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Cancer Man... Bad, Bad, Bad
The man governed by Cancer has the reputation of being easy-going but can be dominant and possessive when it comes to a life partner. Essentially, the character of the Cancer male falls into two categories...one who is dominating and one who adores the home life. Regardless, both species are probably fussy, critical and fault-finding. The recessive man ruled by this Sign can be exceedingly lazy and self-indulgent by nature. Nevertheless, there is a deep and traditional love here for the home and family. The Cancer male has every intention of being a devoted soul with his whole mind focused on family, but his disposition is such that these feelings become translated into exacting demands for service and constant interference in the home and routine. At times, it appears that little can satisfy this man and he perpetually complains about something. Indeed, on occasion, this overwhelmingly interfering trait can prove to be a burden for the entire family. Nevertheless, this is a faithful and sensual individual who seeks constant erotic stimulation. Being rather timid by nature with an abhorrence for danger, the senses of the Cancer man might lead him astray but he is far from willing to be involved in complications that require a degree of effort to sustain.
Yeah this website just points out the worst charecteristics of each sign... to me it does.. They make us sound bad... But yet it's so on point...
The Cancer Woman
The Cancer woman is essentially a very feminine character, often unconsciously seductive in her mannerisms. On occasion, she will consider relinquishing a rather passionate romance in favor of a more stable and conventional relationship. As a sweetheart, she is prone to be rather clinging and likes to "mother" her partner when given the chance. Still, she usually appreciates being told not to fuss overly-much since if she feels she is being taken advantage of, she will accuse her partner of being lazy, selfish and/or degenerate. Nonetheless, this woman does like to be dominated and is happy not to win every argument or come out on top all the time. As a life partner, she should be allowed to go her own way in every small matter and given instruction...or even bossed...on the larger matters. The female ruled by Cancer is capable of providing an attractive and artistic home, but will not necessarily want to stay there all the time. This is a woman who needs an anchor...a partner who can always be counted upon in an emotional sense. In essence, she needs a shoulder to cry on and likes to share her laughter. As a mother, she is neither dominating nor demanding. Indeed, she often neglects to understand the nuances of her children's differing characteristics. In addition, her patience with offspring is not always reliable since there is a tendency here to be temperamental. The Cancer female is usually best with small children...babies and toddlers...but is apt to resent the increasing independence shown by older children. In short, she is likely to be impatient of what she considers to be their strange adolescent ways.
The Cancer Woman
The Cancer woman is essentially a very feminine character, often unconsciously seductive in her mannerisms. On occasion, she will consider relinquishing a rather passionate romance in favor of a more stable and conventional relationship. As a sweetheart, she is prone to be rather clinging and likes to "mother" her partner when given the chance. Still, she usually appreciates being told not to fuss overly-much since if she feels she is being taken advantage of, she will accuse her partner of being lazy, selfish and/or degenerate. Nonetheless, this woman does like to be dominated and is happy not to win every argument or come out on top all the time. As a life partner, she should be allowed to go her own way in every small matter and given instruction...or even bossed...on the larger matters. The female ruled by Cancer is capable of providing an attractive and artistic home, but will not necessarily want to stay there all the time. This is a woman who needs an anchor...a partner who can always be counted upon in an emotional sense. In essence, she needs a shoulder to cry on and likes to share her laughter. As a mother, she is neither dominating nor demanding. Indeed, she often neglects to understand the nuances of her children's differing characteristics. In addition, her patience with offspring is not always reliable since there is a tendency here to be temperamental. The Cancer female is usually best with small children...babies and toddlers...but is apt to resent the increasing independence shown by older children. In short, she is likely to be impatient of what she considers to be their strange adolescent ways.
