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Cancer Man Complicating Things
If you're not interested in a relationship with him your friendship probably won't work anymore. I was friends with my cancer bf at first too. He is an amazing friend and only has a few other close ones. They can't handle the long-term rejection of being around a girl they like all the time and not having anything more though.
I've had guy friends ask for more physical stuff plenty of times. I've always said no and our friendship ends. If the friendship will continue, he needs to do the work to get it back again. If all he wants is physical, and you say no to the physical, he'll be gone.
Also, he sounds mentally unstable. Be careful.
I've had guy friends ask for more physical stuff plenty of times. I've always said no and our friendship ends. If the friendship will continue, he needs to do the work to get it back again. If all he wants is physical, and you say no to the physical, he'll be gone.
Also, he sounds mentally unstable. Be careful.
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