: so dissapointing, so disrespectful. After my flea market I went home, tired and sleepy, I rested all day to awake to annoying text messages. The fact that he was texting instead of calling annoyed me. So I didn't respond to give him a taste of his own medicine. I went back to sleep. I awake at 3:30am to see a text: I hope your having fun, I will drop your parking pass in your mailbox Monday morning as if to say its over. Is it me or was that cold or what? Was I wrong in any kind of way? Impatient or controlling? My guess is this man has no boundaries, whats yours?

Out of sheer respect for yourself, cut your losses. Sounds like a jerk in general. As far as cold...sounds more like he thought a lot more than he told you and was too affraid to admit anything and just didn't want to hear about a choice he made without you. Sounds like he pulled more of a wuss move.

it's his loss dear,a guy who doesn't give you any signs of life,then makes up stupid shit that is even more incredible then the "dog ate my homework " thing . "Talking to a friend,I'll call you later" , wow,it means that he must be having phone sex with a male friend(yeah right) . My advice : Kick him in the nuts and move on dear,I'm sure you'll find someone better 🙂


Good luck!