At her best, this female is sympathetic, affectionate and protective...to say nothing of being devoted and adaptable. Her presence is generally sanctifying and she understands how to serve. In return for her devotion, the Cancer woman is undoubtedly loved and respected. Still, she can often be a moody, changeable and ignorant soul...one who is unwilling to be improved. In addition, she can be temperamental to a fault and sensitive in the extreme. She oftentimes seeks protection and will need the help and guidance of a partner to provide the strength with which to meet life's problems. Any partner will almost certainly be placed upon a pedestal in this female's imagination and if that partner should
What I mean moon eyes... Well, I should of been more direct as to why they make it sound like we are bad people... They pointed out most of the bad things because to most people all of that would sound bad... it makes it sound like the cancer women is just a door mat, we like to be bossed around!!! .. That's what it makes it sound like... But, like I stated it is all on point because that is totally me... as is this...
Cancer man, they make sound like he's just never happy... That's not true...
Cancer man, they make sound like he's just never happy... That's not true...
Cancer man wants to dominate... Cancer women wants to be dominated... So wouldn't they just make the perfect match...
This is a good read too...
The Cancer female is truly affectionate and kind. She will be devoted to family and friends and is inherently very sentimental and charitable...particularly where illness or trouble is concerned. However, unless completely satisfied with her position in life, which includes an active and monogamous physical relationship, this woman can become inconsistent and fickle. Here, there is a combination of loneliness and loveliness. More than anything else, the Cancer female desires security. Her home is not only her castle, but also a moated fortress which stands against all the trials and tribulations of the world. Indeed, this need for feeling safe is so strong that if a partner cannot provide it, the Cancer woman is certain to stray and begin to look elsewhere...but if such is furnished, then she will be incredibly faithful, loyal and charming. Domestication means everything to this female, which is not to say that she is so much into material things. Rather, she rather wishes to share everything with her mate and her house and home are symbolic of this desire. Blessed with a highly developed sense of intuition, it is impossible to keep secrets from this woman or conceal an interest in someone else. Not only will she know in advance when something important is about to happen, she also in some strange way knows what her partner is doing...with whom, as well as where and when. In short, the woman ruled by Cancer is nobody's fool. Above all else, this female requires constant assurance that she is loved, which could mean devoting more time to the romantic arena that a partner may be accustomed to. In order to achieve happiness with this woman, it will be necessary to constantly appeal to her loving nature and emotions. Under no circumstances should she ever be belittled or subjected to scorn and/or sarcasm. In addition, it would be unwise to criticize this female, even if it is felt that such comments are necessary and helpful. The Cancer woman is naturally supersensitive and can all too easily develop an inferiority complex if her attention is called to some peculiarity she may possess. One such idiosyncrasy is likely to be the tendency to collect, rescue and save things that others would probably consider to be totally useless items. Stray pets...and possibly even stray people...could well find their way to this woman's doorstep. When contented and secure, the Cancer female makes for an excellent partner and a loving mother...one
The Cancer female is truly affectionate and kind. She will be devoted to family and friends and is inherently very sentimental and charitable...particularly where illness or trouble is concerned. However, unless completely satisfied with her position in life, which includes an active and monogamous physical relationship, this woman can become inconsistent and fickle. Here, there is a combination of loneliness and loveliness. More than anything else, the Cancer female desires security. Her home is not only her castle, but also a moated fortress which stands against all the trials and tribulations of the world. Indeed, this need for feeling safe is so strong that if a partner cannot provide it, the Cancer woman is certain to stray and begin to look elsewhere...but if such is furnished, then she will be incredibly faithful, loyal and charming. Domestication means everything to this female, which is not to say that she is so much into material things. Rather, she rather wishes to share everything with her mate and her house and home are symbolic of this desire. Blessed with a highly developed sense of intuition, it is impossible to keep secrets from this woman or conceal an interest in someone else. Not only will she know in advance when something important is about to happen, she also in some strange way knows what her partner is doing...with whom, as well as where and when. In short, the woman ruled by Cancer is nobody's fool. Above all else, this female requires constant assurance that she is loved, which could mean devoting more time to the romantic arena that a partner may be accustomed to. In order to achieve happiness with this woman, it will be necessary to constantly appeal to her loving nature and emotions. Under no circumstances should she ever be belittled or subjected to scorn and/or sarcasm. In addition, it would be unwise to criticize this female, even if it is felt that such comments are necessary and helpful. The Cancer woman is naturally supersensitive and can all too easily develop an inferiority complex if her attention is called to some peculiarity she may possess. One such idiosyncrasy is likely to be the tendency to collect, rescue and save things that others would probably consider to be totally useless items. Stray pets...and possibly even stray people...could well find their way to this woman's doorstep. When contented and secure, the Cancer female makes for an excellent partner and a loving mother...one
excellent partner and a loving mother...
The Cancer woman may well consider a committed relationship as something of a status symbol. At times, she might even consider giving up quite a passionate romance in exchange for a more stable partnership. As a mate, she tends to be somewhat clinging...perhaps a little too clinging for some individuals...but then, she does have a knack for boosting a partner's ego. By her very nature, this woman likes to "mother" any partner if given the chance...but she does appreciate being told not to fuss overly much since if she does feel as though she is being taken advantage of, then she is apt to accuse her partner of being lazy, selfish and degenerate. This is a woman who likes to be mastered. She is not particularly interested in winning every argument, nor does she care if she comes out on top all the time. Exceedingly feminine in her walk and her mannerisms, the Cancer woman is considered to be very seductive...often unconsciously so. In a long term commitment, she should be allowed to go her own way in every small matter and "bossed" in the larger ones. She will provide an attractive and artistic home, but will not always necessarily want to remain there. As a mother, she will be neither dominating nor demanding. Indeed, this female may even neglect to understand the nuances of her children's different characteristics. In addition, her patience with children is not always reliable for she can be temperamental. The Cancer woman is probably best with little children...babies and toddlers...but is prone to resent the increasing independence displayed by older children, even becoming impatient with heir adolescent behavior. This woman needs an anchor...a mate who will constantly be reliable in the emotional sense. She needs a shoulder to cry on and also likes to share her laughter. The Cancer female is essentially a feminine soul and will undoubtedly seek for a partner with very masculine traits. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any mate to realize that the moods of a woman governed by Cancer are changeable. She must be treated with love and ruled with an iron fist in a velvet glove. It is important to respect this female's opinions and views and avoid arguments as much as possible...particularly over trivial matters since any partner is probably destined to come off worst.
The Cancer woman may well consider a committed relationship as something of a status symbol. At times, she might even consider giving up quite a passionate romance in exchange for a more stable partnership. As a mate, she tends to be somewhat clinging...perhaps a little too clinging for some individuals...but then, she does have a knack for boosting a partner's ego. By her very nature, this woman likes to "mother" any partner if given the chance...but she does appreciate being told not to fuss overly much since if she does feel as though she is being taken advantage of, then she is apt to accuse her partner of being lazy, selfish and degenerate. This is a woman who likes to be mastered. She is not particularly interested in winning every argument, nor does she care if she comes out on top all the time. Exceedingly feminine in her walk and her mannerisms, the Cancer woman is considered to be very seductive...often unconsciously so. In a long term commitment, she should be allowed to go her own way in every small matter and "bossed" in the larger ones. She will provide an attractive and artistic home, but will not always necessarily want to remain there. As a mother, she will be neither dominating nor demanding. Indeed, this female may even neglect to understand the nuances of her children's different characteristics. In addition, her patience with children is not always reliable for she can be temperamental. The Cancer woman is probably best with little children...babies and toddlers...but is prone to resent the increasing independence displayed by older children, even becoming impatient with heir adolescent behavior. This woman needs an anchor...a mate who will constantly be reliable in the emotional sense. She needs a shoulder to cry on and also likes to share her laughter. The Cancer female is essentially a feminine soul and will undoubtedly seek for a partner with very masculine traits. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any mate to realize that the moods of a woman governed by Cancer are changeable. She must be treated with love and ruled with an iron fist in a velvet glove. It is important to respect this female's opinions and views and avoid arguments as much as possible...particularly over trivial matters since any partner is probably destined to come off worst.
She appears to have more self-confidence that she truly possesses, so it will be necessary to provide her with constant reassurance.
The Cancer male is basically a kind-hearted and sympathetic soul...one who is always willing to share. However, he is endowed with a natural feeling of inferiority, which has absolutely nothing to do with his educational level, accomplishments, success or income. If the man governed by Cancer cannot come to grips with this shadowy aspect of his character, then he will be prone to frequently talk about himself...turning any conversation until if focuses on him. By nature, he is very nervous beneath the surface, but may appear calm and contented on the outside. To achieve happiness with a Cancer male, it will be necessary for a potential mate to smother him with an abundance of affection and constant attention...ensuring that he feels his home is truly his castle. This man makes for an excellent partner, assuming that there are unending appeals to his emotional side and his generosity. Empathy, appreciation, encouragement and attention...particularly in the romantic arena...are the keys to this man's true nature. He has the ability to earn large sums of money and will be a good provider. Generally speaking, Cancer males are not necessarily the easiest of individuals to love but, behind that hard shell lays a heart that is essentially soft. An outright idealist who expects to make his own mistakes, this man will be totally thrown should his partner do the same. Even though this is a sensitive and peace-loving individual, the man ruled by Cancer does enjoy a good family feud from time-to-time, believing that it serves to clear the air. But, should someone outside his family attack anyone he loves, then he will always stand ready for battle. The biggest challenge here will be dealing with the Cancer moodiness, which is composed of fragments of his deepest feelings, character, hopes and dreams. If he is caught in the act of daydreaming, it is important to allow him his reverie for this male needs dreams in order to be the highly successful provider that he is. Above all, a potential mate should never approach the Cancer male in search of sympathy when he is in one of his moods. To do so can accomplish nothing. An excellent partner and father to his children, the Cancer male should be absolutely certain about a future mate prior to embarking on a long term relationship. This is a man who should not commit too early in life, but needs to wait until he has learned to control his emotions...as well as determining what he wishes to do with himself when he grows up.
Moody but rarely mean, the Cancer male is a romantic soul possessed of much sex appeal, but one who is not always confident of his own attractiveness. He understands women very well and is fond of children. Athough kind by nature, this man is not soft. Truly a one-partner individual, the male governed by Cancer can sulk privately for days if his feelings are hurt. He is best left alone when in a depressed mood for too much sympathy only serves to make him brood. Far too deep to be summed up on first acquaintance, he should not be subjected to snap judgments from others. The Cancer male has a fine sense of humor and a healthy outlook on the world in general, but is prone to put on an act of geniality in order to hide his own feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. In short, it takes a long time to truly get to know this man. He can be an amusing and gallant escort if he so chooses but is difficult to pin down. This male may avoid a serious relationship for as long as possible and even then, enter into it with much trepidation. Still, if he finds he has the right partner, he wil settle blissfully into a long term commitment. However, if he suspects he has made the wrong choice after all, he can become well-nigh impossible to live with. Males ruled by Cancer tend to be subjective in emotional matters and virtually unable to see anything from an objective point of view when upset. Nonetheless, they are generous with affection and desire an abundance of attention in return...feeling bitterly deprived if they do not receive it. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any mate to recognize that this man likes to be left alone, without question, when he feels the need to sort out the world's problems and his own. Flattery never works with the Cancer male unless there is a genuine desire to please him and no attempt on the part of any mate to achieve personal ends. He can be deeply hurt, so restraint must be used with regard to any quick or thoughtless criticism and/or reproof. This is an attractive man, although he seldom believes such to be the case. Thus, his ego needs boosting at all times.
that is what i love about being a cancer man..i can be good when i need to be and i can also be very very bad when i feel like it too...lol
that is what i love about being a cancer man..i can be good when i need to be and i can also be very very bad when i feel like it too...lol
Yes you sound like a true cancer man with that statement... Bad cause you feel like it!!
Yes you sound like a true cancer man with that statement... Bad cause you feel like it!!
honeygirl you know what is funny..i am dating a virgo and i can totally see our differences when we communicate. she always says "i think" while i always say "i feel". have to love the subtle differences..
honeygirl you know what is funny..i am dating a virgo and i can totally see our differences when we communicate. she always says "i think" while i always say "i feel". have to love the subtle differences..
Cancers live off of their feelings... we are emotional and indepth... Virgos definately don't move off of feelings... I've discovered that it's not always about how you feel... Making decisions based upon our feelings and so on... Like I stated in another post I think it takes us a long time to learn who we really are because I know I've grown alot over the years...
Cancers live off of their feelings... we are emotional and indepth... Virgos definately don't move off of feelings... I've discovered that it's not always about how you feel... Making decisions based upon our feelings and so on... Like I stated in another post I think it takes us a long time to learn who we really are because I know I've grown alot over the years...
honeygirl, totally agree but we cancers always use our head and feelings but normally lean toward our feelings since that is what we tend to listen to more..such a hard catch 22..
i know i am always thinking and analyzing..in fact i have a tendency to over analyze everything..lol
come on merc i am always willing to listen to someone's advice..enlighten me..
Yes its normal...
Hey Merc... Do you have some kind of vendetta against Cancers?
Are you dating one?
I know it is you find us al amusing... So you hang out in the cancer section of DXP...
eee? Oh okay cnacer men are bad...lol. We are really good natured but yes we tend to have emotions dat run deep and when we feel something aint right we go with instincts which reveals the truth one way or another.
eee? Oh okay cnacer men are bad...lol. We are really good natured but yes we tend to have emotions dat run deep and when we feel something aint right we go with instincts which reveals the truth one way or another.
I agree Black but, I think sometimes you guys over exagerate the situation... And tend not to think about anyone elses feelings but, your own... Like for instance if you have done something to someone and someone retaliates and does something back... ALL HELL!!! You can dish it but you can't take it... It may reveal the truth one way or another but, what does the truth really mean? Just that you were right... And ya'll love to be right that's why it reveals itself one way or another it's like a fight till the end...
I agree Black but, I think sometimes you guys over exagerate the situation... And tend not to think about anyone elses feelings but, your own... Like for instance if you have done something to someone and someone retaliates and does something back... ALL HELL!!! You can dish it but you can't take it... It may reveal the truth one way or another but, what does the truth really mean? Just that you were right... And ya'll love to be right that's why it reveals itself one way or another it's like a fight till the end...
I agree with that last p-graph honey. The dish it out but PLEASE dont make them take it. Its ok for my Cancer to be busy and elusive just beyond reach but let me try to do my own thing and he runs farther away with the thought that I will abandon him. Its still so hard to shake him tho.....dayum Cancers lol. *calling a meeting with LLT*
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The Cancer male can be a moody individual, but is rarely mean-spirited. An exceedingly romantic soul, he is not always confident of his own attractiveness. He possesses a keen understanding of women and likes children. He is kind-hearted but not soft and is truly a one-partner individual. When this man's feelings are hurt, he can sulk privately for days, but is best left alone when low since too much sympathy causes him to brood. The male governed by Cancer is far too deep to sum-up on first acquaintance, although his sense of humor is sure to impress as will his outlook on the world. Still, this is a man who can adopt an air of geniality in order to hide his own sense of inadequacy and insecurity. It takes a long time to get to know the Cancer male. He tends to be subjective in emotional matters and unable to see anything from an objective point of view when he is upset. Yet, he is generous with his affection and desires the same in return, feeling bitterly deprived if such is not forthcoming. This male can be a gallant and amusing sweetheart and/or escort...if he so wishes...but is difficult to pin down. He is prone to avoid a serious relationship for as long as possible and then enter into one with an abundance of trepidation. If he believes he has found the right partner, then he will settle blissfully into a long-term relationship. If he suspects he has chosen incorrectly, then he can be virtually impossible to live with.